{"id":4617,"date":"2023-09-22T12:24:15","date_gmt":"2023-09-22T11:24:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/?p=4617"},"modified":"2023-10-03T17:33:57","modified_gmt":"2023-10-03T16:33:57","slug":"should-you-offer-kink-escort-services","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/should-you-offer-kink-escort-services\/","title":{"rendered":"How to know if you should offer kink escort services"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As you start your escorting career, you\u2019ll be faced with thousands of questions. But one of the main ones is which services you\u2019ll provide. Are you all about the Girlfriend Experience? Or do you want to unleash your kinky side?<\/p>\n<li><a href=\"#decidingwhichservicesyouoffer\">Deciding which services you offer: Why enjoyment matters?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#howtoknowifyoushouldofferkink\">How to know if you should include kink escort services<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#howtomarketyourself\">How to market yourself as a kinky escort<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#thetakeaway\">The takeaway<\/a><\/li>\n<p>Deciding whether or not to delve into the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-explore-kinks-fetish\/\">world of professional kink<\/a> isn\u2019t easy. You might enjoy it personally, but should it be your day job? If this sounds familiar, we\u2019re on hand to help. Keep reading to learn more about kink escort services and how to know if they should be on your roster.<\/p>\n<p>Got your notebook out? Good. <em>Let\u2019s dive straight in.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"decidingwhichservicesyouoffer\"><strong>Deciding which services you offer: Why enjoyment matters?<\/h2>\n<p>In any business, selecting your services is a crucial decision. But in sex work, it\u2019s even more critical.<\/p>\n<p>The key aim is to choose safe, in-demand, legal, and enjoyable services for you. It&#8217;ll likely show if you don\u2019t enjoy what you do, which won\u2019t leave clients returning for more. You\u2019ll also be more likely to burn out, which isn\u2019t great for your mental or physical health, nor your business.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/uk-top-sexual-fetishes-top-kinks-explained\/\">Kink<\/a> always tends to have demand, especially if the niche area is more extreme. But kink isn\u2019t for everyone. If you don\u2019t enjoy it and are considering offering it to maintain a stream of income, you might want to think twice. Offering uncomfortable services can quickly hinder your career progress and earnings, so you might be better off specialising in kink escort services that excite you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Are you selecting your services? Read our complete guide to sex worker service selection <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-decide-what-services-to-offer-as-a-sex-worker\/\">here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4618\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/should-you-offer-kink-escort-services-2.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/should-you-offer-kink-escort-services-2.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/should-you-offer-kink-escort-services-2-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/should-you-offer-kink-escort-services-2-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/should-you-offer-kink-escort-services-2-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/should-you-offer-kink-escort-services-2-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"howtoknowifyoushouldofferkink\"><strong>What does kink include?<\/h2>\n<p>Kink is a broad term that encompasses a range of sexual preferences, acts, and fantasies.<\/p>\n<p>Typically, when sex workers offer kinky services, they narrow their offerings into subcategories. This clarifies their offerings and allows clients with niche interests to find them more easily.<\/p>\n<p>Kink escort services include <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/who-is-bdsm-switch\/\">BDSM<\/a>, power play, worship, leather fetishism, foot play, rough sex, breathplay, roleplay, and more. The list is endless. If the practice is unconventional, it\u2019s likely part of kink.<\/p>\n<p>So, before you slap \u201ckink\u201d on your website or profile, take a moment and consider which parts of kink you\u2019re drawn to. Maybe you really enjoy providing foot jobs. Or perhaps you\u2019re handy with a paddle. Whatever makes you feel good should be on your list.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"howtoknowifyoushouldofferkink\"><strong>How to know if you should include kink escort services<\/h2>\n<p>If you\u2019re on this page, there\u2019s a good chance you want to add kink to your service list. However, we have some bad news &#8211; no one but you can decide whether delving into kink is right for you.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, we know. It\u2019s a tough decision. But some soul searching is the best way to get an answer. Are you comfortable marketing yourself as a kinkster? Are you ready to deal with potential dry spells when there\u2019s a lack of kinky clients? Could your mental health withstand daily kink escort services? These are all questions to ask yourself.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Some additional signs you\u2019d excel in the <\/em><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/talking-about-kink-fetish\/\"><strong><em>kink world<\/em><\/strong><\/a> <strong><em>include:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>You already practise kinky sex<\/li>\n<li>You\u2019re active in your local kink scene<\/li>\n<li>You genuinely enjoy <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/kink-quiz\/\">kink<\/a><\/li>\n<li>You don\u2019t mind the extra stigma associated with kink<\/li>\n<li>You\u2019ve been considering kinky services for a while<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you\u2019re genuinely at an impasse and don\u2019t know what to do, you might want to talk to some kinky providers. Discussing your thoughts with established professionals will give you some clarity on the situation. You might even get a few tips and tricks for getting started. But remember, always be polite and don\u2019t demand information. If kinky professionals don\u2019t reply, don\u2019t take it to heart. They might be busy or simply unable to offer free advice &#8211; and that&#8217;s okay.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What experience should you have<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>If you\u2019re new to the industry, having little experience is okay. However, you should have at least some personal experience with kink. This could be from your own sexual experiences, from attending sex parties, or from participating in educational workshops.<\/p>\n<p>You must know relevant safety details. This includes aftercare, boundaries, and any other niche-specific information to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/qa-sex-educator-gigi-engle-on-kinks-and-how-to-explore-them-safely\/\">keep you and your clients safe<\/a>. Learn about kink safety online or take part in sex-positive workshops.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t skydive without a safety demonstration, so don\u2019t expect potential clients to book unsafe services.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4619\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/should-you-offer-kink-escort-services-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/should-you-offer-kink-escort-services-1.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/should-you-offer-kink-escort-services-1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/should-you-offer-kink-escort-services-1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/should-you-offer-kink-escort-services-1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/should-you-offer-kink-escort-services-1-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"howtomarketyourself\"><strong>How to market yourself as a kinky escort<\/h2>\n<p>If you\u2019ve decided to embrace the kink life, your next step is to start marketing yourself as a kink professional. Don\u2019t worry if you\u2019re feeling overwhelmed. Perfecting your marketing is much easier than you\u2019d expect.<\/p>\n<p>Firstly, start by researching other kinky sex workers. Look at their social media and websites. Are there any similarities between them? If so, make sure you add these to your profile, as it\u2019ll signify you\u2019re also working in the same field.<\/p>\n<p>You should also consider different marketing channels. Are there some platforms that have more kinky providers or even kink subcategories? Make your presence known on these sites, as they likely see higher client traffic.<\/p>\n<p>Next, start prepping your imagery. What will you call yourself? Many kinksters like to add Mistress or Dom to their name to show their kinky prowess. Kink-based profiles also feature a lot of leather, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-latex-fetish\/\">latex<\/a>, or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-japanese-rope-bondage\/\">Shibari<\/a> &#8211; all signifiers of kinky sex. Take some high-quality photos, and if you have kink gear or underwear, make sure this is on show. Remember, you want to entice your audience.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t forget to connect with other sex workers online. Building a network of like-minded professionals can increase your exposure and it allows you to share tips and tricks with other industry experts.<\/p>\n<p>Showing the world your kinky side is a big step. <strong>Use our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/marketing-for-sex-workers\/\">marketing yourself as a sex worker guide<\/a> to navigate the process with ease.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"thetakeaway\"><strong>The takeaway<\/h2>\n<p>Whether you\u2019re establishing yourself for the first time or reinventing your image, adding kink to your roster can help you attract new clients and enter a new niche. However, don\u2019t rush into it. It\u2019s not for everyone &#8211; and that\u2019s okay! Before jumping in, take your time to truly decide whether kink is for you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Want to learn more about sex work? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/for-sex-workers\/\">Visit the Vivastreet sex work blog now.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As you start your escorting career, you\u2019ll be faced with thousands of questions. But one of the main ones is which services you\u2019ll provide. Are you all about the Girlfriend Experience? Or do you want to unleash your kinky side? Deciding which services you offer: Why enjoyment matters? 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