{"id":5112,"date":"2024-04-12T16:09:19","date_gmt":"2024-04-12T15:09:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/?p=5112"},"modified":"2024-05-15T16:39:28","modified_gmt":"2024-05-15T15:39:28","slug":"69-sex-position","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/69-sex-position\/","title":{"rendered":"All you need to know about the number 69"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>69 is one of those numbers we can\u2019t help but giggle at. But do you know why this number has naughty connections?<\/p>\n<p>Today, we\u2019re diving into everything you need to know about 69ing. From the basics to tips to bring more pleasure, we\u2019re not holding back.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"#whatis69?\">What is the 69 position?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#variations\">Variations of 69ing<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#whyexplore69?\">Why should you explore the 69 position?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#tipsforbetter69ing\">Tips for better 69ing<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#thetakeaway\">The takeaway<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Keep reading to master this mutually pleasing position in no time.<\/p>\n<p><em>Let\u2019s go!<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"whatis69?\"><strong>What is the 69 position?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>69 is a classic <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/strange-sex-positions-to-try\/\">sex position<\/a> where you and your partner give and receive oral sex at the same time. Named for the fact that the position resembles the number 69, this is one of the most popular positions, especially as it\u2019s non-penetrative and can\u2019t cause pregnancy.<\/p>\n<p>You can still catch STIs while 69ing, though. So, take necessary safe sex precautions to ensure you and your partner are protected.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Can all couples experiment with 69?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Yes! 69ing isn\u2019t only a heterosexual position. Partners of any gender can get involved with this sexy act. As long as there\u2019s double <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/what-is-cunnilingus-tips\/\">oral stimulation<\/a> going on, you\u2019re successfully 69ing.<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5115\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/69-sex-position-1.png\" alt=\"Shirtless Men Lying on Bed\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/69-sex-position-1.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/69-sex-position-1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/69-sex-position-1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/69-sex-position-1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/69-sex-position-1-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"\u201dvariations&quot;\"><strong>Variations of 69ing<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Curious about the different ways you can 69? We\u2019ve got your back. <strong><em>Here are the most popular ways to get down and dirty:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Classic 69<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>The classic 69 position (and the one most people associate with 69ing) is where the couple aligns themselves so that each person\u2019s genitals are near the other\u2019s mouth. For heterosexual couples, this usually includes the woman on top and the man on his back.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Inverted 69<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>The inverted 69 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/safe-university-sex-positions\/\">sex position<\/a> is the exact opposite of the classic 69. So, if the man was on the bottom, he\u2019s now on the top. For queer couples, you should also swap the alignment of each partner.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sideways 69<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>If you or your partner doesn\u2019t enjoy the being on top aspect, you can flip the script and both balance on your side via the sideways 69 variation. This is also popular for couples who have difficulty reaching their partner\u2019s genitals.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Standing 69<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Ready to show off your physical prowess? The standing 69 position isn\u2019t for the faint of heart, but it\u2019s an exciting way to explore it.<\/p>\n<p>For standing 69, you ditch the lying down aspect, and one partner holds the other upside down. This tends to be easier when one partner is petite and one a gym lover.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"whyexplore69?\"><strong>Why should you explore the 69 position?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>69ing is popular for a reason! Here are some of the benefits of this position to help you decide if it\u2019s in your sexual future.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Focuses on oral sex<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>One of the key perks of 69ing is that it focuses on oral sex rather than penetrative intercourse. Perfect if you\u2019re really turned on by giving or receiving head and want to focus on oral rather than other types of sex.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Works great as part of foreplay<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>If you want to elongate <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/why-escorts-shouldnt-skip-foreplay\/\">foreplay<\/a> or try something new, 69 can be the perfect solution. You can use this sex position to tease your partner and warm them up before moving on to penetration.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Provides mutual pleasure<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>If you get off on your partner\u2019s moans or enjoy knowing they\u2019re receiving pleasure, 69 could be a great option for you. In 69, both you and your partner get off, which makes the situation extra erotic for those who prefer giving.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Heightened arousal<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Many find that they experience heightened states of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/orgasm-types\/\">arousal<\/a> during and after 69ing. This is great if you\u2019re looking for a way to spice up your love life or simply want to make sex more thrilling than ever.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gender inclusive<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>69 is a gender-inclusive position, meaning no matter your or your partner\u2019s gender, you can both get involved and experience some good vibes. As long as both parties consent, you\u2019re good to go.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5114\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/69-sex-position-2.png\" alt=\"Two Women Lying in Bed Kissing\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/69-sex-position-2.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/69-sex-position-2-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/69-sex-position-2-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/69-sex-position-2-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/69-sex-position-2-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"tipsforbetter69ing\"><strong>Tips for better 69ing<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Ready to take your 69s to the next level? <strong><em>Here are some expert tips to enhance your and your partner\u2019s pleasure:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. Talk about your expectations<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>As with any sex position, you should have a chat beforehand to discuss your boundaries and expectations. Not everyone enjoys the same things, so knowing your partner\u2019s no-gos before diving in can be extremely helpful.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. Use lube<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Sadly, lube is forgotten when it comes to 69s. But extra lubrication can take this sex position to the next level. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-use-sexual-lubricants\/\">Lubricants<\/a> can make touches more pleasurable and lessen any friction. Just make sure you opt for a good quality lube that contains no allergens.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. Shower first<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Another way to dramatically improve your experience is to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/shower-friendly-sex-positions\/\">shower before 69ing<\/a>. Like any oral activity, when someone is up close and personal with your genitals, it\u2019s always a better experience if you\u2019re clean.<\/p>\n<p>A pre-69 shower can also help you relax into it, as you know your genitals are washed and ready to have fun.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. Touch everywhere<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Yes, 69ing focuses on giving your partner\u2019s naughty bits some love. But you don\u2019t have to stop there. Use your hands to roam their body and softly caress them while you go down on them. This can add extra sex sensations into the mix, which, for some, can really turn the pleasure up a notch.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">5. Add toys<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Like lube, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/evolution-of-sex-toys\/\">sex toys<\/a> aren\u2019t usually associated with 69, and we think this is a travesty. Toys can brighten any situation, and adding some extra stimulation into the mix is always a great idea.<\/p>\n<p>For example, you might want to experiment with wearing a butt plug while 69ing. You can also add bullet vibrators to the play. These tiny toys are great for hitting all the right spots without taking up too much space. Awesome.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"thetakeaway\"><strong>The takeaway<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Adding 69 to your bedroom repertoire can help you and your partner both have stronger orgasms and more fulfilling sex life. Getting the hang of 69 can take a little practice, but with clear communication and a calm atmosphere, you can achieve simultaneous pleasure with ease.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/sex-and-relationships\/\">Learn more about sex and relationships on the Vivastreet blog now<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>69 is one of those numbers we can\u2019t help but giggle at. 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