{"id":2532,"date":"2021-04-30T12:00:22","date_gmt":"2021-04-30T11:00:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/?p=2532"},"modified":"2023-03-24T09:07:58","modified_gmt":"2023-03-24T09:07:58","slug":"how-escorts-can-screen-clients","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-escorts-can-screen-clients\/","title":{"rendered":"Escort safety tips: How to screen your client"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re an <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/escort\/gb\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">independent escort<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, screening clients is a vital procedure for your <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-be-safe-as-a-sex-worker\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">safety<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Doing so, will help to ensure that you\u2019re not at risk of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/common-scams-faced-by-sex-workers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">scammers<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and unsafe or dangerous clients.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When screening your clients, you should aim to find out as much about them as possible and gauge their attitudes and behaviours before meeting up with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Below are some screening measures you should put in place before you share any personal details or accompany them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Ask for ID<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Check their identity by asking them to provide formal photo identification (e.g., a passport or driver\u2019s license) along with an image of themself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To be extra safe, you can request for this to be done via a video call. That way you can see if their face matches the photo on their ID.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make sure that all details are displayed clearly and make a record of their name and date of birth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Likewise, some clients may also want confirmation that you too are genuine. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/yoti-age-verification-and-vivastreet\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Age verifying<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/vivastreet-photo-verification\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">photo verifying<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> your ads will help to build trust between both parties.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2534 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/photo-identification-client-screening.png\" alt=\"Passport identification for client screening\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/photo-identification-client-screening.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/photo-identification-client-screening-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/photo-identification-client-screening-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/photo-identification-client-screening-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/photo-identification-client-screening-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><b>Ask personal questions<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t hold back from asking your client personal questions, such as where they work, what area they live, where they hang out, or where they usually find escorts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If they have nothing to hide, they should be open and willing to give up this information.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This will help you get to know the person better and determine whether they are genuine or not.<\/span><\/p>\n<section id=\"custom_html-7\" class=\"widget_text widget widget_custom_html amr_widget\"><div class=\"textwidget custom-html-widget\"><div class=\"internal_widget_between_content\">\r\n\t<div class=\"widget_header\">\r\n\t\t<h3>Are you a sex worker looking to generate more business?<\/h3>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n\t<div class=\"widget_body\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"widget_left_container\">\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\"widget_image b2b\"><\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<div class=\"widget_right_container\">\r\n\t\t\t<h3>Advertise on Vivastreet or upgrade your ad, and take your escort business to the next level. <\/h3>\r\n\t\t\t<p>Guarantee business is only a few clicks away. Don't miss out.<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t<a class=\"widget_btn_orange\" href=\"https:\/\/post.vivastreet.co.uk\/?cat=adult_services&utm_source=blog&utm_medium=widget&utm_campaign=blog_widget_b2b\">Make money today<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><\/div><\/section>\n<h2><b>Check their social media accounts<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether you pop their name in Google or ask your client directly for their social media accounts, this is another way to learn more about them and confirm that they are who they say they are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Check their bios, the type of content they are sharing online, and the people they are engaging with to get a sense of their personality.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t forget to check out their LinkedIn, as this is a professional profile that could reveal their working status, current occupation, and past jobs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2535 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/social-media-client-screening.png\" alt=\"Escort checking client social media account for screening\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/social-media-client-screening.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/social-media-client-screening-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/social-media-client-screening-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/social-media-client-screening-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/social-media-client-screening-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><b>Take a look at client reviews<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make the most of sites and forums that allow escorts and sex workers to review clients, such as <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/saafe.info\/main\/index.php\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">SAAFE<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Check to see if their name or contact details flag up during your search to find if other escorts have reported them.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If something appears, you can read the details and decide whether or not this is the type of client you want to meet up with.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Look on platforms that have client blacklists<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are other sites and apps out there that blacklist suspicious clients for your safety and protection.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/clienteye-and-vivastreet-partnership\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ClientEye App<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is a great app for escorts to report dangerous clients and known <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-identify-a-timewaster\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">timewasters<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Pop their number in the app and see if anything flags up.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Likewise, if you believe a client is unsafe, notify fellow escorts by reporting them in the app too.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you become a member of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/uglymugs.org\/um\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">National Ugly Mugs<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you will also be able to get alerts on dangerous clients. This is a great way to avoid these types of clients in the future if you are approached by them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2541 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/clienteye-app-for-screening-clients.png\" alt=\"ClientEye app for escorts to screen clients\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/clienteye-app-for-screening-clients.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/clienteye-app-for-screening-clients-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/clienteye-app-for-screening-clients-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/clienteye-app-for-screening-clients-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/clienteye-app-for-screening-clients-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><b>Ask other escorts<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If it\u2019s not your client\u2019s first time <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-book-a-date-with-an-escort\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">booking an escort<\/a>, ask them if they can provide you with the name of a previous escort they met up with and where they found them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can reach out to the escort and ask them to provide their personal account of the client and what their experience was like to help you decide whether they are safe to be around.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Ask to talk on the phone<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You should always initiate a telephone conversation with the client before meeting each other.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As well as being another way to find out who they are, it\u2019s a way to break the ice, develop a more human connection, and get a feel of the client\u2019s character.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do not accept calls from blocked numbers. If they are not willing to display their number, this is a red flag.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Talking on the phone prior to meeting up is also a tactic that will allow you to find out if a client is intoxicated.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If this is obvious, whether they are slurring their words or responding incoherently, do not meet up with this client, as they could be drunk when you meet up with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2536 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/phone-conversation-client-screening.png\" alt=\"Escort talking on the phone to client for screening\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/phone-conversation-client-screening.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/phone-conversation-client-screening-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/phone-conversation-client-screening-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/phone-conversation-client-screening-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/phone-conversation-client-screening-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><b>Let them know you accept card payments<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unlike cash, bank cards offer traceable details. Let your client know that you take card payments to test their reaction.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If they refuse to use this <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/vivastreet-payment-options-for-sex-workers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">payment method<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for your services, this could be suspicious.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Take control over transportation<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For your safety, we always advise escorts to make their own travel arrangements when meeting up with clients.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, should you decide to have your client pick you up after double-checking the destination, you should ask them to provide their vehicle number plate before they arrive.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Such information will allow you to check up these details to make sure it&#8217;s registered to the right person.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before getting into the car make sure the registration number they have given you and the one displayed on the vehicle match up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Send it to a friend or family member so they are aware.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2537 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/vehicle-registration-client-screening.png\" alt=\"Black car parked on street\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/vehicle-registration-client-screening.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/vehicle-registration-client-screening-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/vehicle-registration-client-screening-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/vehicle-registration-client-screening-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/vehicle-registration-client-screening-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><b>Trust your gut<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can never go wrong with trusting your gut.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you feel uneasy with a client when screening them for whatever reason, don\u2019t allow them to book a service.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you\u2019re unable to pinpoint what makes you feel uncomfortable, this is still an alert and they should be avoided.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Have them take a COVID test<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During COVID-19, there are <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/covid-19-resources-for-sex-workers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">extra safety precautions<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you may want to take while working.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As Coronavirus is spread through close contact with a person, we recommend that you screen them by checking if they have been tested for COVID before starting your session.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This will allow you to assess your own risk and decide whether you want to proceed with the booking or not.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Screen your clients<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Screening clients make sex work safer and should not be disregarded at all costs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a client is non-compliant or refuses or fails to provide some of the information above, then this is a warning that you should stay away from the client.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You should understand that some may be sceptical to provide some details for personal reasons, such as ensuring confidentiality from friends and family.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, you should find alternative methods for finding out important information or whatever makes you feel comfortable to proceed to do business with a client.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>If you need more advice on sex work safety, clients to avoid, or support services, please check out our other articles below:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/rebecca-dakin-on-sex-work-safety\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Q&amp;A: Sex expert and former escort Rebecca Dakin shares sex work safety tips<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/sex-work-safety-tips-to-make-more-money\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">National Ugly Mugs: 7 safety tips that will help you make more money<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/safe-sex-guide-for-sex-workers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Safe sex: Making sex work safe<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/webcam-safety-for-sex-workers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to stay safe on webcam as a sex worker<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/resources-for-sex-workers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Resources for sex workers in the UK<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/guide-to-working-safely-during-covid-19\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A guide to working safely during COVID-19<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019re an independent escort, screening clients is a vital procedure for your safety. Doing so, will help to ensure that you\u2019re not at risk of scammers, and unsafe or dangerous clients. 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