Whether you are looking for companionship or have a busy schedule which prevents you from easily meeting people, there are numerous reasons why you may consider hiring the services of an escort for the evening.
To get the best from your time, though, it’s imperative that you treat the escort with the respect they deserve, from the very beginning of your initial contact, right up until you part ways – just like you would anyone else.
- How to book a date with an escort
- Rules and etiquette you should follow
- What you should not do
- Final thoughts
How to book a date with an escort
The great thing about making a date with an escort these days is the ease of doing so.
With so many escort services available at the click of a button, there are hundreds to choose from.
But such a huge selection can also make it harder to know exactly who to pick and who is better suited to your individual needs.
Most reputable escort services, such as those advertised on Vivastreet, will have a dedicated classified section, in which the escort will have their own profile.
Here you will be able to find out what type of services the escort provides, and whether or not this fits with what you are looking for.
To get started and find that best choice, we recommend that you:
Do some research
Because it’s such a large industry, there are many choices when choosing which escort to spend time with. Take some time to scroll through a selection of adverts, getting an idea of what’s available, especially if this is your very first time using such services.
When you do make your decision about which escort you’d like to see, carefully read through their website or individual advertisement. Note anything relevant here, such as rates, etiquette, screening requirements, and services
Also, consider whether they offer incall or outcall visits and how and when you’ll be expected to pay for your meeting. You should also look to their preferred method of contact here.
Take note of the verification process required
If you’re booking directly with an escort agency, you’ll usually have to verify who you are. Check the requirements as some agencies may ask for one reference, with others asking for two. These can be supplied by escorts you’ve visited previously.
Even independent escort workers will want to ensure their clients are well screened before proceeding. Therefore, be as helpful as possible here and provide the relevant information asked for.
If this is your first visit, your escort may require a form of ID. Without these verifications, you won’t be able to proceed.
Compose a good initial message
Whether via email or through messaging the escort website itself, a polite and well-written message will include all the relevant information requested, as well as being specific in your request.
Mention you’ve come across their advert and would like to use their services.
Have a couple of time and date options to suit you and mention how long you’d like to book the session.
This part isn’t about perfect spelling, but rather an initial point of contact that should be straightforward and simple.
You may find that you prefer to make a date with an escort over the phone. Once again, this process should also be relatively simple.
Using near enough the same information you would via email, remain polite and above all be yourself. It may help to have a few notes written down to help you here, including dates, times, and any further questions.
Rules and etiquette you should follow
Once you’ve got your date booked with your preferred escort, you’ll be keen to get things moving. Most clients are thoroughly respectful of the escort, and the services being provided, treating their session with consideration.
Unfortunately, there are some clients who don’t.
To ensure that you behave with the utmost respect throughout your escort session, there are a few principle rules to bear in mind:
Make your own physical appearance a priority
You may have looked for your escort based on their fantastic physical features, and when you do turn up to your appointment you’ll find they have taken pride in their appearance to accommodate you.
Therefore, it’s only fair that you attend your session just as well kept. Be sure to shower and tidy yourself up and wear something clean.
A client who has obviously paid attention to his appearance is more appreciated in return and will gain more respect from their escort for this.
Make an effort to talk to your escort
No matter how nervous you may be feeling, engage in a conversation with your escort, and answer any questions they may have.
Though neither of you will want to go into too much personal detail, you’ll help calm and settle the atmosphere if you can have a little bit of a conversation.
There’s nothing more nerving than those awkward silences, so plan a little ahead about a few things you may want to discuss, even the weather. Anything that puts you at ease and creates a more pleasant environment for you both is worthwhile
Understand what is on offer beforehand
The role of an escort worker can vary greatly, so ensure you know precisely what services are on offer before you agree on your visit.
For example, some escorts do not offer full sex, whereas some may not allow other services.
It really is up to the escort in question here and not for you to try and persuade them otherwise.
This means when you do meet up, there should be no misunderstanding about what will happen, and your needs are fulfilled throughout the session.
Treat your escort with the utmost of respect, always
While this seems self-explanatory, for many escorts, a lack of respect is a common occurrence with clients. Yet, escorts are legitimate professional workers who always deserve to be treated with complete respect.
Be polite and honest and ensure that she, too, is comfortable throughout your time together.
An often-demanding industry, your escort will be more inclined to respect you and your preferences if you can show that same respect back.
Even if you’re feeling nervous and find yourself making mistakes, talk openly to your escort and clear the air.
No escort is a mind reader, and they can only make your experience a good one if you cooperate with them as best as possible
What you should not do
As well as etiquette and tips for what to do when meeting your escort worker, there are some ground rules as to what you should avoid doing during your session together.
Therefore do not:
- Pester for other services not initially agreed on – If you don’t see such services mentioned on the website, or you don’t agree on them before your session begins, don’t expect to be able to access them partway through your session.
- Barter for payment – Your escort worker is a professional, and therefore you should not expect to receive discounts or money off. Their services are offered via a legitimate business; they aren’t a marketplace.
- Encroach on your escort’s privacy – By all means, have a good conversation – but don’t put her in an awkward position, asking personal questions about family life or her personal social media account names.
- Become attached – You may find yourself enthralled with your escort, but they have a role to perform, and they will be unlikely to develop a one-on-one relationship with you.
- Get drunk – Having a tipple to steady your nerves is one thing – drinking like a fish before your visit is entirely another. Most people can’t control themselves when drunk, and your escort may have to refuse you before the session even begins if you’re considered to be intoxicated.
- Force yourself on your escort – Be mindful of the boundaries, and don’t expect to treat them with contempt. Violence is never accepted with any escort and will be reported to the police.
Finally, work to keep yourself safe as well, making sure the escorts and escort agencies you consider are reputable and have a good selection of reviews.
If you’re a beginner booking your first date, or looking to use the services of another escort, by following these few simple but essential rules above, once you do find your ideal escort, all that remains is for you to enjoy your meeting.
It’s important to remember that your escort experience will work well if you’re prepared to put effort into it and conduct yourself well.
Get your approach right, and you and your companion for the night will be able to enjoy the experience.