{"id":3044,"date":"2022-01-31T15:38:53","date_gmt":"2022-01-31T15:38:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/?p=3044"},"modified":"2023-03-23T18:09:25","modified_gmt":"2023-03-23T18:09:25","slug":"erotic-spanking-for-bdsm-beginners","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/erotic-spanking-for-bdsm-beginners\/","title":{"rendered":"Erotic spanking guide for BDSM beginners"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If erotic spanking turns you on, then you\u2019re not alone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thanks to the popularity of works of art like <em>50 Shades of Grey<\/em>, spanking is considered to be a great place to start for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/bdsm-guide-for-bondage-beginners\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">BDSM beginners<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/uk-top-sexual-fetishes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sexual fetishes<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> research found <\/span><b>spanking to be the 5th most-searched fetish in the UK<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> with 40,500 online searches per month.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"#howtogetstartedwitheroticspanking\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to get started with erotic spanking<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"#howtotalktoyourpartneraboutspanking\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to talk to your partner about spanking<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"#9must-tryspankingpositions\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">9 must-try spanking positions<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"#typesofspankingequipment\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Types of spanking equipment<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"#thedifferenttypesofspanking\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The different types of spanking<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"#wheretofindthebestspanking?\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Where to find the best spanking?<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The collision of pain and pleasure can be an intriguing mix for some, especially when it comes to sex.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A sentiment shared by sex therapist <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fatherly.com\/love-money\/why-people-love-to-be-spanked-during-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dr Dulcinea Pitagora<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, also known as the &#8220;Kink Doctor&#8221;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She believes that spanking is a popular sexual activity because the buttocks are \u201c<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">an <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/erogenous-zones-for-women-and-men\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">erogenous zone<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d and is also \u201c<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">close to other erogenous zones we want to touch<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether you\u2019re interested in BDSM or want to kink up your sex life, <em>read on to discover the various types of erotic spanking and how to do it right.\u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"howtogetstartedwitheroticspanking\"><b>How to get started with erotic spanking<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The act of erotic spanking may seem pretty easy, but there are spanking etiquettes you should follow to ensure a safe and pleasurable experience.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Below are some tips on how to spank properly:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consent and safewords<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First and foremost, <\/span><b>spanking must be consensual between all parties<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. It should also be a cooperative effort for a healthy and constructive session.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Also, make sure you and your spanking partner decide on a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/importance-of-safewords\/\">safeword<\/a> to be mentioned when either of you has reached your limit and no longer wishes to proceed.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Preparation<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before you begin spanking sex, remove all jewellery and accessories situated around the hand area, such as rings and bracelets, to avoid hurting your partner or causing injury.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Get your partner more aroused and prepared for spanking by caressing and warming up their behind. You can try rubbing the area or giving it a little <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-give-a-sensual-massage\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sensual massage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in a motion similar to kneading dough.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spanking should be focused on the meatier parts of the buttocks or upper thighs, as these thicker areas are stronger and resistant to force. I<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">deally, the spankee\u2019s bottom should be elevated or pushed out in a way that allows the spanker to have a precise aim and avoid accidentally striking other body parts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make sure the spankee has sufficient airflow for breathing, as some spanking positions can involve their head being placed on a surface.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During spanking<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Start with sensual light spanks to ease your partner into rough play. Gradually test the waters and increase the intensity (and speed) of the spanks. Listen to your partner\u2019s response to be sure they are enjoying the sensation and adjust the force of the spanks accordingly to achieve the desired effect. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make sure you\u2019re not spanking your partner too hard to the point of leaving imprints on the buttocks unless they have granted permission.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4>Make sure the spankee is comfortable<\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The majority of the time, the spankee will be facing away from the spanker, potentially making them less audible to the spanker. Make sure that your chosen position does not entirely restrict their ability to communicate or be heard just in case they want to exercise the safe word.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do not exert or fatigue the spankee. Take breaks in between your spanking sessions (especially if it\u2019s a long one) &#8211; whether it be to give the target area a break or to relax from the spanking position if it\u2019s not entirely comfortable or difficult to maintain<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Headaches or light-headedness can occur if the spankee\u2019s head is kept below the rest of the body for extended periods of time, so it\u2019s vital to take breaks.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4>When using equipment<\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you chose to use equipment for spanking (see further information below), the length of equipment should be determined by how far away the spankee is from the spanker.\u00a0 The shorter the distance, the shorter the equipment should be. Lengthy types of equipment (such as canes) should only be used at a range. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make sure that whatever equipment is being used to strike the spankee reaches the far side of their bottom for an accurate aim.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s a healthy practice to ensure that the spankee is as comfortable as possible. The only discomfort your spanking partner should feel during an erotic spanking is on their behind or the agreed area they\u2019re being striked.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aftercare<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-bdsm-aftercare\/\">Aftercare<\/a> is essential &#8211; it\u2019s important to have a follow-up conversation to check in with your partner and make sure there are no issues or concerns.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4206\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/how-to-get-started-with-erotic-spanking-1.png\" alt=\"woman in spanking position on bed with buttocks raised\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/how-to-get-started-with-erotic-spanking-1.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/how-to-get-started-with-erotic-spanking-1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/how-to-get-started-with-erotic-spanking-1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/how-to-get-started-with-erotic-spanking-1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/how-to-get-started-with-erotic-spanking-1-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><section id=\"custom_html-8\" class=\"widget_text widget widget_custom_html amr_widget\"><div class=\"textwidget custom-html-widget\"><div class=\"internal_widget_between_content\">\r\n\t<div class=\"widget_header\">\r\n\t\t<h3>Are you a looking for an escort?<\/h3>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n\t<div class=\"widget_body\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"widget_left_container\">\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\"widget_image b2c\"><\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<div class=\"widget_right_container\">\r\n\t\t\t<h3>We have over 12,000 UK erotic escorts waiting for you. Whatever you desire.<\/h3>\r\n\t\t\t<p>With the ultimate discretion and safety measures assured, don't waste a moment to find your escort of choice. <\/p>\r\n\t\t\t<a class=\"widget_btn_orange\" href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/escort\/gb?utm_source=blog&utm_medium=widget&utm_campaign=blog_widget_b2c\">Find an escort today<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><\/div><\/section><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"howtotalktoyourpartneraboutspanking\"><b>How to talk to your partner about spanking\u00a0<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Asking for a spanking can be quite awkward, especially if you and your partner have never had spanking sex before.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, if you have an unfulfilled spanking fetish, this is something you don\u2019t have to ignore.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Everyone has erotic fantasies and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/uk-top-sexual-fetishes-top-kinks-explained\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fetishes<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and being open about yours can lead to a more satisfying sex life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can start off by asking your partner if they have ever had spanking sex before. If they have, this could be the perfect time to ask if spanking could be considered in your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If they have never tried it, just let them know that you\u2019re interested and ask if it\u2019s something they are up for trying.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can always start off lightly to build up your confidence and feel more comfortable around each other before getting into more intense erotic spanking.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"9must-tryspankingpositions\"><b>9 must-try spanking positions<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When indulging in your spanking fetish, it\u2019s important to find the perfect position that provides both comfort and pleasure.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Below are some of the best and most common spanking positions you can try:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. Standing<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Probably the most effortless spanking position, the spanker approaches the spankee from behind while they are standing or leaning against a surface (such as a wall or door) and spanks them. This position is generally used for short spanking sessions, which works well for roleplay punishment or discipline in a sub-dom relationship. This position provides minimum restraint, as the spankee can walk away, but it can provide more excitement and vulnerability if done by surprise (if the spankee consents to this).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Closeness = \u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Control = \u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Embarrassment = \u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vulnerability &#8211; \u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. Under the arm<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While standing, the spanker turns the spankee around from behind and puts their arm around the spankee\u2019s hips and belly, forcing them to bend forward for spanking. An experienced spanker is likely to be able to do this quickly and effectively, taking the spankee by surprise. In this position, the spankee is immobilised and forced to expose their bottom. As this position is the least comfortable for the spankee and can put a strain on their back, it is recommended to do short spankings.\u00a0<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Closeness = \u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Control = \u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Embarrassment = \u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vulnerability &#8211; \u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. Bending over furniture<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The spankee has their torso laying over a desk, table, back of an armchair, or edge of the bed. Alternatively, the spankee can bend over while taking a kneeling position over the furniture. The spanker can then press their hand on the spankee\u2019s lower back to create a sense of restraint and start spanking. If the furniture is high, causing the spankee\u2019s feet to lose touch with the ground, this can increase their vulnerability making this erotic act more adventurous.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Closeness = \u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Control = \u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Embarrassment = \u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vulnerability &#8211; \u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4208\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/spanking-positions-1.png\" alt=\"woman being spanked on bed with black whip\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/spanking-positions-1.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/spanking-positions-1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/spanking-positions-1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/spanking-positions-1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/spanking-positions-1-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. Over the lap<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Regarded as a classical spanking position, the spanker sits down on a chair or the edge of the bed with the spankee face down over their lap and buttocks below their chin. Depending on how far over they are, the spankee\u2019s hands and feet can be on the floor or in the air. This is a great position for the spanker if they enjoy the full view of their partner\u2019s buttocks, although it may be trickier to provide an even spanking on both cheeks. As for the spankee, this position is most comfortable if they\u2019re not too large or heavy for their partner\u2019s lap.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Closeness = \u2b50\u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Control = \u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Embarrassment = \u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vulnerability &#8211; \u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">5. Over the knee<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is similar to the previous position, except performed on a bed or wider surface. It\u2019s more comfortable for the spanker to have their back resting against the headboard, and for the spankee, as they can rest their full body on the bed while lying across their partner\u2019s knees. Having the spankee lay over the knees instead of the thighs provides the spanker more room to give an even spanking, as the spankee will be further away from their body. Over the knee spanking is a perfect position for long spanking sessions, as it\u2019s more comfortable and effortless than when done over furniture. If you both desire the buttocks to be raised in the air, the spanker can have their legs crossed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Closeness = \u2b50\u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Control = \u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Embarrassment = \u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vulnerability &#8211; \u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">6. Leg lock<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another variant of the<em> over-the-lap<\/em> position, the spanker sits on a chair or on the edge of the bed. This time, the spankee will be laying over one thigh while the spankee traps the spankee\u2019s legs with their other thigh, so it\u2019s resting on the back of their legs. The notion of this position is to make the spankee feel immobilised and restrained. The spanker can take it a step further by holding the spankee\u2019s hands over their lower back. If the spankee is a male, you can create a sensation of pleasure and pain by trapping his penis against your thigh. Be mindful that this position is not recommended for long spanking, as there will be more pressure on the spankee\u2019s stomach.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Closeness = \u2b50\u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Control = \u2b50\u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Embarrassment = \u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vulnerability &#8211; \u2b50\u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">7. Straddling the spankee<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This position involves the spanker straddling their partner\u2019s back. The spankee will typically be hanging off the edge of the bed or chair so that their torso is free while their bottom half will be pressed against the surface. The spanker will straddle the spankee\u2019s back in the opposite direction (facing the spankee\u2019s buttocks) and start spanking. This position is ideal for spankees who like the thrill of having no control or being unable to escape, as they are unable to protect their behind or get away without having to lift their weight as well as the spanker&#8217;s weight. If you decide to go ahead with this position, the weight of the straddler should be considered so as to not injure the spankee\u2019s back.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Closeness = \u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Control = \u2b50\u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Embarrassment = \u2b50\u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vulnerability &#8211; \u2b50\u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">8. The diaper<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The spankee will lay on their back (preferably on a bed, table or furniture with height) with their legs in the air while the spanker stands beside them and holds them by their ankles. The spanker can push the spankee\u2019s legs towards their head for increased exposure of the buttocks while stretching the skin to make the area more sensitive. It also allows their genitals to be accessible, which can also be caressed in between spanks for increased arousal. While many spanking positions don\u2019t allow eye contact and limited verbal communication, this is the perfect position to see your partner\u2019s expressions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Closeness = \u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Control = \u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Embarrassment = \u2b50\u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vulnerability &#8211; \u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">9. The wheelbarrow<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This position is considered one of the most exposed and humiliating spanking positions. While the spanker sits on a chair, sofa, bed, or floor, the spankee sits on their lap facing away from them. Then, the spankee lowers their body forward so their face is almost touching the surface or the spanker\u2019s legs (if their legs are straight). The spankee opens their legs, or the spanker opens their legs widening the spankee\u2019s legs while trapping their hips between them. If the spankee has no underwear on, their anus or vagina will be fully exposed, leaving them extremely vulnerable. You can make this position more comfortable for the spankee by placing a pillow in front of them so they can rest their hands or chin.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Closeness = \u2b50\u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Control = \u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Embarrassment = \u2b50\u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vulnerability &#8211; \u2b50\u2b50\u2b50<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While performing this erotic act, depending on the position you choose, you could make it more exciting by <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">caressing your partner&#8217;s genitals.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"typesofspankingequipment\"><b>Types of spanking equipment<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Erotic spanking doesn\u2019t always have to involve hands.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can use equipment or <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/best-sex-toys-and-how-to-use-them\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sex toys<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to spank your partner, which can provide different sensations and sounds.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>First, you need to know the types of common materials used for the equipment used for spanking:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Leather<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From mild to severe spanking, you can find varied types of leather that will offer your desired effect, and can give a stingy or thuddy feeling when used for striking.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acrylic<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This type of plastic is the easiest to break and can sometimes leave welt marks on the spankee\u2019s skin.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Plastic<\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Delrin<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; This plastic material is generally advertised as unbreakable. It is usually quite flexible and provides a stinging sensation<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Lexan<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; Another durable type of plastic, it\u2019s very dense and thuddy in its impact and must be used with caution<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Rubber<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; A thuddy material that can usually only be used in smaller doses<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wood<\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><b>Dense wood<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; This is used for heavy hitting and can very easily bruise the skin. When using this type of wood, you must be extremely cautious as a misplaced blow can cause severe injury to other areas of the body<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b>Light wood<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; This type of wood leaves a more stingy sensation than dense wood and can be used for longer periods of time. It can leave skin red, and inflamed and dry out the spankee\u2019s skin quickly<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\"><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When using equipment for spanking, you should be mindful of its weight and hardness.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If it happens to be more on the heavier or hard side, it should be used on fleshier parts of the body and not on areas close to the bone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For your safety, you should never use an implement that is damaged. Make sure it\u2019s in perfect condition before using it to avoid injury.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Below are some common types of equipment people use for spanking:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Belt<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bathbrush<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cane<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Paddle<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ruler<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spoon<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Strap<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can also use <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/best-bdsm-sex-toys\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">BDSM sex toys<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, such as floggers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Note:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Before using any implement for spanking, you should read up on how to use it safely first or seek professional advice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-4213 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/types-of-spanking-equipment-1.png\" alt=\"sex toys for BDSM roleplay, including spanking\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/types-of-spanking-equipment-1.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/types-of-spanking-equipment-1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/types-of-spanking-equipment-1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/types-of-spanking-equipment-1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/types-of-spanking-equipment-1-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"thedifferenttypesofspanking\"><b>The different types of spanking<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spanking goes beyond just striking someone\u2019s behind.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are different types of spanking that suit various needs and fantasies and can be done from a slight slap to an extreme strike.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether you enjoy spanking for pleasure or want to be spanked to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-an-orgasm-and-how-to-get-one\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">orgasm<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, below are the different types of spanking in alphabetical order:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>Ass spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; Someone being spanked on their buttocks<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Arbitrary spanking <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; A spanking given for no particular reason and done by one partner that\u2019s simply in the mood for a spanking<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">B<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>Bdsm spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0 &#8211; Generally performed by the dominant partner, this is erotic spanking during <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-be-a-dominant-in-bdsm\/\">BDSM sex<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Bare bum spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; A person being spanked with their buttocks in the nude<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Bedtime spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; A spanking given before bed<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Belt spanking <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Someone being spanked with a belt<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Bend-over spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; Someone being spanked in a bent-over position<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">D<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>Discipline spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; A disciplinary spanking intends to provide instruction for future behaviour as opposed to consequences for previous behaviour<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>Erotic spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; Spanking that is given before or during sex for eliciting sexual arousal. This can also be done as an alternative to sex<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">H<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>Hairbrush spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; When a hairbrush is being used to spank someone<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Hand spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; When someone is using their hand to spank the spankee<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>Introductory spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; This involves spankings to introduce the spanker and\/or spankee to each other\u2019s methods and preferences\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">K<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>Knickers down spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; When the spanker pulls the spankee\u2019s underwear down before spanking them\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>Maintenance spanking <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; A spanking given, usually at regularly scheduled intervals, to ensure the spankee\u2019s behaviour is maintained at a desirable level<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Mandatory spanking &#8211; <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A spanking that is going to be given despite the spankee\u2019s behaviour<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Motivational spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; A spanking given to encourage the spankee to put more effort into completing the desired task<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">N<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>Naked spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; When someone is being spanked while they are naked<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>Outdoor spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; This is spanking taking place outdoors\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">P<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>Pantyhose spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; This involves the spankee wearing pantyhose or sheer tights while being spanked<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Playful spanking <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; A spanking given with light-hearted intentions in a cheery atmosphere<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Preventive spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211;\u00a0 A spanking given to prevent an undesired attitude, behaviour or action before it can take place<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Punishment<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong> spanking<\/strong> &#8211; The opposite of disciplinary spanking, a punishment spanking is meant to provide a consequence for past behaviour\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">R<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>Reward spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; A usually more gentle type of spanking, given as a positive reinforcement for the desired behaviour\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Roleplay spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; Spanking performed during a roleplay scenario where ideas come from the spanker and spankee\u2019s imagination and comfort level<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Romantic spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; A spanking given to create or intensify romantic emotions between the spanker and spankee<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><b>Special occasion spanking<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; A spanking given, usually in celebration, for a special event, such as a birthday spanking<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"wheretofindthebestspanking?\"><b>Where to find the best spanking?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Looking for spanking sites to find like-minded individuals? You can try websites such as\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.findspankingpartners.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Find Spanking Partners<\/span><\/a>\u00a0or <a href=\"https:\/\/fetishhookups.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fetish Hookups<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Alternatively, you can find the perfect spanking experience on <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vivastreet<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spanking services<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re single or seeking spanking services, you\u2019ve come to the right place.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At Vivastreet, there are many escorts hosting ads on our site that provide spanking services.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here\u2019s how to find spanking services on Vivastreet:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Go to our <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/escort\/gb\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Escorts &amp; Massages<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> page<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Type \u2018<em>spanking<\/em>\u2019 in the keywords search bar<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scroll through the escort ads and pick your desired escort\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether you want to be spanked or you desire spanking escorts, you\u2019re sure to find the right escort for you to fulfil your sexual desires.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before you delve into the world of erotic spanking, it\u2019s vital you make sure that it\u2019s consensual, and that you follow the spanking etiquette and safety rules.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This will ensure that you and your partner both enjoy this pleasure and pain experience.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If erotic spanking turns you on, then you\u2019re not alone. Thanks to the popularity of works of art like 50 Shades of Grey, spanking is considered to be a great place to start for BDSM beginners.\u00a0 Our sexual fetishes research found spanking to be the 5th most-searched fetish in the UK with 40,500 online searches [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4205,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"CBBTypography":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[223],"tags":[],"yst_prominent_words":[],"class_list":["post-3044","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sex-and-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3044","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3044"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3044\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4205"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3044"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3044"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3044"},{"taxonomy":"yst_prominent_words","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/yst_prominent_words?post=3044"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}