I'm travelling a lot in Southern England and now Wales for a first stint of 10 days. I've come out of a 20 year relationship several years ago with a man and had several sexual experiences with women...I'd like another one if the chemistry is right.

You will have to send me a couple of pics and I will reply if I'm interested. If that sounds unfair, you can always place your own ad and see what comes your way. Awake means that you are preferably unjabbed and it makes sense to you why I would look for that. I like art, film, writing, nature, travel, housesitting, friends and good music.

I'm hoping to reach someone who reads this and feels I'm a great match, whether a one off experience or more. You need to write good English and be able to tell me something interesting about yourself...saying "I'm free tonight" doesn't cut it!

I've been having tantric massage and it's pretty amazing for clearing some blocks to deeper pleasure. I can take charge or be taken charge of...its more about the mood and chemistry going where they want to and enjoying it as much as possible.