You\u2019ll thank yourself, we promise!<\/p>\n
What is break-up admin?<\/h2>\n
OK, before we dive into the to-do list, we\u2019ll quickly define break-up admin for all those with confused looks on their faces.<\/p>\n
Break-up admin refers to all the practical tasks you must complete after a break-up.<\/p>\n
The end of a relationship<\/a> is a highly emotional time, and the last thing you want to do is divide up assets or try to get your old jumper back. However, getting it done is critical, especially if you want to move on and cut ties.<\/p>\n We\u2019ve prepared a list of the main tasks you must cover after your relationship ends. They\u2019re not all pleasant, but you can do it. Think of us as your break-up guide.<\/p>\n In a few months, you\u2019ll be thankful you did the work and haven\u2019t dragged out the ending. Let\u2019s get into it.<\/p>\n Sorting your emergency contacts always feels like something you can put off. But trust us on this one. You need to update them first. From your dentist to work emergency numbers, switch your ex for your family.<\/p>\n Step two depends on whether or not you live together. For today, we\u2019re focusing on couples who aren\u2019t in the same house.<\/p>\n Gather your ex\u2019s stuff and put it in a box. All of their clothes, gadgets, toiletries, sex toys<\/a> – the lot. This way, you can quickly and painlessly give it back to them. Hopefully, they\u2019ll be courteous enough to do the same for you.<\/p>\n If you have a pet, it\u2019s time to make a tough decision. Sharing custody of a pet isn\u2019t the same as sharing custody of children; shared custody rarely works.<\/p>\n In the eyes of UK law, a pet actually counts as property. So, it depends on who bought the fur baby or whether it was a gift. If you purchased it, the pet is yours. If it was gifted to you, the pet is yours.<\/p>\n A clear conversation is the best way to navigate pet problems. Sometimes, you might want to share ownership. But be warned, this can become difficult in the future.<\/p>\n Sending nudes isn\u2019t so taboo in a relationship. However, owning the nudes after a break-up is.<\/p>\n Remind your ex to delete naked pictures<\/a> or saucy videos<\/a>. And while you\u2019re at it – delete any you own.<\/p>\n In modern life, sharing subscription services is a form of digital commitment. So, when it all ends, it\u2019s time to fund your own Netflix account.<\/p>\n If you control the streaming services, you can simply remove their login from your account. If your ex-partner is in control, you\u2019ll likely try to log in one day and realise you\u2019ve been blocked.<\/p>\n It feels harsh, but it\u2019s the natural way of things these days. No one streams for free!<\/p>\n Nothing is more challenging than navigating a shared friendship group after a break-up.<\/p>\n If you\u2019ve been together for a while, you\u2019ve probably amassed a group of mutual friends. You\u2019ll need to break the news to these pals to prevent any future awkward situations.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t need to remove yourself from the friendships, though. Confide in your close friends and let them know you want to be buddies and that you don\u2019t wish for your break-up to affect the relationship.<\/p>\n Having a friend who will tell you if your ex will be at future events can be helpful. This way, you have a heads-up before going.<\/p>\n If your ex knows your passwords, it\u2019s time to change them all. Even if they\u2019d never try to use your accounts, you should swap them all just to be safe online<\/a>.<\/p>\n We know. This is one of the most tedious tasks. But you can make it easier by putting on a comfort film or podcast while you do it.<\/p>\n Deleting old photos is another tedious task and one that\u2019s more painful. However, with the rise of \u2018suggested photos\u2019 or \u2018memory\u2019 notifications, getting rid of photos of your ex has never been more important.<\/p>\n There\u2019s nothing more anxiety-inducing than your phone buzzing with a notification for a photo of your ex months after the relationship ended.<\/p>\n Sure, you might want to keep some vacation photos, and if you\u2019ve been together for years, it might take too long to delete every single shot. But deleting a bulk might make you feel better in the short term.<\/p>\n Like your photo album, it\u2019s time to decide if you want to delete any couple photos from your profile.<\/p>\n If the break-up is fresh, you might actually want to leave this one for a while. You\u2019ll be surprised how many social media <\/a>snoops will realise that the photos are missing, resulting in unwanted \u2018What happened?!\u2019 questions.<\/p>\n A break-up and a list of admin work? Yup, life just isn\u2019t fair. Break-up admin is a necessary evil, though. It helps you organise your life and gives you something to focus on while feeling down. In a way, it can even be quite freeing.<\/p>\n Take it slow, and don\u2019t rush if it doesn\u2019t feel right. You\u2019ve got this.<\/p>\nEvery break-up admin task you need to do<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Update your emergency contact<\/h3>\n
2. Gather their stuff<\/h3>\n
3. Pet custody<\/h3>\n
4. Naughty pictures<\/h3>\n
5. Subscription services<\/h3>\n
6. Consider your friends<\/h3>\n
7. Change your passwords<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n8. Clear your photo library<\/h3>\n
9. Social media<\/h3>\n
The takeaway<\/h2>\n