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Sexual wellness products make up a huge market today. While there are some hidden gems, there’s also, unfortunately, a flood of products that claim to include toe-curling sensations but don’t actually live up to the mark. Orgasm gels and balms are one category that gets a lot of buzz, often promising heightened sensitivity, stronger climaxes,…

He’s married. He’s never been with a man. He swears he’s straight. But he just booked a male escort. It might sound like a contradiction — but it’s increasingly common. Whether it’s a one-time curiosity or part of a longer exploration, more men who identify as straight are booking male escorts — and doing so…

The 22nd of April marks Earth Day, an international event designed to draw attention to environmental protection and living sustainably. However, adopting a greener lifestyle isn’t just about buying secondhand clothes or taking a reusable bag to the supermarket. You can even weave sustainable practices into your bedroom—and we’re not talking about buying pre-loved furniture!…

When you hear “sex education”, you likely think of blush-inducing secondary school classes or the hit Netflix show. Sex education is a critical subject, but it’s not only for adolescents! We should all continue to expand our knowledge into adulthood. After all, with age comes wisdom – but only if you keep learning! Today, we’re…

Buying sex toys is hugely normalised these days. But why does the idea of going to a sex shop leave us all pink-faced and flustered? It’s time to break the misconceptions surrounding sex toy shopping. From the benefits of in-store shopping to what to do when you arrive, this blog will be your handy companion…

Baby talk might make your stomach churn, but studies have shown that nearly two-thirds of couples regularly use baby talk. So, why is this? Today, we’re looking at what baby talk actually means, why couples do it, and whether it has any sexual components. Get ready for a whistle-stop linguistic lesson and a few dating…

You’ve been dreaming of this fantasy for years, and now you’ve finally got to live it out. But why do you feel so embarrassed afterwards? Whether you’ve ticked off a bucket list scene or just started to dip your toes in the world of kink, feeling shy or ashamed after getting off is more normal…

There are plenty of pitfalls and mistakes you can make when dating a trans person, even if you mean no harm. From accidentally offensive questions to expecting your date to share their life story, it’s better to do your own research before showing up at the restaurant. This article is designed to provide you with…

Break-ups are never pleasant. One moment, you’re sobbing. The next, you feel relieved, and then you’re feeling guilty again. There’s no roadmap to follow and no one to understand what you’re going through. The last thing you want to do is work through the admin associated with break-ups. But tackling these tedious topics now can…

Though sex pops up in our social media feeds, on TV, and sometimes in conversations with friends, we’re having less of it than ever before. So, are you satisfied with your sex life? If you are, you might not need the information in this blog. However, if you secretly wish for better or more sex,…

Children are a miracle. From falling pregnant to enjoying life with a newborn, every moment of raising young ones is extraordinary and, safe to say – hectic. Whether you’re caught up in the bliss of growing your family or feeling like a sleep-deprived zombie, jumping under the sheets for a moment of passion is likely…

Undergoing a hysterectomy is a big life event. But it doesn’t have to put an end to your sex life. Today, the Vivastreet experts are discussing how to safely approach sex after a hysterectomy. From how long you need to wait to practical tips, you’ll find everything you need to know in this guide. What…

Imagine you’re on a luxury cruise, sailing the seas, seeing new cities, and you can explore your sexual desires without shame. Sounds too good to be true? Not in the world of adult cruises. On these 18+ holidays, you board the boat and have the go-ahead to let your freak flag fly. Like sex-positive swinger…

Whether you’re newly sober or a long-time teetotaler, the idea of having sober sex for the first time is often enough to make your palms sweaty. But why is having sex without the sauce like losing your virginity all over again? Spoiler alert: It doesn’t have to be! Having sober sex for the first time…

The new year is here, and it’s time to embrace the fresh start. However, new sexual experiences aren’t the only way to celebrate 2025. It’s also an excellent time to reflect on your current sexual habits – think of it like spring cleaning your sex life, but a little earlier in the year! In this…

all need a helping hand now and then, even when it comes to sex. Whether you’re at the start of your sexuality journey or an experienced lover, it’s always good to have some lesbian and queer sex tips on hand to ensure your beau has a satisfying time. And you, too! Today, we’re focusing on…

Talking about sex is enough to make plenty of Brits blush, so it’s no surprise that the conversation is still on the down low. Yet the government reported an increase in STIs over the last few years. More people are being affected by preventable (and curable) diseases, and we’re still not talking about it enough.…

Parenthood is wonderful but also brings major changes in a person’s life. It’s normal for couples to have a hard time getting into their rhythm postpartum, and that includes navigating intimacy. The journey into parenthood is transformative and comes with as much joy as it does complications. If you and your partner have been struggling…

Love languages are an interesting buzzword in the dating sphere. Some gurus make them out to be the be-all and end-all of relationships. So, what happens if you and your partner have different love languages? Today, we’re looking at whether incompatible love languages are a sign your relationship is unlikely to work out and what…

Did you know that astrology can affect your behaviour in the bedroom? The astrological identities might inform our sexual selves more than you’d expect. In this article, we’re breaking down the astrological signs and providing sex tips that suit each sign’s characteristics. From Aries at the top of the astrological calendar to Pisces, our experts…

Travel can fuel your soul. But what happens when you’ve seen the sights and want to experience something a little different? Swinging and swinger parties are becoming more popular every year. However, you don’t have to limit yourself to your local area. There are plenty of swingers, resorts, clubs, and cruises across the world. This…

It’s time to put down your smartphone and pick up a book. National Book Lovers Day is celebrated every August 9th. It’s a time for readers to come together and share their love for books, reading, and all things literature. However, we’re celebrating it a little differently. Forget the chaste classics. Start National Book Lovers…

Orgasms feel good. But do you actually know why? To celebrate National Orgasm Day (31st July), we’re stripping orgasms back to the scientific basics. From how they work to their benefits, this is a tell-all guide about orgasms and what they actually do. We’ve also found some tips and tricks to help you have stronger…

Whether you’re with a partner or flying solo, women often face more barriers to orgasm. From lack of biological knowledge to mental blocks, it’s no surprise that 20% of women claim they’ve never orgasmed, and a shocking 50% wish they could orgasm more. Though not so taboo anymore, the female orgasm has always divided opinion.…

Listen up! Do you know your BDSM ABCs? This BDSM Day, we’re learning exactly that and we will walk you through the A to Z of BDSM terms. Think of this article as your guide to the most common phrases used on the BDSM scene. Some relate to specific sex acts, some to safeguarding practices,…

Mark July 21st in your calendar. It’s a date you don’t want to forget! Wondering why? The 21st of July is International Handjob Day, and yes, that’s a real thing. The day is dedicated to celebrating the pleasure of the popular sex act, spreading sensual tips and trips, and making light-hearted quips. Whether you’re curious…

Have you ever thought of making a sex tape before? While it sounds spicy and taboo, it can be a great way to maintain that spark between you and your partner and build a new sense of intimacy. We live in the digital age that gives us access to high-quality cameras that fit in our…

When was the last time you were in the buff? Was it on a nudist beach? Or in a nightmare? Being completely naked is a fear for most Brits. However, for International Nudity Day, July 14th, we’re looking at what it really means to be naked. From the naturist lifestyle to the benefits of stripping…

From tongues to quick pecks, there are plenty of ways to show your passion. But what does your go-to kissing style say about you? You’d be surprised at how much you can learn about someone from a kiss… To celebrate International Kissing Day (6th of July), we’re delving into the main kissing styles and what…

You’re in the wrong place if you’re looking for a fruity cocktail recipe. However, if you’re interested in loving a new location or taking your summer fling to the next level, you might want to stick around. In this article, we’re answering all of your questions about sex on the beach. From the legalities to…

Whether you’re a seasoned Pride veteran or just starting your journey of discovery, this informative Pride alphabet is here to help you navigate the vibrant world of LGBTQ+ terminology. From Asexual to Ze/Hir, we’ve got you covered with everything you need to celebrate and understand the wonderful spectrum of identities and expressions that make up…

June 21st isn’t only the time of the summer solstice. It’s also World Kamasutra Day. Is there a better way to celebrate one of the longest days of the year than with your partner and a few new positions? Whether you’ve read the famous book or have no clue what we’re talking about, stay on…

You’re on a first date. The sparks are flying, and you can’t stop blushing. But suddenly, they utter the dreaded words: “Do you want to get a pint?” Suddenly, you have to explain that, for whatever reason, alcohol isn’t your thing. Though more young people than ever are cutting out the booze, dating while sober…

National Sex Day (June 9th) is one of the best days of the year. It’s a day all about recognising the importance of sex and pleasure. What else could you ask for? But this year, we’re flipping the script. Rather than explaining the benefits of sex and pleasure, we’ve researched 15 mind-blowing facts about sex…

The five love languages are a big topic in the dating world. But can you really boil your feelings down into one box? Scientists and psychologists think yes! So, it’s time to learn how you best give and receive love. Whether you’re looking for a casual fling or a committed partnership, you’ll have a more…

Welcome to our Pride Month Glossary, your comprehensive guide to understanding key terms and concepts within the LGBTQ+ community.  As we celebrate Pride Month, it’s essential to recognise the diversity and richness of the LGBTQ+ spectrum. This glossary aims to educate and inform, offering clear definitions and explanations of terms that are crucial to understanding…

Losing your virginity is a major step in your life that can happen at any age. Some people lose it early; others lose it later in life. Either way, the entire experience can be tense, and there’s no shame in feeling anxious about it. Regardless of gender or sexual orientation, it’s important to be knowledgeable…

Looking to add a bit more spice to the bedroom? Whether you’re alone or with a partner, sex toys are a great way to add a new dimension of pleasure to your sexual experiences. But if you’ve never bought a sex toy before, you may be wondering where you should start. There are tons of…

When people discuss intimacy, physical closeness is the first thing that comes to mind. After all, being intimate with someone usually means being physically close and connected to each other. However, while the physical aspect of intimacy is obvious, it isn’t the only factor at play. Having satisfying and fulfilling intimate encounters requires an emotional…

We all get stressed. You can’t avoid certain things happening in your life that can make things tough for you. While you can’t avoid stress, there’s no denying that it can majorly affect a person’s life. Stress can manifest itself physically and mentally, and one of the biggest areas that stress can affect is a…

Our mental well-being significantly influences our sexuality and has a major influence on our sexual relationships. This includes our desires and how we want them satisfied, which is why it’s critical for people to familiarise themselves with the intricate relationship between mental health and sexuality. People often overlook mental health when building intimate relationships, despite…

Everybody’s sexual journey is unique. Each individual has their own experiences, desires, and dislikes when it comes to sex. But while some people have an easy time figuring out what works and what doesn’t for them, others aren’t as lucky. What is solo exploration? The benefits of solo exploration Physical benefits of solo exploration How…

Studies show that six out of ten Americans have watched porn in their lifetime, and over 25% have watched it in the past month as of March 2024. So, there’s a pretty decent chance that either you or your partner consumes porn from time to time. While there’s nothing wrong with watching porn while in…

After signing the divorce papers, getting down in the dark is likely the last thing on your mind. But as time passes, you might feel lighter and ready to open your life to someone new. There’s no right or wrong way to start dating after divorce, but there are some strategies you can use to…

Want to rip the bandaid off and meet other singles in the same boat as you? Speed dating could be your next adventure. There are barely any cons to this unique dating strategy, but there are a few things to know before you attend. What is speed dating? How does speed dating work? Where can…

Zoom meetings and conference calls rarely feel sexy. So, what’s the buzz about virtual sexy parties? In this article, we’re looking at the latest trend of video-conferencing sex parties, what to expect from one, and how to get involved. What is a virtual sex party? What to expect from a virtual sex party? Virtual sex…

An avoidant attachment style can leave you without any close relationships. But are you truly happy after you’ve pushed your loved ones away? Today, we’re diving into what it means to be an avoidant attachment style. Whether you’re dating someone with this style or realising you’re an avoidant, this guide is here to help you…

69 is one of those numbers we can’t help but giggle at. But do you know why this number has naughty connections? Today, we’re diving into everything you need to know about 69ing. From the basics to tips to bring more pleasure, we’re not holding back. What is the 69 position? Variations of 69ing Why…

Dating as someone with codependent tendencies can be extremely difficult, especially if you’re still working through your feelings and relationship style. However, if you do find yourself drawn to dating, approaching the topic prepared and confidently is critical. What is codependency? What causes codependency? Behaviours and signs to be aware of when dating Healing your…

If you’ve ever taken a peep at your anatomy with a handheld mirror, you might have wondered whether your vagina is normal or not. In a society with immense pressure to look a certain way, worrying about your body is an unfortunately normal phenomenon. However, these feelings of stress and uncertainty can feel even more…

Tickling isn’t something we think of as sexy. But with the right mood and partner, it can be a game changer in the bedroom. Keep reading if you’ve ever wondered why tickling feels so good or whether your partner would let you tickle them after dark. What is tickling and why does it feel good?…

From pineapples to sex parties, today we’re looking at all things swinging. Whether you’re in the know or not, keep reading. What is swinging? How does swinging work? Does swinging benefit your relationship? Swinging vs polyamory The benefits & drawbacks of swinging Is swinging right for you? The takeaway In this article, you’ll find everything…

From going on three first dates a week to attending a singles party every month, dating goals are here to help you meet a beau. But how do they work? And do you really need to write a goal list? Today, we’re looking at dating goals and whether they’re right for you. What are dating…

Have you ever come across the term “body count”? At first, it might be confusing, as we all only have one body. You can’t have two (right?). However, body count refers to something entirely different – your sexual experience. In this blog, we’re taking a deep dive into body counts, whether your body count is…

The first week of March welcomes National Threesome Day, and for many couples, this means opening their minds and exploring new sexual experiences. While there are countless articles about how to navigate a threesome as a couple, there aren’t too many guides on how to be the third party in a threesome. Some third parties…

March 3rd is National Threesome Day, and that means there’s a fair amount of couples around looking to expand their sexual experiences and try bringing a third person into the bedroom. But while this idea may sound spicy and fun, a lot of couples have a tough time actually finding a third partner for a…

If you’re experiencing a low sex drive after starting antidepressants, you’re not alone. This is a common side effect, and multiple ways exist to navigate the issue. So, scroll down to learn more about this problem and what you can do to reignite your sexual desire. Let’s jump into it. Do antidepressants affect your sex…

Our bodies go through many natural changes as we age. One of the biggest changes that people with a uterus undergo is menopause when they stop menstruating and lose the ability to get pregnant. For many people, this can sound like a dream – not having to worry about your period or an unexpected pregnancy.…

Dark rooms are becoming a popular add-on to a night out. But they’re nothing new. These saucy spaces have been in queer spaces for decades. What is a dark room? Who can enter a dark room? Consent and etiquette in dark rooms STIs and dark rooms The current boom of dark rooms How do you…

If your sex life has slowly diminished, you might have found yourself searching for “dead bedroom cures”. However, fixing a lack of intimacy isn’t so simple. Couples should approach the issue with patience and understanding, and today, we’re going to discuss how. What is a dead bedroom? The most common reasons for a dead bedroom…

The day has finally arrived. Tonight, you’re going to your first sex party. But what on Earth should you expect from the evening? How to prepare for a sex party What to do when you arrive at a sex party Unexpected sex party things you might not know Why you shouldn’t expect to play at…

Exploring kinks with your partner can be quite a challenge. If you haven’t explored each other’s sexual desires, spicing up things in the bedroom can become really tricky. However, transitioning from a vanilla sex life to a kinky one isn’t impossible. In fact, all it takes is open communication and trust between you and your…

Is 2024 the year you’ll find your true love? Or will you be swiping for hours without results? Whether you love or hate it, dating is a fact of life. Like clothes and films, dating also sees yearly trends, and the more of these you understand, the better your dating experience will be. If one…

Furries are a divisive topic. You either know and understand the subculture, or you’ve heard rumours and misconceptions. Either way, you likely have questions about this unique community. What are furries? What do furries do? Furries and sexual exploration How to join the furry community The takeaway Today, we’re answering the questions you’re too embarrassed…

Have you ever fantasised about wearing a collar while playing with your partner? Collars are a hot accessory that can help you dip your toes into the BDSM world and allow you to show your complete submission to your partner. Can you have a collar kink? How are collars related to BDSM? Different types of…

Like all things in the bedroom, lighting comes down to personal preference. However, if you haven’t tried sex with the lights on (or off), this is your sign to mix it up. How does lighting affect sex? Benefits and drawbacks of having the lights on Pros and cons of having the lights off Which is…

Everyone approaches sex differently. We all have unique desires, kinks, and turn-offs that make the sexual journey a lot of fun. But while you’ve probably heard of or have experience with the common fetishes, there are probably quite a few that you aren’t too familiar with. So this Fetish Day, we’re looking at a few…

Shower sex is usually better in your head than in real life. It always sounds great – having you and your partner explore each other while the shower warms you up. However, when you try it, you might find yourselves scrambling to figure out which position works best for you. That said, shower sex doesn’t…

The shower is a great place to explore your kinks and sexual desires, whether you’re alone or with a partner. That said, many people view shower sex as something that’s more fun in theory than in practice. While this can be true, adding a few shower-friendly sex toys to your shower can elevate the experience…

Realising your contraception has failed or noticing your period is late are moments that make your heart stop in its tracks. A pregnancy scare can leave you feeling stuck. But it’s critical to know you have options and steps to take, even before you know whether you’re pregnant or not. What is a pregnancy scare?…

If you’re getting ready for your first STI test, you might be nervous about the unknown – but you shouldn’t be. Though STI testing is a routine procedure, it’s barely spoken about and surrounded by myths. We want to set the record straight. What happens at an STI test STI test results At-home STI testing…

You can be as careful as possible, but there’s always the chance that birth control might fail. Perhaps you forgot your pill, or maybe the condom split. These things happen. Unprotected sex isn’t anything to be embarrassed about! What is emergency contraception? Types of emergency contraception Side effects of emergency contraception How effective is emergency…

You may recognise the word “demisexual”, but do you know what it means? In this blog, we’re celebrating demisexuality and raising awareness about everything it entails. From what being demisexual means to understanding whether you’re demisexual, we’re covering all the common questions and spotlighting helpful educational resources. What does demisexual mean? Signs you might be…

Can a pinch be pleasurable? The nipple clamp community thinks so, and guess what? You might, too! Nipple clamps are a small sex toy that often gets lost in the overall discussion but don’t overlook these little clamps. They can make a big difference in the bedroom. What are nipple clamps? What do nipple clamps…

Polyamorous relationships are growing more popular by the day. But just like any type of relationship, some complications come with polyamory. In polyamorous relationships, it’s normal for one or multiple people to feel jealous and insecure. While some people believe that jealousy and insecurity aren’t a thing in a polyamorous relationship, that’s far from the…

Happy Polyamory Day! Though many people across the world are thriving in consensual polyamorous relationships, this relationship style is still surrounded by myths and misconceptions. To celebrate Polyamory Day (23rd November), we want to use our voice to educate our readers about what it means to be polyamorous, the different relationship styles, and how to…

Did the title catch your eye? Sex during pregnancy is a question many are afraid to ask. It’s also a topic surrounded by myths and misconceptions. Can you have sex while pregnant? Sex in pregnancy: Changes in each trimester Potential risks of sex during pregnancy Safe sex and pregnancy How to make sex more comfortable…

If your eyes are drawn to the more mature dating app users, don’t worry. You’re not alone. Up to 8% of Western male-female couples have an age gap of 10 years or more, and this statistic is on the rise. But if you’re ready to act on your age-gap fantasies, ensure you’re completely prepared for…

What comes to your mind when you think of wintertime sex? Goosebumps and shivering? Or hot, sensual lovemaking? Hopefully, the latter comes to mind. But if it doesn’t, we’re here to help. In this article, you’ll find seven spicy tips to boost your sex life this festive season. From navigating sex when staying with family…

Let’s talk about STIs. It’s not the most glamorous topic, but it’s an important one. Being informed and preventing STIs is the best way to keep yourself and your partner healthy, so don’t delay your STI education! What are STIs? Common types of STIs General STI symptoms When to visit a sexual health clinic STI…

Were you ever curious about the evolution of sex toys? Sex toys have been around for a long, long time. In fact, the earliest known suspected sex toy is a 28,000-year-old phallic object that doesn’t look that far off from the dildos and similar toys we use today. The ancient beginnings of sex toys The…

You can find cock rings in every adult store and in the wellness section of some mainstream supermarkets and pharmacies. These small accessories are almost hidden in plain sight. But when it comes to sex toys and products, they don’t get the spotlight as much as vibrators or dildos. And with National Sex Toy Day…

Do you need an emotional connection with your partner to achieve sexual satisfaction? Numerous studies show the importance of emotional intimacy in sexual satisfaction, which is why building intimacy and a strong emotional bond with your partner is crucial in any sexual relationship. Below, we’ll discuss what emotional intimacy is, why sexual relationships require it,…

Halloween is around the corner once again, and this year, it’s time to make it a holiday to remember. That’s right, today we’re looking at how you can “spook up” your sex life and take a break from your usual routine. After all, sex is all about fantasies and having fun. Why spice it up…

Do you want to play a game? Sometimes, sex lives get a bit repetitive. From doing the same positions to not wanting to leave your comfort zone, there’s a range of reasons your evening routine can go a bit stale. Don’t worry. This is a normal experience, especially if you’re in a long-term relationship. However,…

It might not be spoken about as much as other types of sex, but anal play is one of the nation’s secret favourites. Don’t believe us? Look at the anal section of your local sex shop. There are plenty of anal toys, proving this exciting act is a popular one. Anal sex isn’t just penetrative…

Sex is a part of most of our everyday lives. However, it isn’t the same for everyone. People with difficulties may want to approach sexuality differently. When fostering a relationship with someone with a medical or neurological condition, it’s important to consider different approaches to sexual interactions. Understanding sexuality for people with disabilities Tips for…

How well do you know your sex toys? From vibrators to dildos, the sex toy market is never-ending. No matter your preferences, there’s a toy out there to hit the right spot. However, navigating the vast number of options can be overwhelming, especially if you’re new to self-pleasure. What is a thrusting vibrator? Thrusting vibrators…

So, you’ve swiped right, made a match, and now you’ve set an actual date. However, instead of feeling excited, you’re nervous and feel like you want to ghost your potential partner. Where are the butterflies and positive emotions? While this pre-date stress is enough to make you give up on dating, it’s crucial to remember…

The internet is full of sexy stories and erotic content, but what happens when you strip back the visuals? Most can’t imagine pornography without the images, but there’s an excellent argument for audio porn, and it’s one of the fastest-growing erotica subcultures right now. What is audio erotica? Why is audio erotica so popular? Benefits…

Today, there are plenty of identities and terms to explore, allowing you to enjoy new experiences and delve deeper into your self-expression. But, if you’re new to the world of queer and LGBT sex and power dynamics, it’s difficult to know where to start. Top and Bottom are well-known labels to describe queer sex. Don’t…

When you see erotic fiction, what comes to mind? Do you imagine 50 Shades of Grey? Or does the term conjure cringe book covers filled with women in corsets being held by topless men? For a moment, forget any judgments you have of romance books and bodice rippers. These books get a bad rap in…

Have you noticed you’ve been feeling hornier than usual? Perhaps you’ve been waking up ready to go. Or maybe you can’t get your last steamy session out of your head. If this sounds familiar, you might be experiencing a high sex drive (AKA increased libido). Our sex drives naturally fluctuate throughout life due to internal…

You probably know what a condom is. But how much do you really know about this type of contraception? There’s a pretty open conversation around condoms these days, but some people are still squeamish about this form of contraception. However, the humble condom has an interesting backstory, and it’s generally important to know its ins…

On a scale from 1 to 10, how satisfied are you with your sex life? Reflecting on sex and pleasure is essential to being sexually active, but not one many of us actually embrace. Looking at your sex life and actively trying to improve it can leave you feeling more fulfilled, especially if you delve…

Sex is all about feeling good. So, when it doesn’t, it quickly raises alarm bells. But painful sex doesn’t just bring physical sensations. It can also leave women feeling ashamed and embarrassed, especially when needing to discuss the issue with a partner. However, experiencing this issue is more common than you think, and there are…

Today, many sexual health educators stress the importance of a “healthy” sex life, but this term might seem a little vague if you’re new to the topic. What makes sex healthy? And isn’t everyone’s sex life different? Without a clear answer, this term can easily be misused and misunderstood. However, having a healthy sex life…

Seduction is more than simply swiping right. It’s all about desire, anticipation, connection, and making your lover feel special. Professional sex workers have honed the craft of seduction to perfection, making them masters of the art and the best people to ask for tips and tricks. So, keep reading if you want to ignite flames…

Discussing sex with your partner might be more important than you think. That’s right. No matter how long you’ve been with your beau, you should still take time to sit down and discuss your sex life. However, this isn’t always as easy as it may seem. From feelings of shame to awkwardness, there are many…

Certified sex educator, Gigi Engle, teamed up with Vivastreet to answer your questions on all things kinks from the safety aspects to the importance of aftercare. Want recommendations on the best days, times and places to have sex? Read the previous Q&A with Gigi here. What are some important safety considerations to keep in mind when exploring…

Certified sex educator, Gigi Engle, teamed up with Vivastreet to answer your questions on the best days, times and places to have sex, from the benefits of having sex at certain points in the week, to creative ways to change up your routine. Want to know Gigi’s opinion on sex education and its benefits? Read…

Certified sex educator, Gigi Engle, teamed up with Vivastreet to answer your questions on sex education. From the benefits of sex ed to addressing misconceptions about sexual health, Gigi has it all. Want to learn more about sex work and sex education? Read what Gigi has to say here. What are the benefits of sex…

What are your beliefs about sex, and where did you learn them? Many learn about sex and sexual relationships through friends, media, and society. However, have you ever stopped to question how true these beliefs are? You might have picked up one or two false ideas over the years. Top misconceptions about sex Communication and…

Almost everybody masturbates – it’s a natural part of our lives. And if it’s so enjoyable touching yourself alone, there must be tons of benefits to doing it together, right? This is called mutual masturbation, and it’s a great way to get intimate with your partner and explore each other’s desires. If you’ve never heard…

Saturday is the most popular day for Brits to have sex  Brits are least likely to have sex on a Tuesday, with less than 6% choosing it as their favourite day to get frisky Sex at night is the overall winner with 27% of respondents choosing it as their favourite time to be in-between the…

Sexual activity is still shrouded in mystery. To many, sex work and sex, in general, are taboo topics. But we don’t believe it should be this way.  At Vivastreet, we’re all about sex positivity and aim to be open and inclusive, focusing on shedding light on sex-positive creators. Today, we’re looking at TV shows, books,…

The new year is in full swing, and what better way to welcome a new era than exploring your sexuality and trying out new sexual experiences? Sex is a major part of most people’s adult lives. But sometimes, we can get stuck in a rut where we’re not trying out anything new or adventurous when…

If you’re interested in trying anal play, the first step is anal training. No, that’s not a euphemism; it’s actual prep work. Before you even think about penetration, you need to ensure your mind and body are on board with the idea. What is anal training? What are the benefits of anal training? What do…

The world of porn is vast and varied. From vanilla sex to BDSM, all tastes are covered. Every fantasy imaginable is available, so what happens when you’re looking for something different? When you want to break the boundaries of the taboo, where do you go? Hentai is a porn genre that’s seeing increasing popularity among…

Many of us have burning fantasies and secret desires. From interest in bondage to a thirst for impact play, kink can elevate your sex life from good to great. But, if you don’t have anyone to share your kinky interests with, can you still get your fix of BDSM play? The answer is yes! While…

No one wants to go through one, and no one likes admitting that they’re going through it, but a dry spell is something that can happen to anyone at any time. And the thing is, rebooting your sex life is far from easy. Whether you’ve been single for a while or just haven’t been connecting…

There are many ways for couples or individuals to explore BDSM. And one common type of kink that people incorporate in their BDSM play is sexual objectification. While it may sound unique to people who have never heard it, it can be a fun and adventurous way to explore your sexual desires and fantasies. As…

You may already be familiar with subs and doms in the world of BDSM, but these categories actually come with a number of subsets within them. One of the most misunderstood labels under the umbrella of submissives are brats. The standard understanding of the term brat is not too far off from how they’re understood…

Needing to spice up your love life is a problem nearly all couples face. Life can get busy, stressful, and downright un-sexy, driving a wedge between you and your partner’s intimate life. But this shouldn’t be the end of your sex life. In fact, there are hundreds of sex positions here to ignite the spark…

It’s no secret that many people enjoy the thrill of sexual denial. For some, it’s about denying themselves pleasure until the end. For others, it’s the teasing and torture that comes with denying someone else ultimate pleasure. But what if you could have both? What if you could enjoy the teasing and anticipation of denial…

Are you feeling less interested in sex than usual? If so, you’re not alone. A low sex drive is a common problem and has many possible causes. Adults are constantly juggling a million things and it’s no wonder that our sex drives sometimes take a backseat to everything else going on in our lives. What…

You probably know orgasms, but have you ever experienced a super orgasm? Today we’re talking all-things pompoir and super orgasms. Pompoir is an ancient practice that’s here to increase your sex life and orgasm intensity, and it teaches you how to tap into your own sexual power. What is pompoir? What are the benefits of…

Erotic electrostimulation, or e-stim for short, is a sexual activity that involves stimulating the body with electrical currents. While it may appear intimidating or even dangerous, e-stim can be a fun and exciting way to add some new excitement to your sex life. And this type of stimulation can also be a lot of fun…

Ever caught yourself fantasising about gags? When you think of kink, a ball gag likely comes to mind. Like handcuffs and whips, gags are a famous symbol of kinky sex and BDSM. But do you have to be deep into the kink scene to use it? Or can beginners get down with ball gags too?…

Sex is a natural and important part of life, but keeping things interesting in the bedroom can be hard. Fortunately, there are plenty of tips and tricks to make sex better and longer lasting. Why do people have mediocre sex? What even is “longer and better sex”? 5 tips for longer sex 5 tips for…

Humiliation is a sensation that most people would typically describe as undesirable, and worth avoiding. However, when done safely, and in a sexual context, it can offer an incredibly intense and arousing experience. What is a humiliation kink? How to tell your partner you want to try humiliation play? How to try humiliation play for…

When was the last time you really treated yourself? To celebrate National Sex Toy Day, we’re talking all-things toys today. Sex toys are one of the most popular ways to spice up your sex life. Whether you’re flying solo or keen on some couple’s fun, there’s always time for a toy. Before you ask, National…

Orgasms are great, regardless of your sex, gender, and sexual orientation. And while men generally experience two types of orgasms, women have the pleasure of experiencing many types of orgasms. Why are there so many different types of female orgasms? The 7 types of female orgasms and how to experience them Too often, discussions of…

Cumming is an essential part of sex. And while others would rather keep cum away from them, many people enjoy the feeling of cum on them. Some people enjoy swallowing it, playing with it in their mouth, or having it on different parts of their bodies. This is called a cum kink, but some people…

What is a spit kink, and why is it so hot? What is a spit kink? How to discuss spit play with your partner Is spit play safe? We’re getting into all of that and more in this article. If you’re interested in spit kink and want to learn more about it, you’ve come to…

One sexual orientation that can leave many people confused is heteroflexibility. It may sound complicated, but it’s actually very easy to understand. What is heteroflexibility? A brief history of heteroflexibility What does heteroflexibility look like? How do I know if I’m heteroflexible? How to support someone who identifies as heteroflexible Whether you might be feeling…

Words like dominant and submissive, bondage, discipline, sadism, and a few more might spring to mind when you consider BDSM. But on top of them, one of these is not as popular, yet very important in this world – the switch. What is a switch in BDSM? Benefits of being a switch How do you…

While the idea of playing with temperature may seem intimidating to some, adding a little heat (or cold) to your sex life can be a lot of fun. Erotically speaking, there are countless options to spice up or freeze, for that matter, your intimate moment, and it couldn’t be any more exciting. Add ice cream,…

Elevating your sex life doesn’t have a be a long, drawn-out process. Couples often find themselves looking for new sensations and kinks after some time. If you’re ready to step up your sex life but not ready to plunge into toys, meet the humble blindfold. This simple sex addition has been spicing up bedrooms for…

There’s something about wrestling that makes you feel… Alive. Maybe it’s the primal nature of two people battling for dominance, or perhaps it’s the rush of adrenaline as your bodies clash. What is erotic wrestling? Types of erotic wrestling How can erotic wrestling benefit a relationship? How to get started? One thing is certain –…

Have you ever seen someone in latex and been inexplicably turned on? Knowing where to start can be a little daunting as a beginner in the latex fetish community. What is a latex fetish? Different types of latex fetish How to explore a latex fetish What are some fetishes linked to a latex fetish? When…

Fisting is an act that’s shrouded in mystery. You might think you know what it entails, but the reality might be very different. When completed safely and slowly, fisting can be a pleasurable experience. Forget the taboo surrounding the act. The idea could heighten your sex life if you’re intrigued by it. But don’t jump…

Most people nowadays associate the concept of hypnosis with scammers on TV who take advantage of susceptible individuals. But that isn’t what real hypnosis is. When done correctly, real hypnosis can be a great way to tap into a new part of your mind, eliminate fears, and even lead to better sex between you and…

At first glance, forced orgasms do not sound fun at all. After all, even if orgasms can be the best feeling, no one wants to be “forced” to do anything. But that isn’t what a forced orgasm is about. People who try out forced orgasm play aren’t subjected to anything they don’t consent to. In…

Double penetration is a pretty well-known sex act that’s also largely misunderstood. While it seems like something that will only happen in porn or fantasies, it’s a pleasurable experience that you may want to try. What is double penetration? Trying out double penetration yourself Tips for trying out DP Best positions for double penetration We’re…

TikTok trends tend to leave people divided. And while you might be used to seeing dance trends and weird challenges on the platform, there’s a new trend making waves, and it’s called vabbing. If you’ve never heard of it before, get ready for a wild ride. Vabbing is the act of using your vaginal secretions…

Have you ever discovered a new sexual desire? Exploring your kinks and fetishes can take your sex life to a whole new level. But you might miss out on some fulfilling fun if you don’t have anyone to explore with. Talking to your partner about your sexual interests can be a nerve-wracking thought. While many…

When was the last time you felt cared for? DDLG relationships often take newcomers by surprise. With strong power structures and age play, this kink isn’t for everyone. However, DDLG relationships are likely more common than you expect. What is DDLG in BDSM? Does DDLG have to be rough? What does a DDLG relationship look…

Finding a partner is tough, regardless of your sexual preferences. However, finding your other half when looking for a kinkster can be even tougher. Knowing where and how to find someone who shares your exciting desires is difficult in a vanilla world. Relationships are about compromise, but there are some preferences you just can’t ignore.…

Edgeplay is slowly gaining more and more attention, but do you know what this term actually refers to? Hint: it’s not edging. Living life on the edge is more appealing to some than others. In daily life, edge seekers might experiment with adrenaline-inducing sports or extreme thrills, but in the bedroom, they might be partial…

When you look in the mirror, how do you feel? If you feel depressed or sad, it might be time to address the issue. While we don’t always have to feel proud and in love with ourselves 24/7, low self-esteem can affect our confidence and relationships. Body confidence is a complex issue. Negative self-perception can…

Safewords are one of the most well-known components of BDSM. Although many people may believe that safewords are only necessary if you’re deep within the BDSM community, it’s actually a recommended practice for anyone engaging in sex with a partner (or partners). What is a safeword? Why do we need safewords? When to use safewords?…

Katoptronophilia is sexual arousal from having sex in front of a mirror or from the act of seeing oneself during sex. It’s a paraphilia, which is defined as “an atypical sexual interest characterised by intense and persistent sexual fantasies, urges, or behaviours that are generally not pleasurable and may be considered abnormal”. What is mirror…

The female orgasm is a wonderful experience. Unlike guys, women and people with vulvas can experience multiple orgasms. There are clitoral orgasms, G-spot orgasms, and even U-spot orgasms, which some women report having. But did you know that you can have multiple orgasms simultaneously? This is called a blended orgasm, which can be a mind-blowing…

It’s easy to get intimidated by a sex party, but they are usually very accepting environments where one can be their true selves. Picture a sex party. Pretty hard to do, isn’t it? Well, that’s because not many people are sure what sex parties are, what you do at one, and what to do before…

There’s no doubt that university is a time for exploration and new experiences, but when it comes to sex, some students can feel a bit apprehensive about getting creative in their uni room. What is safe sex? How to protect your sexual health? What is sexual consent? What sexual health services are available? How to…

Dating expert Sarah Louise Ryan has partnered with Vivastreet to share her advice and answer your questions on all things dating and relationships. Have a comment for Sarah Louise? Comment below or ask us on Twitter. Q: I always feel embarrassed during and after sex. What should I do? S: You’ll be able to enjoy…

Sex can be complicated, but it can be even more complex for some women. It’s pretty common for them to feel “shy” and lack confidence in the bedroom, which can be frustrating since you want to be your truest self when having sex. But feeling sexy and confident in your skin can sometimes be hard.…

While it used to be an obscure and relatively unknown sex act, golden showers have recently become common knowledge for many people. Also called “water sports,” a golden shower is a sex act involving peeing. These showers can take many forms. Sometimes, the person pees on their partner, but other times, they can just pee…

Everyone has their own unique sexual preferences. This ranges from the people they prefer having sex with and the kind of sex they have. And for many couples, a great way to spice things up in the bedroom is through impact play. While a lot of people enjoy lightly spanking or getting spanked by their…

For most people, nylon is just the material used for tights and stockings. But for some, nylon is a huge turn-on. In fact, nylon fetishes are a bit more common than you think, and it could actually be fun to explore if you and your partner are into it. Humans are quite special. Everyone has…

Everyone wants to give their partner the best experience possible. And if you’re looking to treat your partner like royalty in the bedroom, you might want to try out “queening”, an empowering sex position that can bring pleasure and spice to your sex life. If you’re familiar with facesitting, you might already be familiar with…

Rough play can be a lot of fun. It’s a new way to introduce intensity in the bedroom and can bring both parties a lot of pleasure. And if you’re thinking of exploring BDSM with your partner for the first time, it’s important to plan it out. While most people cover their boundaries, safe words,…

Having traditional sexual activities or using the same old sex toys can make life banal and could eventually harm your relationship. This is exactly the reason why other kinds of sensual ideas came to life, and total power exchange is one of the most thrilling. In a total power exchange (TPE) relationship, the couple agrees…

Praising someone for a job well done is a common act of kindness, but there’s something extra special about praising someone in the bedroom. While praise kinks have got increasingly more common recently, understanding them is still not straightforward, and for a good reason – are kinksters turned on with praises only? What is a…

It appears to be self-evident that what makes someone a fantastic sex partner is similar sexual experiences, the same amount of time, and someone who is eager to play with everything within reason. And you’ll easily attract someone like that if you’re good, giving, and game. This is Dan Savage’s reasoning and it all somehow…

Most of the time, people associate ejaculation with men. However, sex is a two-way street, and ejaculation isn’t just reserved for men. Women ejaculate too, and unlike men, it can happen before, during, and after the orgasm. Nowadays, we have a bit more understanding of the sexual needs and biology of people that were born…

Yes, you read that right: using a sex swing can improve your sex life in ways you never thought possible. From adding new positions to your repertoire to increasing the pleasure your partner experiences, a sex swing can be a valuable addition to any bedroom. What is a sex swing? Why are sex swings so…

When was the last time you enjoyed an intimate romp in a small location? If you have a taste for car sex or live in a smaller apartment, you’ll already be familiar with sex in small places. But don’t think of this as limiting. Getting creative with the space you have can lead to some…

Desire and fantasy come in all shapes and forms. There’s a world of sexual kinks to explore, from kinky role-playing scenarios to bondage. One kink that many are ashamed to explore is consensual non-consent, also known as CNC. This kink often comes with a side of controversy, however, when you delve into the CNC world,…

Spicing up your sex life is a great way to make sex more enjoyable, and it can bring you closer to your partner. If you’ve been looking for a way to get a bit kinkier in the bedroom, look no further. Next time you’re getting down to it, consider bringing some wax play into your…

Nothing beats vacation sex. There’s something about being far from home that allows us to let loose and explore our desires. Whether you’re in a fancy hotel or enjoying some time in the great outdoors, there’s always time for a raunchy moment with your partner. Just make sure you are clued up with all the…

What rooms do you have in your house? Thanks to Netflix’s ‘How to Build a Sex Room’ documentary, everyone’s talking about these cheeky rooms. To many, sex rooms are a new concept. But happy couples have been enjoying these unique spaces for years. What’s better than a room for pure pleasure? What is a sex room?…

For many people, a threesome is the ultimate sexual fantasy. But for some, it’s an awkward experience that can be confusing and embarrassing, especially the first time. And that is because most of us have never had sex with more than one person at once before. The popularity of threesome sex What does it feel…

Inappropriate. Immoral. Unbecoming. Those are just a few words you may have heard throughout your life describing sex. You may have even heard that the idea of simply talking about sex is pretty taboo. And that’s why you may not have ever heard of ASMR sex. What is ASMR? What are the feelings associated with…

Do you know what transvestic fetishism is? This word might be unfamiliar to you, but you’ll probably know what cross-dressing is.  Transvestic fetishism typically refers to those who become aroused when dressed as the opposite sex. But, don’t mistake a transvestite for a transgender person – these two words refer to very different concepts. What…

Relationships are messy. When two people come together, and feelings are involved, situations can become complicated quickly. An element that makes relationships even more difficult is when a third party gets involved – especially if one party doesn’t realise it.  Mistresses are a topic many avoid talking about, but these complicated relationships are a fact…

Hands – we all have them, but some people are more attracted to hands than others. If you’ve discovered you have a hand kink, you’re not alone. Quirofilia, also known as a hand fetish, is more common than you might expect. What is a hand fetish? Do I have a hand fetish? Does my partner…

While anal play is a popular sexual preference, many don’t know about rimming or how to give the best rim job. Sadly, many are still in the dark about this common act, and the internet lacks reliable information on the subject. But we’re here to change that.  What is a rim job? How to tell…

BDSM, while an exciting topic, is also pretty misunderstood. The latest studies show that almost half of the general population has participated in BDSM. Still, not everyone fully grasps the concept, even when trying it out themselves. But when experimenting with new kinks and sex acts, it’s essential to know the ins and outs of…

There’s a high chance you’re going exploring this summer. After two years of staying home, people are grasping at every opportunity they have to go on an adventure. And for many people, this means going into the outdoors and exploring the beauty of nature. But there’s one aspect of many outdoor adventures we usually overlook:…

Are you stuck in the dull routine of bedroom sex? Fear not – there are plenty of other places to get it on. There are several benefits of sex outside the bedroom, and you may be surprised at how much fun you can have, from the kitchen to the great outdoors. What is sex outside…

The “B” in BDSM is arguably the most famous letter. It stands for bondage and involves tying your partner up and restraining them in a sexual context. And while many people know about bondage, not a lot of people know about Japanese bondage, also known as Shibari. This rich and old tradition originates in Japan,…

Anyone who says sex is boring has clearly never explored their kinks and fetishes. Whether you like to get tied up, spanked, or role-play as your favourite character, exploring your sexual desires can be a fun and exciting way to spice up your and your partner’s sex life. However, it’s necessary to always practice safe…

Nipples are often neglected during sex, but they can be a powerful tool for sexual pleasure. In fact, they are a sexually sensitive area and can provide fun and even give an orgasm using only your tongue or toys. If you’ve ever sucked your woman’s nipples, you know how important it is to please her.…

There are a lot of factors to fingering someone or yourself that can make it feel terrific. Some people focus on the number of fingers used, while others focus on the techniques – after all, we are all different, and each woman likes something different.  In this blog post, we will go through everything you…

When it comes to sex, everyone is different. Some people like things soft and slow, while others prefer it a little rougher and wilder. But one thing that almost everyone can agree on is that lubricants make everything better. What are sexual lubricants? Benefits of using lube How to use lubricants Different types of sexual…

A tit wank is an act of placing your partner’s penis between your breasts and thrusting back and forth.  Some men find it to be one of the most pleasurable ways to masturbate. If your man is interested in trying it out, here are some tips on doing it right. There are plenty of variations…

When you think of sexual fetishes, what comes to mind? Maybe Bondage and Discipline (BDSM), role-playing, or pegging? While all of those are undoubtedly kinky activities that some people enjoy, there’s one fetish that might surprise you: cuckolding.  Cuckolding is a sexual fetish in which someone (usually a man) enjoys watching his partner have sex…

There’s no denial that JOI porn popularity has constantly been increasing, and we can easily understand why. JOI porn is a niche genre of pornography in which the performer, often a woman, provides explicit instructions to the viewer on how to masturbate.  The content can range from simple masturbation encouragement to more elaborate and specific…

Many people believe that period sex is messy and taboo, but it doesn’t have to be. Some find it exciting, and there are plenty of reasons to give period sex a try.  For starters, orgasms can help to relieve cramps and other menstrual symptoms. In addition, the increased blood flow during menstruation can actually make…

Small penis humiliation is, essentially, the consensual act of one person verbally humiliating the other about the size of his penis, although the practice can include some consensual physical acts of ‘torture’ as punishment for the lack of size.  Unless you are in a relationship with someone who knows what they’re doing, SPH can be…

Cunnilingus is one of the most enjoyable activities you can experience, and if done correctly, it can lead to gratifying orgasms.  Unfortunately, many people don’t know how to do it right. In this blog post, we will teach you the basics of cunnilingus – including the best techniques to give your partner an incredible time. …

Female domination is a term used to describe a sexual relationship or practice in which a woman takes control of her partner.  This can involve physical domination, such as slapping or spanking, or psychological domination, such as verbal humiliation or mind games.  Some femdom relationships also involve roleplaying and dress-up, with the woman taking on…

The next time your partner asks you to go down on them, they could want you to go much further south than you think. What is toe sucking? As its name implies, toe sucking is the practice of sucking toes. Also known as ‘shrimping’, toe-sucking can be performed as part of foreplay, or as a…

They say there are two types of women in the world – those who masturbate, and those who lie – and while that’s a harsh and untrue depiction of womankind, it does raise a question about just how many women practice self-satisfaction. What is masturbation? Masturbation is the manual stimulation of your genitals using your…

Sex toys have become incredibly popular over the years, and endless couples and groups use dildos, vibrators, or anal toys to spice up their intimate moments. Coupled with the popularity of sex toys is the importance of hygiene. In fact, cleaning your sex toys is essential after every use, as they’re in direct contact with…

Most often adopted as the go-to position for cosy Sunday morning sex, spooning is far more than the no-effort method known and loved by lazy lovers. In this article, we explore just how this low-maintenance mating can be upgraded to produce mind-blowing results for both parties. What is spooning sex? In a nutshell, spooning is…

We might have a slight tendency towards OCD, but we decided to think outside the box and investigate the world of sploshing. To our surprise, we found the thought of the mess and chaos didn’t faze us all. What is sploshing? Sploshing is a fetish that involves using food glorious food, and the messier the…

According to a poll in The Independent Newspaper, vanilla is by far the UK’s favourite flavour of ice cream. But why do connoisseurs of the cone own up to that fact, when saying the same for sex has us squirming with embarrassment? Sex therapist Vanessa Marin explains. “One of the biggest issues for most of…

Did you know that less than 30% of couples are having sex at least once a week? It’s no secret that as relationships progress, the sex can go from steamy to stale and your love life can become a little lacklustre. But, it doesn’t have to be this way. By mixing up your sex and…

While the name ‘rainbow kiss’ might conjure up images of unicorns, candy, and rainbows, when it comes to sex it’s a whole different ball game. What is a rainbow kiss? A rainbow kiss involves two people performing oral sex on each other at the same time, while at least one of them has her period.…

There are all sorts of different fetishes out there – from the more popular ones like feet or latex to the more obscure, like body and pubic hair or flatulence and messy play. And while some people might not understand why someone would be interested in a particular fetish, there’s usually a perfectly reasonable explanation.…

Sex is a wonderful part of any relationship, bringing you and your partner closer together. It also provides immense pleasure, which can lead to orgasm.  However, according to a recent study, over half of the women surveyed admitted to regularly not achieving orgasms. A lack of orgasm can be frustrating and even cause relationship problems.…

Did you know that 95% percent of men report having orgasms during sex compared to only 65% percent of women?  Since men tend to have orgasms more easily, this means many women often feel disappointed when they don’t get the chance to climax during sex. Likewise, this can also lead many men to feel ashamed…

According to research, a popular fantasy for roleplay sex is when both partners pretend to be strangers. The roleplay ideas are endless and for that reason, there’s nothing stopping you and your partner from playing the part of a teacher, a nurse, or anything else for that matter. But if you’ve never tried erotic roleplay…

Perhaps unsurprisingly, a recent study found that more than half of all adults in the UK watch porn. What people don’t know is that porn is actually a type of voyeurism and it is also one of the most popular forms of voyeurism. However, what is the appeal of the voyeurism fetish and how can…

Like most things, when it comes to getting aroused, everyone differs. Although getting some guys hot under the collar can be relatively easy, some guys are harder to turn on. If your man has been under a lot of stress lately or is in a bad mood, it can be difficult to get him warmed…

Fun fact: The words “sadism” and “masochism” first came about in 1886. While those terms are relatively new, the enjoyment of sadism, masochism, and BDSM (short for bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism) has likely been around since the beginning of human history. Everyone has a certain sexual preference and some people enjoy being submissive while…

Have you ever had a one-night stand? More importantly, do you know how to have a “great” one-night stand? If you know how to have a great one-night stand, it will be easier to develop deep connections and have amazing sex. But those who don’t know what they’re doing set the stage for bad sex…

You’d expect that a lockdown would vastly improve people’s love lives. After all, having all day to roll around in bed with one another sounds ideal, right? Yet, 66% of those aged 18-24 said their sex lives declined in 2020. And even outside of the pandemic, there are bound to be couples who find their…

Did you know that the head of the penis alone has more than 4,000 nerve endings? This is not counting the nerve endings in the shaft and, of course, in the balls.  The scrotum actually has many more nerve endings than you might expect, making them very sensitive (any man who has been kicked in…

Brits’ favourite sex position and the most tried in the bedroom is…Doggy Style  More than a third of women say their partners initiate a new sex position 69 is the sex position women most want to try, while anal sex is the position men most want to test out  For both sexes, not having enough…

If erotic spanking turns you on, then you’re not alone. Thanks to the popularity of works of art like 50 Shades of Grey, spanking is considered to be a great place to start for BDSM beginners.  Our sexual fetishes research found spanking to be the 5th most-searched fetish in the UK with 40,500 online searches…

In the UK, pornography is prevalent, and viewership has further grown in popularity over the last two years since the pandemic. According to a report by Ofcom, 26 million people – half of the adult population viewed adult material in September 2020. Likewise, our casual sex survey found that 15% of people admitted to watching…

1 in 3 Brits are having less sex compared to 2018 (pre-pandemic) A third say it’s harder to build physical connections 59% of people ‘worry’ about casual dating post-lockdown 1 in 3 people admit to masturbating MORE than TWICE as much as before Is the UK in a sex recession? According to our latest survey,…

Morning sex. For some, it’s a no-no. While for others, it gets their morning kick-started. For those who are #TeamMorningSex, you may be surprised. A survey by Superdrug, which comprised of 2,000 Brits, discovered that the desire to have evening sex is actually stronger and more frequent than morning sex. 9 benefits of morning sex…

Intercrural sex, otherwise known as thigh sex, interfemoris, and interfemoral sex, is non-penetrative sex in which a man’s penis is situated between their partner’s thighs and thrusts repeatedly to achieve an orgasm.  Although intercrural sex is practised in relationships of various orientations, it’s common in many parts of the world among both heterosexual and gay…

When it comes to plastic surgery, no stone has been left unturned.  The designer vagina boom in the UK has seen it become one of the fastest-growing cosmetic surgery procedures, popularised by celebrities and pop culture influences like porn. What is a designer vagina? Why do women get designer vaginas? Types of designer vagina surgeries…

Are you curious to try a sexual fetish?  Many people want to exhilarate their sex life by exploring something new.  But, not everyone knows where to start or what they would find particularly pleasurable. For those that don’t know, a sexual fetish involves arousal from an inanimate object or a particular body part, such as…

If you love anal sex, then you need to add pegging to your sex bucket list right now. Currently, pegging is becoming increasingly popular, with various sex experts claiming it to be one of the latest bedroom trends. According to Google, the number of people searching for ‘pegging’ in the UK monthly is approximately 110,000. …

You’ve likely seen it in movies or experienced it in real life – whatever the scenario, it can’t be denied that French kissing is one of the most thrilling aspects of a relationship, particularly in the early stages.  What is a French kiss? How to French kiss like a pro How long should a French…

So, you’re interested in swinging? Lucky for you, it’s more common than you think. According to our own data, swinging was one of the most searched fetishes in the UK. What is a swinger? Reasons why people swing How to become a swinger Tips on how to swing What is a swingers club or party?…

Whether you’ve cheated on your partner or have been cheated on, you know it can be devastating.  Unfortunately, cheating within a relationship is not uncommon, with a 2015 survey conducted by YouGov revealing that 1 in 5 British adults have admitted to having an affair. Why do people cheat? Types of cheating Signs of cheating…

Does the thought of getting frisky in the backseat of a car appeal to you?  If the answer is yes, you’re not the only one, with our research revealing that outdoor sex was the 9th most searched fetish in the UK. Such is the popularity of sexcapades in a motor, that a recent survey from…

1 in 3 Brits use emojis in their dating profiles  The most popular emoji is the Red Heart (❤️), with 71% using this emoji on their dating profile The Splashing Sweat (💦) and Tongue (👅) emojis, often associated with sexting, were only used in 1% of dating profiles Nearly a third of people who use…

Former escort, TV expert, and Sex Coach & Hypnotherapist Rebecca Dakin, shares advice on how to become sex-positive in modern society. Have a comment for Rebecca? Comment below or ask us on Twitter. Q: What does it mean to be sex-positive? A: For me, being sex-positive means having no shame around sex and no judgement. Being…

Welcome to ‘Ask Your Friendly Neighbourhood Sexologist’ with Gigi Engle and Vivastreet, a monthly column where certified sex educator Gigi Engle answers all of your sauciest sex questions. Have a question for Gigi? Comment below or ask us on Twitter. Q: Can I have sex on my period, as I usually get hornier at this time of the month? A: Periods…

As lockdown restrictions continue to gradually lift and summer approaches, flings, casual hookups and relationships are bound to bloom. If you’re single, a first date can be pretty nerve-racking and tricky to get just right. As the old adage goes, you only get one chance to make a first impression, so you need to think…

Welcome to ‘Ask Your Friendly Neighbourhood Sexologist’ with Gigi Engle and Vivastreet, a monthly column where certified sex educator Gigi Engle answers all of your sauciest sex questions. Have a question for Gigi? Comment below or ask us on Twitter. Q: As a woman, I masturbate daily, but feel there is a stigma that comes with this. Am I normal? A:…

While no relationship is perfect, it’s fair to say that we all desire a healthy one. But many of us find ourselves in relationships that are dissatisfying or detrimental to our emotional and mental wellbeing. What is a healthy relationship? Signs of a healthy relationship How to get out of a toxic relationship Building a…

Have you ever heard of Kunyaza?  If not, it’s an African lovemaking experience dedicated to female pleasure. As natural as orgasms are, many women struggle to reach that peak spot. According to traditional African cultures, this exotic sex secret might just be the gateway to an earth-shattering orgasm. Find out for yourself. What is Kunyaza…

Welcome to ‘Ask Your Friendly Neighbourhood Sexologist’ with Gigi Engle and Vivastreet, a monthly column where certified sex educator Gigi Engle answers all of your sauciest sex questions. Have a question for Gigi? Comment below or ask us on Twitter. Q: Is it bad to fake an orgasm with my partner, or should I tell them the…

Increasingly, film productions are specialising in certain themes and social issues aimed at different groups. And for the LGBT community, it’s no different. Many LGBT films highlight different stories on queer relationships, family life, and social stigmas and challenges that many LGBT people can relate to. Whether you’re a part of the LGBT community or…

Thanks to the digital era, sex is right at our fingertips.  A hybrid of phone sex, sending dirty messages or “sexting”, can spice up your relationship, or tease a potential new lover from a distance. What is sexting? Sexting is the act of sending and receiving sexually explicit messages, photos, or videos through messaging services…

When there’s a slump in our sex life, it’s common for many of us to seek medical sexual stimulants, like Viagra, to help boost our libido. But these types of pharmaceutical solutions can sometimes result in possible side effects.  For those looking for an alternative to prescription or over-the-counter medication, while reducing the risk of…

Want to know whether you and your partner are sexually compatible? There’s no denying a satisfactory sex life constitutes a happier and healthier relationship. Whether it be matched libidos, sexual compatibility primarily boils down to sharing sexual beliefs, preferences, desires and needs with your sex partner. Believe it or not, many look to our zodiac…

Are you looking for a sugar daddy?  The reasons why some people look to become sugar babies vary. In the UK, there is an increasing demand for women and men opting for the “sugar baby” lifestyle to fund their spending habits, and in some instances, their education fees.  According to the world’s largest sugar dating…

Ever struggled with knowing how to flirt? If you’re socially awkward or not a natural-born flirter, showing someone that you are romantically attracted to them can be difficult.  It’s perfectly normal to feel nervous around someone you fancy. Luckily, there are things you can do to become a master flirter. What is flirting? Simply put,…

Men and women are very different when it comes to getting turned on.  Many guys may not admit this, but knowing how to turn a girl on isn’t always a walk in the park.  The good news is that there are ways you can arouse a woman. These top sexual turn-ons are guaranteed to have…

Are you part of the BDSM world? Or are you looking to incorporate a little kink into your bedroom activities? A BDSM survey conducted by sex-brand LELO revealed that over 80% of participants have tried spanking and being tied up, over 40% being whipped, and over 30% being gagged. According to certified sex expert and…

Ever wondered how open relationships work or thought about having one yourself? The truth is, unconventional relationships are becoming more and more mainstream in society, with many couples wondering if this type of arrangement could work for them.  What is an open relationship? How common are open relationships? Reasons people consider having an open relationship…

Like many people, you have probably heard of ‘Kama Sutra’ before. Although a lot has been said about this ancient practice, very few understand its true purpose.  Contrary to popular belief, the Kama Sutra is not just the go-to bible for intricate sex positions, but actually goes far beyond that.  What is Kama Sutra? Best…

Is your sex life stuck in a rut? Routine sex although not bad, can become unexciting after a while. If you’re looking to try new things to spice up your sex life, then you may want to consider introducing sex games to the mix Indulging in adult sex games gives you the chance to have…

Not all great sex is spontaneous. For some people to get aroused, sexual activity leading up to sexual penetration is required. If done right, the build up to sex can be just a rewarding as the main event, which is where foreplay comes in.  What is foreplay? Benefits of foreplay Best foreplay ideas Investing time…

  Do you know what triggers your arousal?  We all have erogenous zones, but everyone is unique. When it comes to experiencing sexual pleasure, the orgasmic sensations you feel in a particular area may not be the same for another person. There may even be some hot spots that you have not yet discovered. What…

With more and more of us turning to podcasts as a form of light relief, almost everyone has their favourite. When it comes to sex-related topics, finding an adult podcast that caters to you and your needs has never been easier. Many of us turn to these podcasts to access sex advice, information, and of…

Have you ever fantasised about having sex with more than one person at a time?  Traditionally, threesomes have often been portrayed as deviant within society.  However, the truth is they are a common fantasy for many, highlighted in our 2019 research, which revealed group sex as the 7th most searched sexual fetish in the UK. …

Giving can just be as fun as receiving.  Whether you engage with oral sex prior to penetrative sex, or decide to make it the main event, oral sex can be a pleasurable and exciting act to participate in with your sex partner.   Oral sex has proven to play a big role in maintaining an active…

You’ve likely heard of tantric massage, but are you familiar with tantric sex? For those that may have heard of tantric sex, a common assumption is that it involves unique sex positions, and usually longer-lasting sex.  In reality, there are many health benefits to be had with tantric sex, including forging a deeper bonding experience…

Are you curious about trying anal sex? You’re certainly not the only one. Although anal sex may have once been a taboo, over the years research has shown that it has become significantly more popular. A 2017 survey of over 3,000 sexually active millennials revealed that 36% of women and 15% of men are indulging…

Moaning is the sexiest noise for 33% of men and 34% of women Silence in the bedroom is the top sex sound turn-off for 28% of men and 20% of women “Are you done?” Is the biggest turn-off for 24% of men Are you a moaner or a screamer? Do you enjoy dirty talk, or…

Are you a part of the LGBTIQ+ community or know someone that is? In the UK, LGBTIQ+ people often face severe levels of inequality, discrimination, and injustice in all areas of life. Luckily, many charities and organisations fight for the human, civil and legal rights of LGBTIQ+ citizens to help them live a better life,…

When having sexual intercourse, do you find yourself frequently ejaculating quicker than you or your partner desire?  You’re not alone. Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common male sexual dysfunction, that is estimated to affect 20-40% of the general population.  According to Mayo Clinic, about one in three men report experiencing PE at some point in…

Whatever your sexual orientation, finding an intimate relationship can be challenging, especially if you’re not into social gatherings – which is where Brits are most likely to meet their significant other.  However, in the current climate, the rise in technology through dating apps, including those specifically for LGBTIQ+ groups, has played a big part in…

Most of us are aware of the many joys and pleasures that can come with physical intimacy. However, few are aware of the potential health benefits linked with sex. Not only can sex have physical benefits, according to studies it can also be beneficial mentally. Vivastreet reveal some of the surprising health benefits linked to…

Most of us have heard about the benefits of yoga for the body and mind. However, one of the most overlooked benefits of yoga is its power to enhance your sex life. Yes, the practice of yoga can revolutionise your sex life. What is yoga and how to practice it The link between yoga and…

If the option to meet up with your partner or potential love interest is off the table, why not stay close and connected with virtual dating? According to OkCupid, more than 90% of its users are dating virtually, with 35 million initial messages sent by singletons in March 2020 alone, 4 million more compared to…

Due to the rise of dating apps and specific sites which focus on bondage sex, it is very likely that you’ve heard about BDSM.  Likewise, according to our own research on sexual fetishes, BDSM ranked No.1 as the most searched sexual fetish in the UK, proving just how mainstream this form of kink has become…

Want to elevate your sex game? Fresh out of love-making ideas? No matter how passionate the spark is in the bedroom, trying new sex positions will help spice things up and make your sex life hot again. Fun sex positions to try Missionary The eagle Doggy  The speed bump 69 Butter churner Cowgirl Reverse cowgirl …

A pleasurable alternative to physical intercourse, virtual sex is defined as any kind of sexual activity done with or on the internet. Virtual sex has taken sexual communication to a whole new level. Over the last few decades, as technology has continued to grow, for some, virtual sex has become as natural as conventional physical…

According to Lloyds Pharmacy, approximately 11.7 million men in the UK struggle with sexual dysfunction. Erectile dysfunction (ED) is regarded as a common sexual dysfunction affecting many men across all ages. On a global scale, a 2019 review discovered that the prevalence of ED increased with age. This is reinforced in another study which showed…

Erotic couples massage should already be on your radar, but what is it and what happens during the massage? There are various types of massage therapies that focus on different parts of the body with the aim to relax, revive and restore health and wellbeing. But what happens in an erotic massage? When it comes…

For many sex-lovers, an orgasm is the most coveted sensation in the world, and is generally achieved through masturbation or sexual intercourse with a partner. If you regularly climax you should count yourself fortunate, as according to past studies having an orgasm does not come easy for everyone. What is an orgasm? How to have…

Let’s not beat around the bush: We’re all smitten with sex, and when the urge for a thrilling climax strikes, many of us tend to have a cure hidden in our draw. The multi-billion pound sex toy industry can vouch for this, with unstoppable sales currently soaring in the UK and across the globe, and…

The current climate means physically interacting with your romantic partner or lover, if not in the same residence as yourself, is a thing of the past. The government’s social distancing measures have meant that those of us who do not live with our partners are becoming increasingly sexually frustrated. It is perhaps no surprise that…

Following on from our previous article: ‘Transgender: Why language matters‘, where we highlighted the importance of trans support, we’ve put together a list of support and community organisations in the UK that work with trans and non-binary people of all ages. These LGBTQ+ organisations across the UK not only offer specific support for trans people,…

In these times of uncertainty, for many of us staying at home can be tough. With the government advising social distancing to avoid close contact, many have not been able to see their loved ones, including couples and lovers. In turn those used to physical contact from a romantic or sexual partner are now left…

If you find yourself with a sexual interest or an attraction to feet, you’re not alone. Podophilia, otherwise known as foot fetish, is hugely popular with many men and women. According to the Journal of Sexual Medicine, fetishes linked to feet are some of the most common types of sexual fixations. As explained in more…

Learning to be an ally to the transgender community is an on-going process and will not happen overnight. However, taking steps (be it big or small) to learn and support the trans community can make a difference. One of the most important parts of being an ally to the transgender community is understanding and learning…

With the topic of sexual orientation ever present in the media, the term pansexual is one many of us will likely have heard at some point. Yet, though pansexuality is receiving more coverage, there are still many people (including those in the LGBTQ+ community) confused by the term, not quite understanding what it really means…

When it comes to sexual orientation and indeed gender identity, the language used is ever-evolving. For those new to this topic, knowing this specific terminology may not be as simple as first thought. Most of us want to be able to refer to a person using the right terminology, without causing any offence. Neither do…

In the past, having a specific type of fetish was very much stigmatised. However, changing attitudes towards sex, means we are now becoming more open-minded when it comes to antics in the bedroom. See our research on the UK’s top fetishes According to a study published in The Journal of Sex Research, approximately half of…

Let’s face it, Brits are often portrayed as a prudish and uptight bunch, but new research has uncovered that this might not be the case, at least in the bedroom.  To celebrate International Fetish day (Jan 21st), research conducted by Vivastreet, has revealed Britain’s kinkiest and fairly out-there sexual fetishes, and to put it mildly,…

A deeply erotic and thoroughly arousing experience, tantric massage incorporates practices which use energy and chakras (the latter of which derives from ancient Indian teachings). Tantric largely involves stimulating the erogenous areas of the body. Though often simply seen as a sexual service, tantric massage is, in fact a more powerful sensual activity.

Despite being in the LGBT umbrella, in recent years there seems to be various misconceptions about bisexuality, all of which have mostly worked to disregard bisexuality as a recognised sexual identity. With supposedly clearer definitions for those identifying as gay or lesbian, many people who identify as bisexual continue to struggle.

Nuru massage is a type of sensual massage originally originating from Kawasaki, Japan. Furthermore, the term ‘nuru’ in Japanese means slippery. While this form of massage may have originated in Japan, it is now offered all over the world. If you’re interested in Nuru massage, read more to find out everything about Nuru massage.