{"id":3379,"date":"2022-06-27T16:17:22","date_gmt":"2022-06-27T15:17:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/?p=3379"},"modified":"2023-03-23T16:42:53","modified_gmt":"2023-03-23T16:42:53","slug":"what-is-femdom-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-femdom-tips\/","title":{"rendered":"Femdom: A guide to female dominance"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Female domination is a term used to describe a sexual relationship or practice in which a woman takes control of her partner.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This can involve physical domination, such as slapping or spanking, or psychological domination, such as verbal humiliation or mind games.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some femdom relationships also involve roleplaying and dress-up, with the woman taking on the dominant role and wearing sexy, powerful-looking clothes.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"#whatisfemdom?\">What is femdom?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#whatisafemdomrelationship?\">What is a femdom relationship?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#howtofemdom\">How to femdom<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#whathappensduringafemdomsession?\">What happens during a femdom session?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#thetakeaway\">The takeaway<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But there is so much more to know about femdom. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Read on to learn more.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"whatisfemdom?\"><strong>What is femdom?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Femdom, also known as female domination or female supremacy, is a set of sexual practices in which the dominant partner is female.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some common and exciting positions include <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-queening\/\">face-sitting<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/strange-sex-positions-to-try\/\">the bridge<\/a>, lap dance, and reverse missionary.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Other than the sexual part, it can also refer to relationships, which can take many different forms.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What does femdom mean?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The term &#8220;femdom&#8221; is short for &#8220;female domination&#8221;. It refers to a relationship dynamic in which the woman is the dominant partner, and the man is the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/exploring-submissive-sex\/\">submissive partner<\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This type of relationship can range from a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/adult-dating\/gb\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">casual sexual encounter<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/signs-of-a-healthy-relationship\/\">long-term committed relationship<\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is femdom legal?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, femdom is legal, and there are no laws against it. That being said, the sexual activities and overall relationship must be completely <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/a-z-sexual-consent-in-sex-work\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consensual<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. On top of that, hiring a professional to do a femdom roleplay or a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/escort\/gb\/q\/dominatrix\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dominatrix<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is legal in the United Kingdom.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How popular is femdom?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While it wasn&#8217;t well-known a decade ago, femdom has become increasingly popular over the past few years.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is nowadays more accepted in society, and many men like to play the submissive role in the bedroom.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> So much so that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.menshealth.com\/sex-women\/a30171574\/pornhub-year-in-review-2019\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Men\u2019s Health<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> reported a study from PornHub stating that femdom was the 10<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">th<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> most searched category on the streaming platform.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But that&#8217;s not it. Femdom in relationships has also become more common, and an increasing number of men give up their decision-making skills to their partners.<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4241\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-1-1.png\" alt=\"man kneeling by a woman in panties\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-1-1.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-1-1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-1-1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-1-1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-1-1-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"whatisafemdomrelationship?\"><strong>What is a femdom relationship?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a femdom relationship, also called a female-led relationship, or FLR, the woman is the dominant one. She makes all the decisions, and she is in charge.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This type of relationship can work well for couples who want to make their sex life more exciting or to exchange the traditional man\/woman roles.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The woman will have more authority than the man in the relationship, and it&#8217;s a great way to explore each other more, as well as open your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, it doesn&#8217;t have to be only for boyfriend\/girlfriend relationships \u2013 it works for married couples too.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why do women like femdom?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For many women, the appeal of femdom lies in the power dynamic. In a society that is still largely geared towards male domination, it provides a way for women to exert their own power and control.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is also a more modern, original way to push the relationship&#8217;s limits and discover a new personality that was still unknown to both partners.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the bedroom, this can manifest itself as anything from light bondage and spanking to more extreme activities like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-cuckolding\/\">cuckolding<\/a> or foot worship.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For some women, the appeal of femdom also comes from the taboo nature of these activities. Doing something that is seen as &#8220;wrong&#8221; or &#8220;deviant&#8221; can be incredibly erotic.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why do men like femdom?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are a few different reasons why men might be attracted to femdom. For some, it is simply a matter of aesthetics &#8211; they find the sight of a beautiful woman in control to be incredibly erotic.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Others may enjoy the feeling of surrendering to a woman&#8217;s will and giving up control. Also, the appeal of femdom lies in the taboo nature of these activities. Submitting to a woman&#8217;s authority can be seen as an act of defiance against traditional gender roles.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lastly, for many men, submitting to a dominant woman is a way of releasing all the pent-up tension and stress that comes with living in a society that constantly tells them they need to be in control.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"howtofemdom\"><strong>How to femdom<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As the world becomes more and more accepting of different lifestyles, more people are exploring their <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/escort\/gb\/q\/kink\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kinks<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/uk-top-sexual-fetishes-top-kinks-explained\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fetishes<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Female domination is becoming increasingly popular as a result. According to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pornhub.com\/insights\/2019-year-in-review\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pornhub\u2019s 2019 yearly review<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, their femdom category got 445% more popular compared to 2018.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First and foremost, you will want to talk to your partner and see what they think about this new experience. Being on the same page and understanding each other is crucial.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, knowing what both you and your partner want is an important part of femdom. Set your boundaries and define if you only want the sexual part or the woman to be the dominant part of the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Femdom in bed doesn&#8217;t need to be about chains and handcuffs. <em><strong>You can start by <\/strong><\/em><\/span><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-flirt-tips\/\">flirting<\/a> and using some humiliating words such as:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;I&#8217;m better than you to be in charge.&#8221;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Come on, you can fu@k me better than that.&#8221;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;I wish there was another man, you&#8217;re not good enough.&#8221;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Female domination is about personal preferences and staying within your set limits. Don&#8217;t humiliate or be humiliated more than what you initially agreed on, and progress step by step.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether you&#8217;re looking to add a little <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/sex-games-for-couples\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">spice to your sex life<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or you want to explore your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-be-a-dominant-in-bdsm\/\">dominant side<\/a>, it can be a fun and exciting way to improve your relationship.<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4240\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-2-1.png\" alt=\"woman holding a whip behind her back bdsm\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-2-1.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-2-1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-2-1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-2-1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-2-1-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tips to femdom\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some people enjoy femdom as a way to explore their submissive side, while others find it empowering to be the one in charge. No matter what your reasons for exploring femdom are, there are plenty of ways to get started.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re new to it, the first thing you&#8217;ll need to do is figure out what turns you on. Do you like the idea of being dominated?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Or maybe you prefer being told humiliating words? Once you know what gets you going, you can start looking for related activities and fantasies.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>If you&#8217;re not sure where to start, here are a few ideas:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/best-bdsm-sex-toys\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bondage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or restraints. This can be a great way to experiment with power dynamics and give your partner control over your pleasure<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fantasise about being <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/humiliation-kink\/\">humiliated<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/degradation-kink\/\">degraded<\/a>. Whether it&#8217;s being called names, being told to do something obscene, or being laughed at, humiliation can be a powerful turn-on for some people<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Experiment with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/qa-miss-hazel-heart-on-onlyfans\/\">different forms of dominance<\/a> and submission. Maybe you want to be the slave and your partner the boss?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you keep these tips in mind, you&#8217;re sure to have a steamy femdom experience that will leave both you and your partner begging for more.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tips to gentle femdom<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to femdom, many people automatically think of whips and chains. But there&#8217;s a lot more to it than that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Femdom can be gentle. You can start slowly with words and roles of power to check your limits and see what is pleasurable or not.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For instance, the female partner dressing as a mum or as a teacher and acting like she has the power is a great way to start out with no humiliation.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Other roleplay scenarios can also spice up your sex life, such as owner and pet or boss and employee.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Apart from that, while you don&#8217;t need to go into bondage, you can use soft, furry handcuffs to make things kinkier and more exciting.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lastly, using <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/best-sex-toys-and-how-to-use-them\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sex toys<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is another way to start your femdom journey. It will allow the female partner to show the man that she can have fun without him. Hence, triggering the man&#8217;s submission.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"whathappensduringafemdomsession?\"><strong>What happens during a femdom session?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to female domination in bed, it typically involves the dominant woman ordering her submissive partner to perform various tasks or acting as a dominatrix.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The submissive person may have to do things such as <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-toe-sucking\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">licking feet<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, being spat on, and being slapped. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They may also be made to wear special clothing, such as a maid&#8217;s outfit or a collar and leash.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The dominant woman may also engage in sexual activities with her submissive partner, such as spanking, whipping, face-sitting, or <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/escort\/gb\/q\/strap-on\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">strap-on play<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Femdom can be an extremely erotic and exciting experience for both partners involved.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When it comes to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/escort\/gb\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">escorts<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, a typical femdom session would ideally see the male client find <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/escort\/gb\/q\/erotic\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">erotic<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> activities he wants, such as pet play or a medical <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/role-play-sex-tips\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">roleplay<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4239\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-3-1.png\" alt=\"dominant woman touching a man's chest\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-3-1.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-3-1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-3-1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-3-1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/femdom-3-1-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"thetakeaway\"><strong>The takeaway<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, there you have it \u2013 a complete guide to femdom. As we&#8217;ve seen, when it comes to sexual relationships, there is no one right way to do things.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some couples prefer a more traditional dynamic, with the man taking the lead and the woman following his lead.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, other couples may prefer an equal relationship or even a female-led relationship, and there are many different reasons why couples may choose to explore femdom.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you interested in exploring femdom? Then start <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/talking-about-kink-fetish\/\">talking to your partner<\/a> and setting new boundaries to take your relationship to the next level.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Alternatively, you can hire the services of a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/escort\/gb\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">professional<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in your area on Vivastreet.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Female domination is a term used to describe a sexual relationship or practice in which a woman takes control of her partner.\u00a0 This can involve physical domination, such as slapping or spanking, or psychological domination, such as verbal humiliation or mind games.\u00a0 Some femdom relationships also involve roleplaying and dress-up, with the woman taking on [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4242,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"CBBTypography":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[223],"tags":[],"yst_prominent_words":[],"class_list":["post-3379","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sex-and-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3379","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3379"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3379\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4242"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3379"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3379"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3379"},{"taxonomy":"yst_prominent_words","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/yst_prominent_words?post=3379"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}