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- Is my vagina normal?<\/a><\/li>\n
- Different labia sizes, shapes, and symmetry<\/a><\/li>\n
- Does the way your vagina look change over time?<\/a><\/li>\n
- What to do if you\u2019re uncomfortable with how you look<\/a><\/li>\n
- The takeaway<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Today, we\u2019re looking at what makes a normal vagina and what you need to know about your body.<\/p>\n
Keep scrolling to get informed.<\/em><\/p>\n
Is my vagina normal?<\/strong><\/h2>\n
The internet is an amazing tool we use every day. However, there are some unpleasant side effects of it – such as misinformation and opinions that leave millions of women and girls feeling bad about their healthy genitals.<\/p>\n
There are plenty of voices online that\u2019ll tell you your labia is too long, uneven, or discoloured. But these opinions simply aren\u2019t true, as labia come in all shapes and sizes. Like other body parts, variation is normal and should be celebrated!<\/p>\n
What are labia?<\/span><\/h3>\n
Though we call the external part of the female genitalia a vagina, that\u2019s not its actual name. The external part is called the \u201cvulva\u201d, and the internal section is the vagina.<\/p>\n
The labia are the lips that frame the vagina. But labia is still a generalisation since you actually have two pairs of lips: the labia minora (inner lips) and the labia majora (the outer lips).<\/p>\n
The labia majora are there to protect your inner parts, such as your clitoris, vaginal opening, and urethra. These usually have hair on (unless you wax or shave). Similarly, the labia minora are there for a protective purpose.<\/p>\n
Why worries are normal<\/span><\/h3>\n
Worries about your genitalia are very common. So, if you\u2019ve been stressing that you\u2019re the only person who\u2019s ever felt this way, don\u2019t worry. It\u2019s a very normal feeling for everyone.<\/p>\n
However, what matters is how you move forward from these worries. The best way is to learn about your anatomy and understand that your appearance is normal. Be aware that how porn actors look might not be their natural shape (due to labiaplasty<\/a>) and that you don\u2019t need to change yourself to be attractive or healthy.<\/p>\n
Scroll down to learn what makes a normal vulva!<\/em><\/p>\n
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<\/p>\nDifferent labia sizes, shapes, and symmetry<\/strong><\/h2>\n
There\u2019s no one-size-fits-all for the way your vulva should look. Though some (uneducated) people focus on having a vulva with invisible lips and an even skin tone, approximately half of the ladies have inner lips (labia minora) that are longer than the outer lips.<\/p>\n
We\u2019re ready to change the messaging surrounding what a vulva \u201cshould\u201d look like. Here\u2019s everything you need to know.<\/p>\n
Labia colour<\/span><\/h3>\n
Like facial complexions and skin tones, vulvas and labia also come in different colours. Typical skin tones for labia include brown, pink, reddish, and purplish tones. Often, the labia are slightly darker or more pigmented than your skin – just like your lips vs your face.<\/p>\n
Labia size<\/span><\/h3>\n
One of the most common worries is labia size – specifically longer labia minora. While longer labia minora seem to cause the most stress, they\u2019re completely normal, and around 50% of women have them. Like belly buttons, some women have innies, and some have outies. Longer labia minora are not cause for concern and don\u2019t have any health complications.<\/p>\n
Labia symmetry<\/span><\/h3>\n
Another common worry is labia symmetry or a lack thereof. Though we rarely notice it, our bodies aren\u2019t very symmetrical. It’s rare to have a mirror-perfect symmetry, from breasts<\/a> with different cup sizes to eyebrows with different arches. So, it\u2019s perfectly normal if one of your labia is longer.<\/p>\n
Understanding different labia<\/span><\/h3>\n
Millions of women worry about their anatomy, but unlike other body positivity movements, it\u2019s hard to show off different labia and provide healthy inspiration to women worldwide.<\/p>\n
However, Women\u2019s Health Victoria has created the Labia Library<\/a> to solve this issue. The Labia Library is dedicated to helping women see other vulvas and to understand how unique each one is. The website also answers common questions and provides advice to those feeling unsure about their own anatomy.<\/p>\n
Does the way your vagina look change over time?<\/strong><\/h2>\n
The way your vulva and labia look can change over time due to the ageing process and hormones. The most notable changes happen during puberty, when your labia will appear more prominent.<\/p>\n
However, it\u2019s essential to regularly check your body for lumps, moles, cysts, or ulcers. Like other body parts, any new growths should be checked out by a doctor to ensure they\u2019re not harmful to your overall health.<\/p>\n
If there is any pain<\/a> or symptoms of STIs<\/a>, you should also visit your doctor.<\/p>\n
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<\/p>\nWhat to do if you\u2019re uncomfortable with how you look<\/strong><\/h2>\n
If you still feel uncomfortable with your vulva, there are some steps you can take to release the feelings and build a healthier relationship with your body:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n
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- Practice self-compassion <\/strong>–\u00a0Remind yourself that everyone has insecurities and that everyone looks different. Be kind to yourself<\/a> and try to catch any negative self-talk<\/li>\n
- Reach out to others for support<\/strong> – Speaking to others can help you contextualise your feelings. However, it can be uncomfortable to talk to friends and family about your genitalia. In this case, researching the topic or contacting a non-judgemental body image counsellor or therapist <\/a>can help you work through difficult feelings<\/li>\n
- Focus on your health <\/strong>–\u00a0Some women find it helpful to focus on their health rather than appearance. You can visit your GP or gynaecologist to check out any health concerns or for confirmation that your vulva is healthy if needed<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
The takeaway<\/strong><\/h2>\n
Getting comfortable with your vagina isn\u2019t always an overnight fix. After years of negative self-talk and insecurities, it can be challenging to accept your body. However, know that your anatomy is normal, and you\u2019re not alone in your feelings.<\/p>\n
If something about your vulva or labia is bothering you, consider talking to a doctor for a professional medical opinion. Putting your health first is critical.<\/p>\n
- Reach out to others for support<\/strong> – Speaking to others can help you contextualise your feelings. However, it can be uncomfortable to talk to friends and family about your genitalia. In this case, researching the topic or contacting a non-judgemental body image counsellor or therapist <\/a>can help you work through difficult feelings<\/li>\n
- Different labia sizes, shapes, and symmetry<\/a><\/li>\n