{"id":2952,"date":"2021-11-19T15:08:06","date_gmt":"2021-11-19T15:08:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/?p=2952"},"modified":"2023-03-23T18:08:46","modified_gmt":"2023-03-23T18:08:46","slug":"guide-to-intercrural-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/guide-to-intercrural-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"What is intercrural sex and why should I try it?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Intercrural sex, otherwise known as thigh sex, interfemoris, and interfemoral sex, is non-penetrative sex in which a man\u2019s penis is situated between their partner\u2019s thighs and thrusts repeatedly to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-an-orgasm-and-how-to-get-one\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">achieve an orgasm<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Although intercrural sex is practised in relationships of various orientations, it\u2019s common in many parts of the world among both <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/straight-relationships\/gb\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">heterosexual<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/gay-dating\/gb\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">gay couples<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2958 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/what-is-intercrural-sex.png\" alt=\"Man intimately in between woman's thighs on kitchen counter\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/what-is-intercrural-sex.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/what-is-intercrural-sex-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/what-is-intercrural-sex-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/what-is-intercrural-sex-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/what-is-intercrural-sex-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><b>A brief history of intercrural sex<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re new to intercrural sex, you might be thinking about where it came from. Well, it\u2019s been around a lot longer than you think.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Intercrural sex is believed to have been a common sexual practice in ancient Greek society.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This has likely spurred a cultural perception of intercrural intercourse being a practice for gay men.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Intercrural sex has also been frequently discussed by writers, portrayed in various artwork, and believed to be part of the sex lives of many notable historical figures.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In 1978, British author Kenneth Dover introduced the term \u201cintercrural sex\u201d in his book <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Greek-Homosexuality-Kj-Dover\/dp\/0674362705\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Greek Homosexuality<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. The word \u2018intercrural\u2019 partially derives from Latin, where \u2018inter\u2019 means between and \u2018crura\u2019 means legs.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2954\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/history-of-intercrural-sex.png\" alt=\"Ancient greek art displaying two men being affectionate\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/history-of-intercrural-sex.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/history-of-intercrural-sex-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/history-of-intercrural-sex-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/history-of-intercrural-sex-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/history-of-intercrural-sex-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to his biographer Richard Ellman, Irish poet Oscar Wilde also supposedly preferred intercrural intercourse to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/beginners-guide-to-oral-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">oral sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and was believed to have indulged in this form of intimacy so he could proclaim his innocence against homosexual allegations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The famous Zulu king Shaka Zulu is even believed to have encouraged intercrural sex among his troops to promote intimacy and loyalty, while it\u2019s speculated that Abraham Lincoln and Alexander the Great revelled in this type of sexual behaviour too.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While many historical sodomy laws opposed intercrural sex, others deemed it less demeaning to the receiving partner than <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/beginners-guide-to-anal-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">anal sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and believed it fell short of sodomy as there was no penetration involved.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It has been highlighted by various <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/en-academic.com\/dic.nsf\/enwiki\/229580#cite_note-2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sources<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that a 1997 sexual health needs report for gay men in the Calcutta suburbs discovered that 73% of men asked for or engaged in intercrural sex, which varied significantly between individual demographics:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cOnly 54% of sex workers, 50% of lower-income men and 40% of Muslims reported intercrural sex; while 82% of Hindus and 88%of middle-income men reported engaging in it.\u201d<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Parisian female <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-an-escort-and-the-different-types\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sex workers<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> as far back as the 18th century are believed to have engaged in intercrural sex, which was second to vaginal intercourse.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Benefits of intercrural sex<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As thigh sex doesn\u2019t involve vaginal or anal penetration, it is considered a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">safe sex<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> practice.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s a sexually fulfilling alternative to intercourse, which can help avoid unwanted pregnancies as well as <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/safe-sex-guide-for-sex-workers\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">reduce the risk of transmitting or catching STIs<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, such as HIV.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It also allows those to refrain from traditional intercourse while engaging in mutual sexual activity.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For those that have a thigh <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/uk-top-sexual-fetishes-top-kinks-explained\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fetish<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, intercrural sex allows the opportunity to fulfil their sexual desire to achieve an orgasm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feminist sex researcher and educator Shere Hite discovered in her research on female sexuality several women who could achieve an orgasm through intercrural sex, particularly when combined with clitoral stimulation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2956 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/benefits-of-intercrural-sex.png\" alt=\"Man caressing woman's thigh in bed\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/benefits-of-intercrural-sex.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/benefits-of-intercrural-sex-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/benefits-of-intercrural-sex-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/benefits-of-intercrural-sex-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/benefits-of-intercrural-sex-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><b>How to have intercrural sex<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Like other <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/erogenous-zones-for-women-and-men\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">erogenous zones<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, there\u2019s a lot more you can do with this fleshy part of the body than just <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/five-types-of-erotic-massage-to-enjoy-with-your-partner\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">caressing with your hands<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before indulging in intercrural sex, it\u2019s important to establish consent with your partner.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you\u2019ve both confirmed that you\u2019re happy to try this sexual practice, here\u2019s what to do next:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Set things off by gently rubbing your thighs against your partner\u2019s genitals, or vice versa, for a bit of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/foreplay-ideas-for-better-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">foreplay<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unlike a vagina, the thighs do not provide natural lubrication. Therefore, before having intercrural sex, it\u2019s important to use lube between the thighs for a slippery sensation and comfort when thrusting. Silicone or oil-based lube is recommended to prevent friction and heat rashes while getting frisky<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Next, you\u2019ll need to get into your desired sex position. A thigh job can be performed in many different <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/best-sex-positions-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sex positions<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, such as missionary, spooning, doggy style and cowgirl position, and you should pick one you feel most comfortable with. When you&#8217;re more experienced in this sexual practice, you will feel more confident to use your imagination and perhaps try more non-traditional positions, such as those in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/kama-sutra-sex-positions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kama Sutra<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once you\u2019ve established a comfortable sex position, the penis should be placed between the partner\u2019s thighs. The other partner should use their thighs to grip the penis to keep it secured and to create friction for when the thrusting begins<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2957 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/how-to-have-intercrural-sex.png\" alt=\"Couple having intercrural sex in missionary position under blanket\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/how-to-have-intercrural-sex.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/how-to-have-intercrural-sex-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/how-to-have-intercrural-sex-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/how-to-have-intercrural-sex-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/how-to-have-intercrural-sex-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The penis-haver then begins to thrust in between the thighs for sexual pleasure. Or, the other partner can move in motions similar to intercourse, particularly moving along the entire shaft of the penis. Clinical sex therapist <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cosmopolitan.com\/sexopedia\/a30259358\/thigh-job-definition\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Christopher Ryan Jones, PsyD<\/span><\/a>,<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> warns to be careful of clamping down on the testicles during a thigh job. Your chosen sex position is likely to depend on who is taking full control to ensure a smooth experience<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For extra stimulation, the penis-taker can squeeze their thighs together for a tighter grip to encourage stronger <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-cure-premature-ejaculation-at-home\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ejaculation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or keep it loose if their partner prefers. As well as firmness, you might want to make sure you agree with the speed of stimulation<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thigh sex doesn\u2019t have to be so penis-focused. While thrusting, you can provide sexual stimulation to your partner by simultaneously fingering the vagina or anus or by using a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/best-sex-toys-and-how-to-use-them\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sex toy<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Depending on the sex position, they can <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/9-things-to-know-about-masturbation\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">masturbate<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> their partner\u2019s penis, or they can place their own penis further towards the upper thigh and vagina, so thrusting can be felt on the clitoris for arousal<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you desire, you can have thigh sex to achieve an orgasm or use it as a form of foreplay before having sexual intercourse.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Try intercrural sex today\u00a0<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As you may have gathered, intercrural sex with your partner is a pleasurable yet safer option than penetrative sex.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Believe it or not, some people even prefer this method of sex to penetration.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why not try it today?<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Intercrural sex, otherwise known as thigh sex, interfemoris, and interfemoral sex, is non-penetrative sex in which a man\u2019s penis is situated between their partner\u2019s thighs and thrusts repeatedly to achieve an orgasm.\u00a0 Although intercrural sex is practised in relationships of various orientations, it\u2019s common in many parts of the world among both heterosexual and gay [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2959,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"CBBTypography":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[223],"tags":[],"yst_prominent_words":[],"class_list":["post-2952","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sex-and-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2952","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2952"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2952\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2959"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2952"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2952"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2952"},{"taxonomy":"yst_prominent_words","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/yst_prominent_words?post=2952"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}