{"id":2297,"date":"2021-01-28T11:10:40","date_gmt":"2021-01-28T11:10:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/?p=2297"},"modified":"2023-03-23T18:14:11","modified_gmt":"2023-03-23T18:14:11","slug":"best-bdsm-sex-toys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/best-bdsm-sex-toys\/","title":{"rendered":"10 best BDSM toys for bondage love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you part of the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/adult-dating\/gb\/q\/bdsm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">BDSM<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> world? Or are you looking to incorporate a little <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/uk-top-sexual-fetishes-top-kinks-explained\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kink<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> into your bedroom activities?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A BDSM <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/blog\/the-bondage-survey-results-bdsm-statistics\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">survey<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> conducted by sex-brand LELO revealed that <\/span><b>over 80% of participants have tried spanking and being tied up, over 40% being whipped, and over 30% being gagged<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to certified sex expert and sexologist Gigi Engle, \u201c<em>kink is super accessible to everyone\u2014and a lot of us have either tried it or wanted to<\/em>.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter what acronym of BDSM (<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism), <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0appeals to you most, be sure there\u2019s a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/best-sex-toys-and-how-to-use-them\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sex toy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> out there waiting to fuel your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/uk-top-sexual-fetishes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">erotic fantasies<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and ginger up this power-play fun.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/bdsm-guide-for-bondage-beginners\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">BDSM beginners<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to couples who just like to dabble in the occasional BDSM bedroom antics, here are our top 10 sexiest and affordable BDSM toys for you and your partner to try.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>1. Bondage Flogger<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><b>Best for:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Feeling pleasure and pain at once.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you or your partner like to be spanked or punished? Dish out some discipline with a beginner-friendly BDSM flogger, generally designed with a plastic handle and wrist-loop for sheer control. Floggers are a type of whip, which are designed to instill thrilling fear and inflict pleasurable pain on the sub lover. You can lash out on the ground to intimidate them or tease them with soft strokes or a sharp and satisfying sting.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Where to buy:<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Lovehoney for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovehoney.co.uk\/bondage\/spankers-ticklers\/floggers\/p\/bondage-boutique-slap-n-tickle-10-inch-rubber-flogger\/a30723g52055.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a312.99<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2301 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-flogger.png\" alt=\"Black and red flogger BDSM sex toy\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-flogger.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-flogger-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-flogger-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-flogger-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-flogger-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><b><br \/>\n2. Satin Blindfold<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><b>Best for:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Getting turned on by sensory deprivation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether it\u2019s for roleplay, stimulating a fetish, or sensory deprivation, a silky satin-feel blindfold can add a new dimension to BDSM sex. They offer <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a comfortable and snug fit to stop any sneak peeks, and its soft lining means it can be worn for as long as your session goes. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s effective for setting your senses alight and purely focusing on the sex scene itself while helping the wearer let go of inhibitions to let loose. Not to mention, it\u2019s great for a good night\u2019s sleep too.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Where to buy:<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Lovehoney for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovehoney.co.uk\/bondage\/blindfolds-masks-gags\/blindfolds-masks\/p\/lovehoney-oh-satin-blindfold\/a28736g46744.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a35.99<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2302 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-blindfold.png\" alt=\"Woman on bed wearing lingerie and BDSM blindfold\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-blindfold.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-blindfold-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-blindfold-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-blindfold-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-blindfold-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/h2>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><b>3. Mouth Ball Gag<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><b>Best for:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Wanting to simply feel the pleasure in silence.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you enjoy being submissive during sex, a large silicone mouth gag is great for those looking for full mouth restriction. Many of them are hypoallergenic, odourless and tasteless for comfort during wear and features several holes to ensure easy breathing &#8211; but still renders you speechless. Great for being turned on by feeling punished and helpless while enjoying the thrill of increased anxiety levels. For the dominant lovers, you\u2019ll love watching them drool and hearing the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/uk-top-sex-noises-revealed\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sounds<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> they make when they try to speak or <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-an-orgasm-and-how-to-get-one\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">reach an orgasm<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Note:<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> It\u2019s important to devise a clear \u2018safe signal\u2019, which can be acted out for safety purposes<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Where to buy:<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Lovehoney for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovehoney.com\/bondage\/blindfolds-masks-gags\/gags\/p\/bondage-boutique-large-silicone-breathable-ball-gag\/a38374g70757.html?SSAID=1615998&amp;sscid=11k5_qdu21\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a324.99<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2303 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-mouth-ball-gag.png\" alt=\"Woman wearing ball gag BDSM sex toy\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-mouth-ball-gag.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-mouth-ball-gag-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-mouth-ball-gag-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-mouth-ball-gag-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-mouth-ball-gag-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><b>4. Spreader Bar<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><b>Best for:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Extreme kinky <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/best-sex-positions-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sex positions<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While playing bondage, you can explore a range of kinky sex positions with a versatIle spreader bar. Restraints are often softly padded and velcro-fastened for your comfort and safety, and some even feature two pairs of built-in restraints &#8211; one pair at the end of each bar and the other in the middle. Designed to spread your sub out, you can use this for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/beginners-guide-to-oral-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">oral sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, deeper penetration, and G-spot stimulation. Just let your imagination run wild.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Where to buy:<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Adam &amp; Eve for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.adameve.com\/adult-sex-toys\/kinky-bondage\/sp-adam-eve-scarlet-couture-spreader-bar-92862.aspx?ac=cjid-13017120-8209452-SHOPBDSMToysFavilla9-24-4910984-xid-fr1611597435888ahg&amp;cm_mmc=affiliate-_-CommissionJunction-_-Publisher-_-8209452\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a330.60<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2304 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-spreader-bar.png\" alt=\"Black and red BDSM spreader bar\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-spreader-bar.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-spreader-bar-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-spreader-bar-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-spreader-bar-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-spreader-bar-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Credited to Adam &amp; Eve<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><b>5. Nipple Clamps<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><b>Best for:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Men and women that love nipple play.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Saucy and stylish, nipple clamps are guaranteed to drive these <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/erogenous-zones-for-women-and-men\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">erogenous zones<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> up the wall. They keep your nipples hard and sensitive and can give some pleasurable torture for those that like to be punished. Want to go a little harder? Opt for a fully adjustable pair, so you can choose your desired pressure, and there\u2019s nothing stopping you from hanging items on the chain for a more intense sensation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Where to buy:<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Ann Summers for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.annsummers.com\/bondage-shop\/bondage-clamps\/rose-gold-nipple-clamps\/68540.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a312<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2305 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-nipple-clamps.png\" alt=\"Black and silver BDSM nipple clamps\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-nipple-clamps.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-nipple-clamps-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-nipple-clamps-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-nipple-clamps-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-nipple-clamps-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><b><br \/>\n6. Bondage Rope<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><b>Best for:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Practicing the art of shibari or restraint with your lover.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enjoy restricting, wrapping, suspending, and binding up your partner with some strong, sexy and silky bondage rope. A silky finish provides a smooth-feel against the skin for comfort and erotic arousal. You can be as creative as you like, as it permits beautiful artistic designs and full-body bondage for an erotic aesthetic and sensual entanglement. The more practice you get, the quicker you\u2019ll become a shibari pro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Where to buy:<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Simply Pleasure for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.simplypleasure.com\/fetish-fantasy-35ft-japanese-silk-rope-961.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a311.45<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2306 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-bondage-rope.png\" alt=\"Woman's hands being tied with BDSM bondage rope\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-bondage-rope.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-bondage-rope-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-bondage-rope-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-bondage-rope-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-bondage-rope-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><b>7. Collar And Lead\u00a0<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><b>Best for:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> BDSM lovers who enjoy an erotic choking experience.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fetish meets fashion with a luxurious kinky collar and lead. Dominatrixes and submissives alike can get turned on by consensual sex-slave roleplay, as they enjoy the swinging and pulling sounds of a super-polished and often detachable chain. Collars are comfy and usually have an adjustable buckle fastening to tighten the grip a little for increased pleasure. Get ready to show them who\u2019s boss or prepare to submit to your lover\u2019s desires.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Where to buy:<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Ann Summers for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.annsummers.com\/bondage-shop\/bondage-restraints\/faux-leather-collar-and-lead\/2000692NO_SIZE.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a318<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2307 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-collor-and-lead.png\" alt=\"Woman and bed wearing BDSM collar and lead\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-collor-and-lead.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-collor-and-lead-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-collor-and-lead-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-collor-and-lead-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-collor-and-lead-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><b>8. Under Bed Restraint<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><b>Best for:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> A more intense bondage experience.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Want to dominate your partner &#8211; sexually? Transform your bed into a sex den with a sturdy bed restraint. There\u2019s one available for almost any bed size and <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cuffs are fully adjustable for a comfortable fit. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Doms can enjoy leaving their sub lover pleasurably vulnerable and helpless in their power. From <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/beginners-guide-to-anal-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">anal sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to an <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/five-types-of-erotic-massage-to-enjoy-with-your-partner\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">erotic massage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, the possibilities are endless. Strap them down and have free rein (with consent).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Where to buy:<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Lovehoney for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovehoney.co.uk\/bondage\/handcuffs-restraints\/bed-restraints-and-ties\/p\/bondage-boutique-black-bound-to-please-under-mattress-restraint\/a19809g26203.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a334.99<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2308 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-bed-restraint.png\" alt=\"Woman on ned with legs tied in BDSM bed restraint\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-bed-restraint.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-bed-restraint-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-bed-restraint-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-bed-restraint-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-bed-restraint-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Credited to Lovehoney<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><b>9. Feather Teaser<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><b>Best for:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Couples that enjoy slow and sensual <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/foreplay-ideas-for-better-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">foreplay<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you love a little<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> foreplay <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">before BDSM sex, then a feather teaser will have you feeling tingly all-over. Available in various sensual shades, they boast luxuriously-soft feathers for exploring the most sensitive areas and a lightweight handle that\u2019s easy to manage. Tease and caress your lover\u2019s skin with some sensation play and you\u2019re bound to get an erotic response.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Where to buy:<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> LELO for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lelo.com\/tantra-feather-teaser\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a324.90<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2309 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-feather-teaser.png\" alt=\"Black and white BDSM feather teaser\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-feather-teaser.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-feather-teaser-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-feather-teaser-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-feather-teaser-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bdsm-feather-teaser-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><b>10. Fifty Days of Play<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><b>Best for:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Competitive couples that are eager to win.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you get excited by <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/sex-games-for-couples\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sex games<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? While there\u2019s lots of BDSM games on the market, you\u2019ll love this Fifty Days of Play packed with stimulating scenarios, romantic gestures and erotic surprises. It contains one dice and fifty envelopes that will decide which out of the five shades of naughtiness you will be enjoying, from<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Virginal White through to Seductive Black. If you enjoy switching roles during BDSM play, this game will have you from dominant to submissive in no time. Whether you want to play at home or take it on a romantic weekend away, it\u2019s <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a BDSM game you\u2019ll never want to stop playing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Where to buy:<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Amazon for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Fifty-Days-Couples-Bondage-Submission\/dp\/B00B61UPE8\/ref=pd_bxgy_img_3\/257-0132174-4890917?_encoding=UTF8&amp;pd_rd_i=B00B61UPE8&amp;pd_rd_r=56b813be-5e7c-4571-ab56-671b2f68e446&amp;pd_rd_w=T48Hs&amp;pd_rd_wg=9pcH9&amp;pf_rd_p=dcf35746-0212-418b-a148-30395d107b2d&amp;pf_rd_r=XY7XWRHDKH7XSVDPRPQG&amp;psc=1&amp;refRID=XY7XWRHDKH7XSVDPRPQG\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a311.99<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2312 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fifty-days-of-play-bdsm-game.png\" alt=\"Fifty Days of Play BDSM game\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fifty-days-of-play-bdsm-game.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fifty-days-of-play-bdsm-game-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fifty-days-of-play-bdsm-game-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fifty-days-of-play-bdsm-game-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/fifty-days-of-play-bdsm-game-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Credited to Amazon<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><b>BDSM Safety<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before using any BDSM sex toys, it is important that you read the instructions carefully and research on how to perform sexual acts with them safely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gigi urges to <em>\u201cgo to workshops, consult professional BDSM practitioners, and do your research.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The best practices for BDSM safety are to always:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Establish consent\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Establish boundaries<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recognise the risks\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Use a safe word or signal (especially if using <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-use-a-gag\/\">mouth gags<\/a> or sex toys that obstruct speech)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Play sober and not under the influence of alcohol or drugs\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Communicate openly and honestly\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Know how to use your sex toys or tools properly\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prepare for any emergencies (e.g., have a phone nearby)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Never leave a bound person unattended\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Read more information on <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/badgirlsbible.com\/bdsm-rules\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">BDSM safety<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember, all toys should be thoroughly <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Luxuria-100-Antibacterial-Sex-Cleaner\/dp\/B00JJXPJ3C\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cleaned<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> before and after use for hygienic and safety reasons.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Disclaimer:<\/i><\/b><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Due to the current social-distancing measures, should you decide to participate in any sexual activity of any kind it should be with a person who you have been self-isolating or social distancing with. All parties involved should also have adhered to Government social-distancing guidelines.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you part of the BDSM world? Or are you looking to incorporate a little kink into your bedroom activities? A BDSM survey conducted by sex-brand LELO revealed that over 80% of participants have tried spanking and being tied up, over 40% being whipped, and over 30% being gagged. 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