{"id":1245,"date":"2020-04-30T16:24:03","date_gmt":"2020-04-30T15:24:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/?p=1245"},"modified":"2023-03-23T16:51:51","modified_gmt":"2023-03-23T16:51:51","slug":"what-is-phone-sex-expert-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-phone-sex-expert-tips\/","title":{"rendered":"What is phone sex? Expert tips for amazing dirty talk"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In these times of uncertainty, for many of us staying at home can be tough. With the government advising social distancing to avoid close contact, many have not been able to see their loved ones, including couples and lovers. In turn those used to physical contact from a romantic or sexual partner are now left wanting.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Luckily sex doesn\u2019t have to be a complete write-off for those isolating home. Step forth \u2013 one of the most utilised objects since the isolation began\u2026the phone. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A great way to keep your sexual juices flowing, phone sex could just be the next best thing to that of physical contact &#8211; that is, until we can all get to the real thing. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For now, phone sex is more relevant now than ever before.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"#what-is-phone-sex?\">What is phone sex?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#how-to-have-phone-sex-that-gets-you-going?\">How to have phone sex that gets you going?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#the-benefits-of-phone-sex\">The benefits of phone sex<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>To help you become a sex chat master we\u2019ve compiled some expert tips with a little help from Psychosexual &amp; Relationship Therapist and Psycho-Sexologist Kate Moyle, and Good Vibrations staff sexologist Carol Queen PHD, to rid your inhibitions and discover the joys of phone sex.<\/strong><br \/>\n<a name=\"what-is-phone-sex?\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><b style=\"font-size: 2.25rem;\">What is phone sex?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Phone sex is a way of holding a sexually explicit conversation with someone. The idea of it is to invoke arousal which ultimately will lead to an orgasm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Though most people assume it\u2019s merely a case of talking dirty, the reality is that it\u2019s a little more involved than that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">More than merely rude, dirty, or forbidden words, the best phone sex when done correctly, is actually a sensational total body experience.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Best of all, though some believe phone sex can\u2019t possibly be relevant in this day and age, it continues to be the most significant niche in the sex industry. Many people continue to earn a good profit from those calling sex chat lines for their sexual needs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For those new to \u2018talking dirty\u2019, the idea of phone sex can be intimidating.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a name=\"how-to-have-phone-sex-that-gets-you-going?\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><b>How to have phone sex that gets you going<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The best way to ensure that you have the best ever phone sex is to take a little time beforehand planning your conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether it\u2019s phone sex with a partner, or you\u2019re accessing the services of a sex worker, several tips can help you make this one of the most rewarding experiences. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Better still, once you\u2019ve got past that first often awkward and fumbling stage, you can then build on your technique to ensure you up your game with each call.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3><b>Check your connections<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Before you even begin to think of starting with phone sex, it pays to ensure that you have good reception and can connect easily. There\u2019s nothing more off-putting than having a lag, fuzzy signal, or even being cut off mid-flow.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3><b>Get in the mood<br \/>\n<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To get you in the mood Queen advises to \u201cthink about what you want to get out of it in advance. Sexual excitement and release? Intimacy and fantasy sharing with a partner?\u201d<\/span> As Moyle says: \u201c <i>anything that helps you to switch off and feel in the mood is going to be an assistant.\u201d<\/i> Getting into the mood for phone sex can involve doing many different things. Most people like to wear something sexy to really set the scene and feel in the moment. Other ideas include setting up the room, dimming the lights, removing all distractions, and perhaps even having a glass of wine.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/setting-the-mood-during-phone-sex.png\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1249 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/setting-the-mood-during-phone-sex.png\" alt=\"Sexy underwear and candles to set the mood during phone sex\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/setting-the-mood-during-phone-sex.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/setting-the-mood-during-phone-sex-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/setting-the-mood-during-phone-sex-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/setting-the-mood-during-phone-sex-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/setting-the-mood-during-phone-sex-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3><b>Visualise the scenario<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Phone sex can be the ideal way to take you away from the everyday rituals, monotony, and, indeed, the current troubles of the world. So, why not get settled and begin visualising yourself someplace else? Allowing your imagination to run wild here can play a considerable part in the success of phone sex. <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to using your imagination, Queen suggests \u201cconsidering persona play and getting props and costumes to support your chosen personas\u201d.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3><b>Consider your vocabulary<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Many beginners to phone sex often come unstuck when it comes to vocabulary. Though there are so many words that you can use in this scenario, it\u2019s usually something that takes a while to get comfortable with. You may find it a good idea to write up a list of words that you can refer to. It\u2019s also good practice to learn a few variations along the way of what could really inject some passion into your conversation. <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, be sure to decide with your partner the type of language you are both comfortable with using. As Queen points out<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAre there any kinds of talk you&#8217;d be uncomfortable with, words you don&#8217;t like, etc? Let your phone partner know upfront\u201d.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sexologist-carol-queen-shares-her-tips-for-phone-sex.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1277 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sexologist-carol-queen-shares-her-tips-for-phone-sex.png\" alt=\"Sexologist Carol Queen shares her top tips for phone sex\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sexologist-carol-queen-shares-her-tips-for-phone-sex.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sexologist-carol-queen-shares-her-tips-for-phone-sex-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sexologist-carol-queen-shares-her-tips-for-phone-sex-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sexologist-carol-queen-shares-her-tips-for-phone-sex-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sexologist-carol-queen-shares-her-tips-for-phone-sex-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3><b>Maintain control over your voice<br \/>\n<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Equally as important as the words you use here is your tone of voice. For many people starting phone sex, there\u2019s an urge to use a totally different voice than usual. However, this is often rarely sustained and can involve your voice going up and down throughout the conversation. So, find a tone near enough your own that you feel comfortable with instead.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3><b>Consider adding more to the conversation<br \/>\n<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>As much as you can, try including further information into each conversation, each time. This can vary from the smell of perfume, cologne, or sheets, to the location of where your hands are. Those juicy details really can work much magic.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3><b>Use some authority<br \/>\n<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Phone sex can often bring out the inner dom for many couples. So, if you have a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/uk-top-sexual-fetishes-top-kinks-explained\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">particular fetish<\/a> or kink you want explored, don\u2019t be afraid to tell each other what you want during your conversation.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-role-sex-toys-play-in-phone-sex.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1248 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-role-sex-toys-play-in-phone-sex.png\" alt=\"Psychosexual &amp; Relationship Therapist and Psycho-Sexologist Kate Moyle discusses the role of sex toys during phone sex\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-role-sex-toys-play-in-phone-sex.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-role-sex-toys-play-in-phone-sex-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-role-sex-toys-play-in-phone-sex-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-role-sex-toys-play-in-phone-sex-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/the-role-sex-toys-play-in-phone-sex-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3><b>Try adding sound effects and using toys<br \/>\n<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Sex toys can be a great addition to phone sex, mainly if you include them as part of a game here. Moyle advises to have \u201c<i>some lubricant to hand so that it doesn\u2019t break the moment by you having to go and find them.\u201d <\/i>What\u2019s more, if you can add in some sound effects throughout, all the better.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3><b>Allow time for a reaction<br \/>\n<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The most professional phone sex operators understand the art of allowing their clients time to respond throughout their conversation. So, don\u2019t feel the need to fill every second with talk.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sexologist-carol-queen-shares-phone-sex-prop-tips.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1275 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sexologist-carol-queen-shares-phone-sex-prop-tips.png\" alt=\"Sexologist Carol Queen shares her phone sex tips using props\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sexologist-carol-queen-shares-phone-sex-prop-tips.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sexologist-carol-queen-shares-phone-sex-prop-tips-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sexologist-carol-queen-shares-phone-sex-prop-tips-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sexologist-carol-queen-shares-phone-sex-prop-tips-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sexologist-carol-queen-shares-phone-sex-prop-tips-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3><b>Don\u2019t rush it<br \/>\n<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The whole idea of phone sex is to allow the conversation to build naturally, just as you would with physical foreplay.<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re having trouble with what to say, Queen advises to <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cmentally bank the things that you find most sexually inspiring for use in phone sex calls. Think about when you&#8217;re reading erotica, watching porn, fantasising, or thinking about sexy past encounters, mentally bank the things that you find most sexually inspiring for use in phone sex calls\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3><b>Use technology<br \/>\n<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Once you\u2019ve gained confidence, you may want to go that one step further and use more than a phone here. You can switch to options such as Facetime, WhatsApp, Skype, Zoom or other online messaging services. This can add an extra dimension to your sex calls, visually.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-getting-aroused-during-phone-sex.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1250 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-getting-aroused-during-phone-sex.png\" alt=\"Man getting aroused during phone sex\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-getting-aroused-during-phone-sex.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-getting-aroused-during-phone-sex-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-getting-aroused-during-phone-sex-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-getting-aroused-during-phone-sex-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-getting-aroused-during-phone-sex-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3><b>Prepare for phone sex and video sex differently<br \/>\n<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to Queen, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cvideo sex, of course, allows you to see the person, which makes it more akin in some ways to making private porn with another person\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span>Whether you decide to use a phone or video, prepare them for them differently. Moyle stresses \u201c<i>it\u2019s important that you check in with each other about what feels most comfortable in advance \u2013 like all aspects of our sex lives, communication and consent are critical. If you are on video particularly make sure you have firm boundaries about screen grabbing \/ saving \/ recording any image content.<\/i>\u201d <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Queen also agrees on the importance of feeling comfortable while doing video sex sessions, stating and <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">stresses to<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> remember that \u201cmany video chat platforms allow the chat to be recorded, which may not be what you want &#8211; and if not, make that very clear\u201d.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<h3><b>Enjoy the experience<\/b><\/h3>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Feeling relaxed and comfortable will make your phone sex experience go a long way. According to Moyle, \u201c<i>if you don\u2019t feel comfortable and secure when you start your sex life on a new medium then you won\u2019t be able to fully relax and enjoy yourself.<\/i>\u201d We agree, so don\u2019t forget to enjoy the whole experience of phone sex.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"the-benefits-of-phone-sex\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><b>The benefits of phone sex<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So can phone sex really replace the intimacy that comes with physical sex? <\/span>According to Kate Moyle for<i> \u201cpeople who find it difficult to be vocal in the bedroom, or about sex in general, phone sex can also be a way of feeling less inhibited because you aren\u2019t face to face with a partner.\u201d <\/i>Another benefit of phone sex reinforced by<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Carol Queen is that it allows you<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><em> \u201cto stay erotically connected no matter where you are.&#8221; <\/em>A benefit more relevant now than ever.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>There are many other benefits to be had from phone sex. They include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It allows you to use your imagination<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can keep a relationship fresh and exciting<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s easily accessible\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you don\u2019t have someone to have phone sex with per se, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/cams.vivastreet.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">phone sex lines<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> offer a way of connecting with another person while fulfilling those sexual desires at the same time<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the current climate it is a safe way to continue sexual activity without physical contact<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sex-expert-shares-the-benefits-of-phone-sex.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1251 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sex-expert-shares-the-benefits-of-phone-sex.png\" alt=\"Psychosexual &amp; Relationship Therapist and Psycho-Sexologist Kate Moyle discusses the benefits of phone sex\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sex-expert-shares-the-benefits-of-phone-sex.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sex-expert-shares-the-benefits-of-phone-sex-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sex-expert-shares-the-benefits-of-phone-sex-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sex-expert-shares-the-benefits-of-phone-sex-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sex-expert-shares-the-benefits-of-phone-sex-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As Queen puts it \u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">at a time when we&#8217;re worried about a virus, phone sex is a real tool to help keep us safe\u201d.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>If you find yourself at a loss, the tips above can help you to sexually connect with another during this lockdown. <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember when doing so, to stay within your comfort zone, and as Queen stresses \u201cmake sure you know what that zone is and be flexible about the adventure you\u2019re embarking on\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So what are you waiting for? Make that call today.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> A special thank you to the following experts:<br \/>\n<b>Kate Moyle: <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/katemoyletherapy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">Psychosexual &amp; Relationship Therapist &amp; Psycho-Sexologist<\/a><b><br \/>\n<\/b><strong>Carol Queen, PHD: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodvibes.com\/s\/sex-toys\/p\/6-3-SC-BE33\/scb-distributors\/exhibitionism-for-the-shy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\">Good Vibrations Staff Sexologist\u00a0<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In these times of uncertainty, for many of us staying at home can be tough. 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