ABOUT ME

Experienced, respectful and knowledgeable Dom who is down to earth, fun, funny and easy-going.

WHAT TO EXPECT

A Dom/sub relationship is a fun and exciting journey. I’m not going to go into too much detail as every journey is different, and also so much more exciting when you don’t know all the details.

Disclaimer: Every Dom is different. Every Dom has different ideas and techniques. This is what you can expect with me; a Sensuous Dom.

WHAT IS A SENSUOUS DOM?

This is the little niche I have found for myself in the kink world. Whilst many D/s dynamics focus on the exchange of power and the power a Dom has over an submissive. For me, the keyword is ‘passion’ rather than ‘power’. I am interested to understand my sub’s desires, and what excites and delights her.

WHAT FIRST?

Communication is really important and encouraged throughout, starting with a candid conversation to talk about what you want to achieve, your desires and your kinks. What things would you like to try and explore and what are my expectations of you? Happy to share my list of Sub Rules, these are up for discussion and negotiation. You will likely be surprised at some of the rules – most subs are.

LIMITS AND SAFETY

Safe and consensual are critical elements of any BDSM relationship. Prospective subs get to complete a kink “menu” which asks about your hard limits and you get to rank other kinky activities. Safe words are important. And if you use a safe word, everything stops. No ifs, no buts and most importantly no consequences. My sub will never be punished or made to feel bad for using a safe word… ever.

AFTERCARE

Aftercare is also important and should NEVER be overlooked. We will talk about aftercare and what works for you whether it’s a cuppa, a cuddle or some quiet time.

PUNISHMENTS

Disobedience will attract punishment. The severity of the disobedience will determine the punishment!

WHAT NOW?

If you have any other questions, just ask. Always happy to chat.