{"id":3200,"date":"2022-04-22T13:20:43","date_gmt":"2022-04-22T12:20:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/?p=3200"},"modified":"2023-03-23T18:06:35","modified_gmt":"2023-03-23T18:06:35","slug":"how-to-have-quickie-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-have-quickie-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"What is quickie sex and is it romantic?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;d expect that a lockdown would vastly improve people&#8217;s love lives. After all, having all day to roll around in bed with one another sounds ideal, right?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yet, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lshtm.ac.uk\/newsevents\/news\/2021\/how-did-lockdown-affect-peoples-sex-lives-britain\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">66% of those<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> aged 18-24 said their sex lives declined in 2020. And even outside of the pandemic, there are bound to be couples who find their life behind bedroom doors a little lacklustre.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Out of all the things to get things hot and steamy, you wouldn&#8217;t expect quickies to top the list.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But truth be told, quickie sex can offer something new and exciting to your relationship and sex life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is quickie sex and can it be romantic? Read on to find out.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>What is quickie sex?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quickie sex is exactly what it sounds like: sex that&#8217;s fast and brief.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How long does a quickie take? Well, that would really depend on the couple.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If a normal session for you is 1-2 hours, then 30 minutes would be considered a quickie.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On the other hand, if 30 minutes is a normal session, then perhaps 5-10 minutes would be a quickie for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Basically, quickie sex involves little to no <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/foreplay-ideas-for-better-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">foreplay<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and often arises from a spontaneous sexual desire.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Penetration isn\u2019t always involved either. So long as you both have an <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-an-orgasm-and-how-to-get-one\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">orgasm<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or are satisfied with the short sexual encounter, then you&#8217;ve had a quickie, even if you&#8217;ve only had <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/beginners-guide-to-oral-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">oral sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-3208 size-full aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quick-sex-blog.png\" alt=\"Man and woman having quickie sex on bedroom floor\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quick-sex-blog.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quick-sex-blog-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quick-sex-blog-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quick-sex-blog-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quick-sex-blog-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><b>How to have quickie sex<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What&#8217;s fantastic about quickies is there are no hard-and-fast rules on how to have them, as it\u2019s different for everyone.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Speedy sex can be done in so many ways to keep the passion alive in a relationship, so it&#8217;s really up to you and your partner to figure things out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, here are some frisky tips on how to have quickie sex.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Sext to build up sexual tension<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just because quicky sex is short and sweet, doesn&#8217;t mean you can&#8217;t build up to it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, if you have a slow burn during the whole day, it can make your quickie all the more explosive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/sexting-guide\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sexting<\/span><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">can be a wonderful way to tease your partner about what you want to do to them sexually.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can send them flirty <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/the-most-popular-emojis-used-in-dating\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emojis<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, have <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-phone-sex-expert-tips\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dirty talk<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> through voice messages, or send them provocative photos of yourself to remind them what they\u2019re in for later on.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If one (or both) of you have to work before you can ravage each other at home, then sexting can be a great way to pass the time.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Pick the right clothes<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We&#8217;re not just talking about lingerie either. The point of quickie sex is so that you can, for example, have a rapid romp before work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have to take off layers of tight clothes and undo lots of buttons, the momentum you have going for your quickie can die instantly when you&#8217;re fumbling with your clothing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try to pick easy-to-remove clothing that&#8217;s still sexy, such as dresses and skirts.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For an extra naughty touch, go commando; if you don&#8217;t have underwear on, not only will that be a pleasant surprise for your partner, but you can get down to business there and then.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Masturbate beforehand<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A quickie can be more enjoyable if you warm up the engine before, so to speak. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/9-things-to-know-about-masturbation\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Masturbation<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> can be especially helpful if you find it takes you a while to get aroused.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re already turned on before the big event, then you can jump into a quickie without worrying that things will be uncomfortable, awkward, or even painful.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><section id=\"custom_html-8\" class=\"widget_text widget widget_custom_html amr_widget\"><div class=\"textwidget custom-html-widget\"><div class=\"internal_widget_between_content\">\r\n\t<div class=\"widget_header\">\r\n\t\t<h3>Are you a looking for an escort?<\/h3>\r\n\t<\/div>\r\n\t<div class=\"widget_body\">\r\n\t\t<div class=\"widget_left_container\">\r\n\t\t\t<div class=\"widget_image b2c\"><\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<div class=\"widget_right_container\">\r\n\t\t\t<h3>We have over 12,000 UK erotic escorts waiting for you. Whatever you desire.<\/h3>\r\n\t\t\t<p>With the ultimate discretion and safety measures assured, don't waste a moment to find your escort of choice. <\/p>\r\n\t\t\t<a class=\"widget_btn_orange\" href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/escort\/gb?utm_source=blog&utm_medium=widget&utm_campaign=blog_widget_b2c\">Find an escort today<\/a>\r\n\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\r\n<\/div><\/div><\/section><\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>The best quickie sex positions<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We Brits have our <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/brits-favourite-sex-positions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">favourite sex positions<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but which ones are the best for quickie sex? Below are some quickie positions for inspiration.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Doggy Style<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By far, one of the best positions for quickies is Doggy Style. Not only is it raw and animalistic, but it&#8217;s easy to start and finish too.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s even easier if you&#8217;re not wearing underwear, as you just have to pull away and rearrange your clothing within a few seconds to avoid being caught.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All you have to do is bend your partner over (maybe on a table so they have something to grab), pull down their pants, and go crazy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Cowgirl<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cowgirl&#8217;s a good position if you can sit down and\/or you&#8217;re in a tight space. Your partner can then jump right on top and ride you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not only does this give them complete control, but the regular cowgirl position can give you an intense look into each other&#8217;s eyes.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Spooning<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feeling lazy but still want a quickie? Then spooning can do the trick.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lie down on a comfortable surface and feel free to kiss, lick, and\/or bite your partner&#8217;s body while you&#8217;re going at it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because you&#8217;re both flat on the ground, this position can put you out of people&#8217;s sight for a clandestine quickie.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Standing<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you want to have a quickie, it may not be in the most comfortable place. So you may have to modify some of the above positions to make them work while standing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, if you&#8217;re in an alleyway, Doggy Style won&#8217;t work since your partner can&#8217;t get on all fours. But they can stand against the wall with their back facing you while you penetrate them for a modified standing Doggy position.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-3210 size-full aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quickie-sex-sofa-blog.png\" alt=\"Man and woman about to have quickie sex on sofa\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quickie-sex-sofa-blog.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quickie-sex-sofa-blog-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quickie-sex-sofa-blog-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quickie-sex-sofa-blog-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quickie-sex-sofa-blog-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><b>Where to have quickie sex<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now you have some understanding of what a quickie is, how to prepare for one, and the best positions. But where should you have quickies?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re stumped here, then below are some ideas you can try out.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>On the kitchen floor<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Has your partner ever looked so sexy while cooking that you just wanted to tear their clothes off, right there and then? Well, what&#8217;s stopping you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The next time your sexual desire goes into overdrive, grab them and collapse in a sweaty mess on the floor.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you live with other people, this will also put you out of sight, so no one will even know you&#8217;ve had a quickie right there.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>On the kitchen counter<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your kitchen floor isn&#8217;t the cleanest surface around, and there&#8217;s no one else home, then get hot and heavy on the kitchen counter instead. Your partner can sit on the counter and you can indulge in some stand-up missionary sex. Or you can kneel and give them oral (or vice versa).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The next time you&#8217;re in the kitchen and see the counter, you&#8217;ll get a smile on your face when those sexy memories pop up.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>On the couch<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maybe you&#8217;re both just sitting on the couch, absentmindedly watching TV or playing on your phones. While adverts are on, make it a fun game to complete a quickie before the show comes back!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The best position here is cowgirl, although you can make others (like missionary and doggy) work if you put your mind to it.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>In the shower<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A great way to spice up your love life is to jump in the shower and surprise your partner while they&#8217;re in there. With the hot water falling and the steam rising, this will help you get in the mood fast.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Doggy style standing up works best here, although if you have a shower seat, then cowgirl will work well too.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-3211 size-full aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quickie-sex-woman-man-blog.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quickie-sex-woman-man-blog.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quickie-sex-woman-man-blog-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quickie-sex-woman-man-blog-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quickie-sex-woman-man-blog-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/quickie-sex-woman-man-blog-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><b>In bed<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It might seem painfully obvious, but you can have a quickie right in your bed.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The best time for a quickie is when you first wake up before getting ready for work. Morning sex can help get you fired up for the day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner&#8217;s slow to wake up, pop under the sheets and give them some oral for a morning surprise. And if things progress, you can try a number of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/strange-sex-positions-to-try\/\">penetrative sex positions<\/a> and finish up before your coffee&#8217;s even done!<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>Outdoors<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, we&#8217;re not saying get down and dirty wherever you want.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, there&#8217;s the small thrill of possibly getting caught, but you don&#8217;t want that to happen, as you can get into legal trouble.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While some quickies can be spontaneous, remember to be smart about it and sure not to break the law. Like <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-have-car-sex\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">car sex<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you can have an exciting time without putting your freedom at risk.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Enjoy quickie sex<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quickie sex may not have been on your radar before, but after reading this article, it certainly should be.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Considering that you can get some sneaky sessions in and have a whole day of build-up, quickies can be an excellent way to revive your sex life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Want to learn more about sex? Then check out our article with sexologist Gigi Engle where she tackles <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/sex-expert-gigi-engle-on-orgasms\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">orgasm questions<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You&#8217;d expect that a lockdown would vastly improve people&#8217;s love lives. After all, having all day to roll around in bed with one another sounds ideal, right? Yet, 66% of those aged 18-24 said their sex lives declined in 2020. And even outside of the pandemic, there are bound to be couples who find their [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3205,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"CBBTypography":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[223],"tags":[],"yst_prominent_words":[],"class_list":["post-3200","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sex-and-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3200","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3200"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3200\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3205"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3200"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3200"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3200"},{"taxonomy":"yst_prominent_words","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/yst_prominent_words?post=3200"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}