{"id":3526,"date":"2022-07-25T17:04:12","date_gmt":"2022-07-25T16:04:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/?p=3526"},"modified":"2023-03-23T17:58:27","modified_gmt":"2023-03-23T17:58:27","slug":"quirofilia-hand-fetish","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/quirofilia-hand-fetish\/","title":{"rendered":"Quirofilia: Taking fetish into your own hands"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hands &#8211; we all have them, but some people are more attracted to hands than others. If you\u2019ve discovered you have a hand kink, you\u2019re not alone. Quirofilia, also known as a hand fetish, is more common than you might expect.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"#whatisahandfetish?\">What is a hand fetish?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#doihaveahandfetish?\">Do I have a hand fetish?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#doesmypartnerhaveahandfetish?\">Does my partner have a hand fetish?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#howdoitellmypartnerihaveahandfetish?\">How do I tell my partner I have a hand fetish?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#howtoexplorehandfetish?\">How to explore hand fetish?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#readytotakethingsintoyourownhands?\"> Ready to take things into your own hands?<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-explore-kinks-fetish\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Discovering a new fetish<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is exciting, but it can also be challenging. Now you\u2019ve realised you have an attraction to hands, what\u2019s the next step? Can you try hand play? What is quirofilia? But don\u2019t worry, we\u2019re here to help.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this article, we\u2019re exploring everything you need to know about hand fetishes. Keep reading to get informed on this exciting subject, from what causes them to how you can involve them in your sex life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"whatisahandfetish?\"><strong>What is a hand fetish?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, you\u2019ve discovered you\u2019re attracted to hands, but what is a hand fetish?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quirofilia describes a distinct sexual attraction to hands, nails, and fingers. Unlike the well-known f<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-toe-sucking\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">oot fetish<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, hand fetishes aren\u2019t always about sexual acts. Someone with a hand kink might be attracted to looking at hands, touching certain textures, or even doing mundane actions like watching hands tie shoelaces.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hand fetishes can also include sexual acts that involve fingers, such as <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-fingering\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fingering<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, finger sucking, or hand jobs. Each person is different, but if the sexual attraction surrounds the hands more than the act, it\u2019s known as a hand fetish.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some even find their hand fetish isn\u2019t very sexual at all. For some, simply watching the hands of a loved one while they perform caring tasks brings a feeling of peace and comfort. This is a broad fetish, and no one definition fits all.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-3536\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/quirofilia-hand-fetish-2.png\" alt=\"woman's hand touching a man's stomach ready to unzip his jeans\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/quirofilia-hand-fetish-2.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/quirofilia-hand-fetish-2-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/quirofilia-hand-fetish-2-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/quirofilia-hand-fetish-2-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/quirofilia-hand-fetish-2-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">&#8212;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"doihaveahandfetish?\"><strong>Do I have a hand fetish?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019ve noticed yourself paying more attention to hands than others, it might signal you have a hand fetish.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember, fetishes and kinks are entirely normal. Sexual attraction is a broad spectrum, and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/weird-fetishes\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fetishes come in all shapes and sizes<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. If you\u2019ve realised that you find hands attractive, this is exciting. Now you can start introducing more hand play in the bedroom, which is ideal if you want to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/sex-games-for-couples\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">spice up your sex life<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understanding your hand fetish might be challenging, as not all people with a hand kink want to interact with their hands directly. Some are happy just to watch hands, whereas others prefer sexual acts that revolve around hands. The best way to see what works best for you is to try different acts out. From fingering to caressing, see which aspects of hand play you enjoy.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fetishes don\u2019t always have precise definitions, but this is a good thing. When you\u2019re comfortable and with a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/a-z-sexual-consent-in-sex-work\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consenting adult<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, experiment with different textures and touches to see what quirofilia means to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What causes a hand fetish?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s common to wonder what causes a kink, especially if you\u2019ve just noticed you have it. Like food, we all have different tastes in the bedroom. A fetish is caused by sexual attraction, and some might have stronger feelings than others surrounding a particular fetish.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/uk-top-sexual-fetishes-top-kinks-explained\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">many kinks<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> develop over time, some are almost biological. We\u2019re all wired to experience sexual attraction, so what you\u2019re attracted to depends on your personality and life experiences.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s no concrete research into what causes hand fetishes, and research into all sexual fetishes is still limited. However, experimenting with hand play can be very fulfilling and safe, so as long as you\u2019re with a trusted partner, don\u2019t worry about the cause. Just explore and enjoy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What features make hands sexy?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner has a hand fetish, you might be wondering what you can do to elevate their enjoyment. The first step is to understand what makes hands sexy and start using this to experiment in the bedroom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The features that make hands sexy are extensive, but the most common include veins, long fingernails, and size. Some women are attracted to large, strong hands &#8211; especially if they have prominent veins. On the other hand, men tend to be attracted to hands with long or polished nails.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In general, those with quirofilia enjoy looking at hands in different positions. So, sometimes it\u2019s less about the features and more about what the hands are doing. From caressing genitalia to performing daily tasks, the features and positions that make hands sexy vary a lot.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"doesmypartnerhaveahandfetish?\"><strong>Does my partner have a hand fetish?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the aspects of having a partner is getting to know their preferences are fetishes. If you suspect your partner has a hand fetish, they might pay extra attention to your hands during intercourse. This could include sucking, licking, or watching your hands.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another sign your partner might experience quirofilia is if they become more aroused when engaging in hand play. Seeing your partner orgasm the hardest when you\u2019re <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-fingering\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fingering<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> them or when your hands are in their mouth could indicate that hands are a sure turn-on for them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Knowing your partner\u2019s kinks is great, as you can use these to make your sex life even hotter. If you\u2019re ready to include more hand play, sit down and talk to your partner to gauge their reaction. They might not even realise their attraction to hands, so make sure you communicate well and ensure they always feel comfortable.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"howdoitellmypartnerihaveahandfetish?\"><strong>How do I tell my partner I have a hand fetish?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you\u2019re ready to include quirofilia into your sex life, sit down with your partner and have an open conversation. With any kink or fetish, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/talking-about-kink-fetish\/\">discussing your desires<\/a> and boundaries is essential before any sexual contact starts. Open communication leads to sexier and more fulfilling intercourse, so don\u2019t be scared to talk.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sit down with your partner in a comfortable, private environment and be transparent about your feelings. Explain how hands enhance sex and how you\u2019d like to incorporate them next time you get intimate. Remember, consent is important; if they\u2019re not ready to explore hands yet, give them time before proceeding.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"howtoexplorehandfetish?\"><strong>How to explore hand fetish?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ready to turn the heat up? Here are some of the best ways to include quirofilia into your sex life.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Send each other saucy hand pictures. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first step to enjoying hand play doesn\u2019t have to be physical. You could introduce saucy hand photos into your sexting sessions.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Explore hand-focused porn<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Quirofilia isn\u2019t as uncommon as you might expect, and there are hundreds of porn actors who specialise in this area. This could also give you tips on how to want to integrate hands into your play.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Spend more time on hand-focused foreplay.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> From fingering to hand jobs, there are multiple ways to reach orgasm with hands. Instead of focusing your sex around penetration, spend more time on these acts instead.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Try licking and finger-sucking.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> If you\u2019re not ready to experiment with sexual hand play, you can try finger-sucking and licking instead. This is a great way to dial up the intimacy too.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Experiment with different caresses and sensations.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Soft touches and caresses can often create heightened arousal, especially if you\u2019re attracted to hands.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Consider adding fisting into your play.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> While <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/fisting\/\">fisting<\/a> isn\u2019t for everyone, it can be an excellent way to add hands to your sex life. Remember, make sure you <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-use-sexual-lubricants\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">use lube<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/beginners-guide-to-anal-sex\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">prepare well for any anal play<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Consent is critical too.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is hand fetish safe?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Due to the taboo nature of fetishes, there\u2019s often a lack of information surrounding them, and many don\u2019t know if it\u2019s safe to engage in any kink or hand play.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, we have good news for anyone interested in hand fetishes and quirofilia &#8211; hand play is entirely safe. As long as you\u2019re gentle with your partner, hand play is harmless fun that can make your sex life even spicier.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re ready to engage in some hand fun with a partner, ensure you\u2019re both recently tested to prevent STDs and include a condom for any potential penetration. Getting tested regularly is the best way to protect yourself from diseases and infections.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lube might be needed for any penetrative acts, as the anus and vagina are sensitive areas. Lubes can heighten sensations and offer a tasty treat if you\u2019re playing with sucking or licking &#8211; stock up on exciting textures for a new experience.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Also, remember that both parties need to consent before you start intercourse. But if you\u2019re two adults who have provided enthusiastic consent, you\u2019re good to go.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-3537\" src=\"https:\/\/vivastreetuk.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/quirofilia-hand-fetish-1.png\" alt=\"man kissing woman's hand\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/quirofilia-hand-fetish-1.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/quirofilia-hand-fetish-1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/quirofilia-hand-fetish-1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/quirofilia-hand-fetish-1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/quirofilia-hand-fetish-1-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">&#8212;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"readytotakethingsintoyourownhands?\"><strong>Ready to take things into your own hands?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quirofilia is a completely normal fetish; exploring it is a fun way to increase your pleasure in the bedroom. We hope this article has improved your understanding of the topic. If you\u2019re ready to share your fetish with your partner, use our tips to get things started.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finally, when starting with fetishes, remember to start slow and pay attention to what you enjoy most. All fetishes can be safely explored, but always ask your adult partner for consent first.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you ever experimented with hand play? What does an attraction to hands mean to you? Let us know in the comments!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hands &#8211; we all have them, but some people are more attracted to hands than others. If you\u2019ve discovered you have a hand kink, you\u2019re not alone. Quirofilia, also known as a hand fetish, is more common than you might expect. What is a hand fetish? Do I have a hand fetish? 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