{"id":2826,"date":"2021-09-24T09:53:21","date_gmt":"2021-09-24T08:53:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/?p=2826"},"modified":"2023-03-23T18:08:18","modified_gmt":"2023-03-23T18:08:18","slug":"guide-to-french-kissing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/guide-to-french-kissing\/","title":{"rendered":"How to French kiss: The basics and beyond"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ve likely seen it in movies or experienced it in real life &#8211; whatever the scenario, it can\u2019t be denied that French kissing is one of the most thrilling aspects of a relationship, particularly in the early stages.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"#whatisafrenchkiss?\">What is a French kiss?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#howtofrenchkisslikeapro\">How to French kiss like a pro<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#howlongshouldafrenchkisslast?\">How long should a French kiss last?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#wheredidfrenchkissingoriginate?\">Where did French kissing originate?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#canyougetanstd\/stifromfrenchkissing?\">Can you get an STD\/STI from French kissing?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#enjoyafrenchkisstoday\">Enjoy a French kiss today<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">French kissing &#8211; which we Brits know and love &#8211; is a sexy and sensual way to connect with someone, and can even work as an act of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/foreplay-ideas-for-better-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">foreplay<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether it&#8217;s your first time or 100th, knowing the art of how to French kiss can work wonders for your romantic encounters.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Interested? Get ready to pucker up with our everything-you-need-to-know guide to French kissing.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"whatisafrenchkiss?\"><b>What is a French kiss?<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A French kiss (also referred to as \u201csnogging\u201d, \u201cdeep kiss\u201d, \u201ctongue kiss\u201d or \u201cmaking out\u201d) is <\/span><b>a passionate and open-mouthed kiss where both partners use their extended tongue to stimulate each other\u2019s mouth<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">French kissing is considered more sexually arousing than a smooch (a kiss without the tongue), as the lips, tongue and other areas of the mouth are sensitive <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/erogenous-zones-for-women-and-men\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">erogenous zones<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that incite sexual arousal and pleasure.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This form of sexual kiss is best left when in private, as evident in a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/yougov.co.uk\/topics\/relationships\/articles-reports\/2019\/02\/11\/one-ten-britons-offended-public-hugging\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2019 YouGov Omnibus survey<\/span><\/a>, which <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">revealed that just 15% of Brits are comfortable with people French kissing in public.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2828 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/what-is-a-french-kiss.png\" alt=\"Two women French kissing\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/what-is-a-french-kiss.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/what-is-a-french-kiss-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/what-is-a-french-kiss-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/what-is-a-french-kiss-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/what-is-a-french-kiss-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"howtofrenchkisslikeapro\"><b>How to French kiss like a pro<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Like anything you want to do right without fear of embarrassment, French kissing can be nerve-racking.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When tongue kissing, you can be overwhelmed with various thoughts at once, such as which way to tilt your head, what to do with your tongue, where to put your hands, and so on. Knowing how to French kiss well vs knowing how to French kiss amazingly, is key.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Below is our practical step-by-step guide on how to French kiss, including <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how to French kiss someone for the first time <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to help build up your confidence and put your mind at ease.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<section id=\"custom_html-8\" class=\"widget_text widget widget_custom_html amr_widget\"><div class=\"textwidget custom-html-widget\"><div class=\"internal_widget_between_content\">\r\n\t<div class=\"widget_header\">\r\n\t\t<h3>Are you a looking for an escort?<\/h3>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n\t<div class=\"widget_body\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"widget_left_container\">\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\"widget_image b2c\"><\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<div class=\"widget_right_container\">\r\n\t\t\t<h3>We have over 12,000 UK erotic escorts waiting for you. Whatever you desire.<\/h3>\r\n\t\t\t<p>With the ultimate discretion and safety measures assured, don't waste a moment to find your escort of choice. <\/p>\r\n\t\t\t<a class=\"widget_btn_orange\" href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/escort\/gb?utm_source=blog&utm_medium=widget&utm_campaign=blog_widget_b2c\">Find an escort today<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><\/div><\/section>\n<h3><b>Making a move<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before locking lips, there are a few things you should consider to ensure you\u2019re prepared for the big moment and avoid any embarrassing mishaps.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Keep your lips well-moisturised<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A soft and moist mouth makes kissing much more pleasurable. Before French kissing, ensure your lips are not chapped or dry so your partner isn&#8217;t distracted or feels uncomfortable with the condition of your mouth. If you want to achieve smoother lips before kissing, try using a chapstick, drinking water to stay hydrated, or subtly licking your lips. To be extra prepared before your next meetup, purchase a lip scrub and use it beforehand to remove dead skin<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Freshen your breath<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; When French kissing, having fresh breath is ideal, especially as your mouth will be open. You can do this by practising good dental hygiene, such as brushing your teeth or rinsing your mouth out with water beforehand. Alternatively, consider carrying breath mints or mint-flavoured gum so you can chew\/eat this beforehand to give your breath a nice smell. Avoid eating foods that leave an unpleasant aftertaste or residue in your mouth (e.g., onion, garlic, coffee, milk and corn), especially on a dinner date<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Just relax <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Although this may be difficult, before attempting a French kiss, it\u2019s important to try and relax and calm your nerves. Otherwise, your body may tense up, making the experience awkward and less enjoyable. Take a deep breath, relax your body, and above all, trust yourself<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Find the perfect moment <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; For things to run smoothly, you need to know when and <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how to initiate a French kiss <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">appropriately. A great time is when there is built-up sexual tension and growing intimacy, such as <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-flirt-tips\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">flirting<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You both should be in a similar mindset. A few things to consider are:<\/span>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><b>Having complete privacy <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; You don\u2019t want any distractions to ruin the moment or feel put off at the thought of people watching you<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><b>Your partner dropping hints<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; You should assess the other person\u2019s body language. If they are locking eyes with you, constantly looking at your lips and trying to sit super-close to you, these are indications that they might be ready for a kiss<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><b>Waiting until the end of the date<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; After you\u2019ve had a fun time together, the end of a date is the perfect time for a kiss. It also doesn\u2019t make you appear too eager or forward, as you\u2019ve patiently waited until the end of the night for a kiss. Bear in mind, that if it\u2019s the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/best-first-date-ideas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">first date<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, some people may not feel ready just yet<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><b>Being upfront with your partner<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; Don&#8217;t be afraid to ask the person if you can kiss them. Not only is it polite, but you\u2019ll definitely know if they\u2019re interested instead of making assumptions and things potentially getting awkward from there<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2830 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/moisturise-lips-french-kissing-tip.png\" alt=\"Woman applying moisturising chapstick on lips to prepare for French kissing\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/moisturise-lips-french-kissing-tip.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/moisturise-lips-french-kissing-tip-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/moisturise-lips-french-kissing-tip-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/moisturise-lips-french-kissing-tip-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/moisturise-lips-french-kissing-tip-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Make eye contact<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; Gazing deeply into someone else\u2019s eye can be quite romantic, and slowly moving your gaze back and forth between their lips and eyes can also make your intentions of wanting to kiss them very clear.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Break the touch barrier &#8211; <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want to be extra sure that it\u2019s the right time for a kiss, try breaking the touch barrier first or give a sign of affection to break the ice a little more. This can involve holding hands, placing your hand on their knee, or sitting next to each other while touching legs. Their response will let you know whether you should take the next step. You can also try this approach as your moving in for a kiss<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Move in for the kiss <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; When moving in for the kiss, do it at a steady pace to give your partner the chance to consent, prevent you from accidentally bumping heads, and build anticipation. Move your body towards them until your heads are a few inches apart before touching lips<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Tilt your head <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; When you feel it\u2019s time to start exchanging tongues, tilt your head to one side. If your kissing partner is up for it, they are likely to lean their head in the opposite direction, as this is a major signal for French kissing. In this position, your faces fit right in with less chance of bumping noses or teeth. If this happens, just adjust your head in a more comfortable position and continue<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Close your eyes <\/b>&#8211; Truth be told: it&#8217;s kind of instinctual to close your eyes when French kissing, but it can help you stay relaxed too. As you can\u2019t see much of the other person\u2019s face while kissing, if you want to know if they are enjoying it, you can tell by their body language and gestures. Although, closing one\u2019s eyes while kissing is usually an indication that they\u2019re having a good time<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2831 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/closing-eyes-french-kissing-tip.png\" alt=\"Two men French kissing with their eyes closed\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/closing-eyes-french-kissing-tip.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/closing-eyes-french-kissing-tip-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/closing-eyes-french-kissing-tip-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/closing-eyes-french-kissing-tip-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/closing-eyes-french-kissing-tip-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><b>How to French kiss<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you\u2019ve given your partner the signs that you\u2019re ready for intimacy and they are reciprocated, it\u2019s time to actually start kissing. Discover ways to lead up to and learn <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how to move your tongue when French kissing<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Brushing lips <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Lightly brushing your lips over your partner\u2019s while smooching can build more anticipation and excitement for a French kiss. It also lets your partner know that you want more. Keep your movements slow to help build up tension before making out<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Smooch first<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; At the beginning, try some tongueless kissing first. Taking it easy and giving some time to get aroused is much more sensual and easy-going than thrust your tongue into the person&#8217;s mouth. You can use your mouth to give your partner hints that you\u2019re ready to spice things up a bit, such as opening your mouth more widely, sweeping your tongue over their lips, or locking their top or lower lip in between yours. From there, the speed and intensity can change<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Explore with your tongue<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; Firstly, you must relax to avoid a rigid tongue and keep your lips loose during the kiss. Slowly slide your tongue into your partner\u2019s mouth, either <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">above or below their tongue, and move it around.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You can make swirling motions in their mouth and lightly touch the tip of the person&#8217;s tongue with your own. Do this while retreating back, and in between smooching, encouraging them to take the next move. Remember to keep it light and shallow, and avoid putting your tongue deep down in their throat until the pressure becomes more intense. A kiss is an exchange, and your tongues need to be in tune, so make sure your partner\u2019s tongue is reciprocating yours<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Take time to breathe <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; If you\u2019re both really enjoying the kiss, it may go on for longer than expected. But don\u2019t forget to breathe. Once you get into a rhythm, you should be able to find a smooth breathing pattern without interrupting your lip-locking session. Take small breaths through your nose, take a short break if you need to while smiling, touching foreheads, and making eye contact to keep the romantic connection, or you can try breathing through your mouth if you feel comfortable<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2834 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/how-to-french-kiss.png\" alt=\"Intimate couple on bed about to French kiss\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/how-to-french-kiss.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/how-to-french-kiss-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/how-to-french-kiss-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/how-to-french-kiss-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/how-to-french-kiss-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><b>Advanced French kissing\u00a0<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want to know <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">how to French kiss REALLY good<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, these tricks will have your partner coming back for more.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Switch it up <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Once you\u2019ve established a nice flowing rhythm, make the kiss even sexier by adding variety. Here\u2019s what you can change:<\/span>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><b>Speed<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; Vary the pace of your kiss to make it more thrilling. You can start off slow and then go a little faster before slowing down again<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><b>Depth<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; If you\u2019re feeling super comfortable, deepen your kiss for extra passion. Keep your speed under control while adding a playful touch by returning to more shallow kisses<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><b>Pressure <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Soft kisses are sexy, but so are hard kisses. To do this, be a bit more forceful with your tongue and lip action while keeping a steady motion. Sometimes, a hard kiss can signal that you want to take things further, so make sure you\u2019re both comfortable before becoming more vigorous<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><b>Tongue<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; While you glide your tongues together, you can try and rub the backs or front of your partner\u2019s teeth with your tongue to create a tickling sensation<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><b>Teeth <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Lip-biting while gently kissing is sexy. Now and again, catch your partner&#8217;s bottom lip with your teeth, especially if you want to hint that you want to have <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/surprising-health-benefits-of-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with them<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Use sensual touch<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; While you should remain respectful, especially during the first kiss, it might be awkward to keep your hands hanging by your sides. Touching your partner can make the French kiss extra sensual and romantic. You can start off with caressing their face, hair, shoulder or back, placing your hands on their hips or waist, or wrapping your arms around them in an embrace<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2832 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/sensual-touch-french-kissing-tip.png\" alt=\"Dominant man holding woman's neck before French Kissing\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/sensual-touch-french-kissing-tip.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/sensual-touch-french-kissing-tip-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/sensual-touch-french-kissing-tip-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/sensual-touch-french-kissing-tip-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/sensual-touch-french-kissing-tip-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Read your partner\u2019s body language<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; People enjoy different aspects of kissing and there is no right way to kiss. In other words, just because an ex-partner may like you chewing their lip, it doesn\u2019t mean someone else will. In order to adapt a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/rainbow-kiss-meaning\/\">kissing style<\/a> you both enjoy, you need to pay attention to their body language and cues to ensure that your partner is comfortable in the way you are kissing them. For example, if you hear them <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/uk-top-sex-noises-revealed\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">moan<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or they start to kiss you more intensely, you\u2019re doing something right, whereas if they pull away you might need to take things easy<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Practice makes perfect<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; The more you French kiss, the better you\u2019ll get at it. Also, the more you kiss a specific person, the more comfortable you will become and develop a unique style that suits both of you. Many first kisses don\u2019t go as planned the first time and can be quite awkward. If this happens, keep going until you achieve the perfect flow or have a laugh about it<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Talk about it<\/b> &#8211; If you enjoy the way your partner is kissing you, let them know. Likewise, if you don\u2019t like something, break it to them gently while complimenting them at the same time. When it comes to kissing, like any sexual activity, open and honest communication can lead to a more <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/best-sex-positions-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">satisfying sex life<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 id=\"howlongshouldafrenchkisslast?\"><b>How long should a French kiss last?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A French kiss can last as long as you and your kissing partner want it to.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re both relishing the moment, you might want it to go on for as long as possible.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dw.com\/en\/whats-in-a-kiss-11-fun-facts-about-kissing\/a-19381332\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">DW<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, an average kiss lasts up to 12 seconds. While this isn\u2019t specific to French kissing per say, having a short French kiss can be just as pleasurable as a long one.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just remember that whenever you feel uncomfortable or have just had enough, you can stop kissing at any time.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"wheredidfrenchkissingoriginate?\"><b>Where did French kissing originate?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While it makes sense to assume that French kissing originated in France, it\u2019s not quite the case.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many references to open-mouth kissing or kissing with tongues have been reported in numerous ancient texts, including the famous <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/kama-sutra-sex-positions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kama Sutra<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, the association with the French appears to be a more modern phenomenon, as it\u2019s widely accepted that American and British <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/newsfeed.time.com\/2013\/05\/30\/french-kiss-is-finally-a-real-word-in-france\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">soldiers in France during World War 1<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> coined the term after witnessing the way French women kissed.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Author Sheril Kirshenbaum also explains in her book, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/books.google.com\/books?id=SQhknRXlyvkC&amp;printsec=frontcover&amp;dq=The+Science+of+Kissing:+What+Our+Lips+Are+Telling+Us&amp;hl=en&amp;sa=X&amp;ved=2ahUKEwiA9puyy4XkAhUCy1kKHZnkDMsQ6AEwAHoECAAQAg#v=onepage&amp;q=The%20Science%20of%20Kissing%3A%20What%20Our%20Lips%20Are%20Telling%20Us&amp;f=false\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,<\/span><\/i><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that \u201cFrench kiss\u201d became a part of the English language close to 1923.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Herself and many others agree that these servicemen helped popularise this oral affection to their compatriots after returning home, and since then became more common.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As the nickname for Paris \u201cCity of Love\u201d suggests, others believe that the term originated from the French having a reputation for adventurous and lustful sexual practices.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It might surprise you that the French do not refer to kissing with tongues as French kissing, and have only invented an official term for this act since 2013 when the word <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2018galocher\u2019<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> appeared in the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/french-kiss-dictionary-france-galocher_n_3359790\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Petit Robert dictionary<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2829 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/where-did-french-kissing-originate.png\" alt=\"Couple about to kiss in front of Eiffel Tower in Paris, France\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/where-did-french-kissing-originate.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/where-did-french-kissing-originate-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/where-did-french-kissing-originate-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/where-did-french-kissing-originate-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/where-did-french-kissing-originate-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"canyougetanstd\/stifromfrenchkissing?\"><b>Can you get an STD\/STI from French kissing?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Although the risk of contracting an <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/safe-sex-guide-for-sex-workers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">STI<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> from kissing is fairly low, it is still possible.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most STIs are passed through genital fluids or sexual contacts, such as from <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/beginners-guide-to-oral-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">oral sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or intercourse.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But there are some that can spread through kissing or other contacts with oral fluids or sores.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">STIs you can get from kissing include:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cytomegalovirus (<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">CMV)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Herpes<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Syphilis<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">HPV<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">STIs you can NOT get from kissing are:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chlamydia<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gonorrhoea\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hepatitis<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">HIV<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pelvic inflammatory disease (PID)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trichomoniasis<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><b>How to prevent STDs\/STIs from kissing<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The best way to protect yourself or your partner from getting an STI from kissing is to have an open conversation about it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We understand that this can be quite tricky, as it\u2019s unlikely that you\u2019ll be discussing each other&#8217;s full sexual history before kissing them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, below are some tips on how to lower your risk of an STI through kissing:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Avoid kissing someone with a cold sore<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; Although it&#8217;s possible to get an STI through kissing without someone showing signs of an STI, it&#8217;s most likely to occur if the person has a sore or oral ulcer. If you can\u2019t see one, it\u2019s also okay to ask them if they have one before kissing, and if they do, wait until it passes<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Set your expectations <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; If you want you and your partner to get a sexual health check-up before engaging in any sexual activity, let them know. It\u2019s your body and you have full control over how you want to engage in intimacy<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Don\u2019t be afraid to ask questions<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211;\u00a0 As you probably already know, kissing tends to happen spontaneously. However, if you\u2019re uncomfortable going straight into a kiss, it&#8217;s okay to discuss and share your sexual health beforehand to protect yourself. Just be direct, open and honest &#8211; after all, prevention is better than cure<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Consider a monogamous relationship<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; If you\u2019re worried about STIs, then perhaps practising monogamy or refraining from <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/open-relationship-guide\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">open relationships<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is the best route to take. Being monogamous with one partner who doesn&#8217;t have STIs means less chance of being exposed to STIs<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2833 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/sti-from-french-kissing.png\" alt=\"Woman's face with cold sore or herpes on lips\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/sti-from-french-kissing.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/sti-from-french-kissing-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/sti-from-french-kissing-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/sti-from-french-kissing-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/sti-from-french-kissing-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you discover later that your kissing partner has an STI, try not to panic.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s quite common for people to be unaware that STIs can be transmitted through kissing, as the risk is very low.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, some people are unaware they have an STI until years later due to a lack of symptoms, so don\u2019t assume they have kept it a secret from you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you believe you have contracted an STI through kissing, see your doctor.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"enjoyafrenchkisstoday\"><b>Enjoy a French kiss today<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it\u2019s time to French kiss, remember to just relax and enjoy the moment.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no better kiss than one that is fun, romantic and given with complete dedication.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To calm your nerves, accept that French kissing may not be spectacular the first time around with a new partner, but part of the fun is getting better at, and learning what works for one another, together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Looking for someone to enjoy this erotic act with? Book an <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/escort\/gb\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>escort<\/b><\/a><b> that provides the service of French kissing today.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Do you have any other tips for giving a sexy French kiss? Tell us in the comments.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve likely seen it in movies or experienced it in real life &#8211; whatever the scenario, it can\u2019t be denied that French kissing is one of the most thrilling aspects of a relationship, particularly in the early stages.\u00a0 What is a French kiss? 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