{"id":5584,"date":"2025-02-23T14:42:37","date_gmt":"2025-02-23T14:42:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/?p=5584"},"modified":"2025-03-03T14:55:53","modified_gmt":"2025-03-03T14:55:53","slug":"why-you-should-keep-learning-about-sex-as-an-adult","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/why-you-should-keep-learning-about-sex-as-an-adult\/","title":{"rendered":"Why you should keep learning about sex as an adult"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you hear \u201csex education\u201d, you likely think of blush-inducing secondary school classes or the hit Netflix show.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/qa-sex-educator-gigi-engle-on-sex-work-sex-education\/\">Sex education<\/a> is a critical subject, but it\u2019s not only for adolescents! We should all continue to expand our knowledge into adulthood. After all, with age comes wisdom &#8211; but only if you keep learning!<\/p>\n<p>Today, we&#8217;re exploring why you should continue learning about sex as an adult and listing some <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/best-sex-positive-media\/\">sex-positive media<\/a> to help inspire your studies.<\/p>\n<h2>5 reasons to keep learning about sex<\/h2>\n<p>Sex education isn\u2019t just about learning the names of body parts and how babies are made! It\u2019s also about your intimate well-being, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/how-sex-workers-can-elevate-their-relationship-with-sexual-health\/\">sexual health,<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/the-beginners-guide-to-sex-toys\/\">pleasure<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Here are five reasons <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/client-sex-education\/\">sex education<\/a> should be a life-long lesson.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. Stay informed on sexual health developments<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/guide-to-stis\/\">Sexual health<\/a> and contraception look very different today compared to thirty years ago, and as we keep moving forward, the landscape will continue to change.<\/p>\n<p>So, if you\u2019re having sex, you need to stay in the loop. Not only will you be able to better look after your sexual health, but you\u2019ll also be able to give suggestions to your partners to improve their well-being, too.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. Self discovery<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>There\u2019s no right or wrong way to have sex, and this gives way to endless possibilities.<\/p>\n<p>The more you learn and immerse yourself in sex-positive media, the more you\u2019ll learn about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/self-discovery-and-sexual-well-being\/\">what you do and don\u2019t like<\/a>. This can help your self-confidence and self-esteem, and it can also lead to better sex, which leads us to\u2026<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. Better orgasms<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>The more you know about sex, the more pleasure you can unlock!<\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t only relate to discovering <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/discussing-your-deepest-desires-in-the-bedroom\/\">your kinks<\/a> and turn-ons but also to understanding your physical anatomy and how to pleasure yourself with a partner and on your own.<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5586\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/why-you-should-keep-learning-about-sex-as-an-adult-2.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/why-you-should-keep-learning-about-sex-as-an-adult-2.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/why-you-should-keep-learning-about-sex-as-an-adult-2-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/why-you-should-keep-learning-about-sex-as-an-adult-2-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/why-you-should-keep-learning-about-sex-as-an-adult-2-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/why-you-should-keep-learning-about-sex-as-an-adult-2-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. Better communication around sex<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Learning about sex often leaves you feeling more comfortable with the subject. This helps to normalise sex and pleasure and also improves communication between you and your partner(s).<\/p>\n<p>Better communication can also lead to more pleasure, but more importantly, it leads to fewer miscommunications and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/sex-work-client-boundaries\/\">boundary-pushing<\/a>\u00a0and clear consent.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">5. Less stigma<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Though we\u2019ve come a long way with talking about sex, many of us still feel sexual shame, and some kinks and acts are still surrounded by stigma and misconceptions.<\/p>\n<p>Learning about sex, sharing sex education, and embracing the subject with an open mind helps to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/ending-sex-work-stigma\/\">reduce the stigma <\/a>and also helps others develop their sexuality.<\/p>\n<h2>How to continue learning about sex as an adult<\/h2>\n<p>Interested in continuing your sex education? Learning is easier than ever, especially with the internet at your fingertips.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019ve researched the best ways for adults to learn about sex in their free time. From working with a professional to reading helpful blogs, <strong><em>there are plenty of options for all personalities and time schedules:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Professional sex blogs<\/strong> &#8211; The blogging industry is far from dead! There are countless sex-positive blogs online designed to offer sex education without any shame. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/\">Start with ours now<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>YouTube and social media channels<\/strong> &#8211; Alongside blogs, plenty of YouTubers and social media influencers are dedicated to providing open-minded and honest sex education. Perfect if you want informal tips on your feed.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Classic <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/15-sexy-books-to-read-on-national-book-lovers-day\/\"><strong>sex education books<\/strong><\/a> &#8211; Don\u2019t forget the basics! The classic school-style sex education books might seem a little outdated now, but some of them are truly hidden gems. Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski is a popular place to start.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Podcasts<\/strong> &#8211; Not a fan of reading? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/the-best-adult-and-sex-podcasts\/\">Podcasts are the answer<\/a>. Spotify and other podcast providers are home to hundreds of sex-positive podcasts that teach you tricks and discuss common queries.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sex therapists &#8211;<\/strong>\u00a0Sometimes, it\u2019s easier to work with a professional. If you want personalised guidance, a sex therapist or counsellor will help you on your journey to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/escort-sex-education\/\">better sex education<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Notable online sex educators<\/h2>\n<p>Being a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/sex-expert-gigi-engle-on-sex\/\">sex educator<\/a> is a crucial profession, serving not only schools and local communities but also making a significant impact online.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some sex educators you might want to note for future reference:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/user\/lacigreen\">Laci Green<\/a> &#8211; A YouTube sex educator with lots of videos on sexuality and relationships.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/splitbanana.co.uk\/\">Split Banana<\/a> &#8211; An online sex education resource for adults and teens.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/sexucation.co.uk\/\">Sexucation<\/a> &#8211; Adult sex education and personal coaching for Brits.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@hannahwitton\/videos\">Hannah Witton<\/a> &#8211; a British YouTuber with plenty of old sex education videos.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/qa-sex-educator-gigi-engle-on-sex-education\/\">Gigi Engle<\/a> &#8211; A sex educator who teaches adults the benefits of sex education.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Sex education and re-learning as an adult<\/h2>\n<p>For some adults, learning about sex will involve unlearning the stigma and misconceptions developed as a teenager.<\/p>\n<p>For example, those who didn&#8217;t have access to transparent sex education might not understand different kinks or that having <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/collar-kink\/\">kinks<\/a> is normal.<\/p>\n<p>As you re-learn the basics of sex education, you\u2019ll need to go slow and have an open mind. You may even find that your preferences will change as you learn, or you\u2019ll be open to new experiences.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s okay for your sexual values to evolve. It\u2019s also okay to seek pleasure from sex, and there\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/can-sex-workers-help-you-deal-with-sexual-shame\/\">nothing shameful<\/a> or embarrassing about enjoying and exploring what feels good.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5587\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/why-you-should-keep-learning-about-sex-as-an-adult-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/why-you-should-keep-learning-about-sex-as-an-adult-1.png 1080w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/why-you-should-keep-learning-about-sex-as-an-adult-1-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/why-you-should-keep-learning-about-sex-as-an-adult-1-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/why-you-should-keep-learning-about-sex-as-an-adult-1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/why-you-should-keep-learning-about-sex-as-an-adult-1-600x338.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>The takeaway<\/h2>\n<p>You\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/age-and-orgasms\/\">never too late<\/a> to start learning about sex, even as an adult. However, the present is the best time to get started, so take today as your sign to begin this lifelong journey.<\/p>\n<p>You could start with an introductory YouTube video or treat yourself to a nice cup of coffee and a sex-positive podcast.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you do, make it a habit! Carve out an hour weekly to learn something new or read about other people\u2019s experiences.<\/p>\n<p>One day, you\u2019ll check back in with yourself and see how far you\u2019ve come.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Start learning today. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vivastreet.co.uk\/blog\/\">Jump to the Vivastreet blog to learn more online now<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you hear \u201csex education\u201d, you likely think of blush-inducing secondary school classes or the hit Netflix show. Sex education is a critical subject, but it\u2019s not only for adolescents! We should all continue to expand our knowledge into adulthood. After all, with age comes wisdom &#8211; but only if you keep learning! 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