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Blended orgasms: What are they, how do they feel, and how do you have one?

The female orgasm is a wonderful experience. Unlike guys, women and people with vulvas can experience multiple orgasms. There are clitoral orgasms, G-spot orgasms, and even U-spot orgasms, which some women report having.

But did you know that you can have multiple orgasms simultaneously?

This is called a blended orgasm, which can be a mind-blowing experience when it happens.

Imagine the best orgasm you’ve had while rubbing your clit, and imagine the best orgasm you had while having penetrative sex. Now, imagine combining the two feelings into one. Sounds intense, right?

Blended orgasms are intense feelings that can make sex much more enjoyable. And in this article, we’ll get into what these orgasms are, how they can feel, and how you can have one with yourself, whether by yourself or with your partner.

Read on to learn more.

What is a blended orgasm?

As the name suggests, a blended orgasm is basically two types of orgasms simultaneously. Women benefit from multiple types of orgasms, which can all offer a great experience.

This can be a combination of any type of orgasms you can feel, but they are usually a combination of clitoral orgasms and a G-spot orgasm. As you might tell, these orgasms require different types of stimulation simultaneously and, when done right, can result in an intense feeling you might have never experienced.

How does a blended orgasm feel?

A blended orgasm can be one of the best experiences you’ll ever have in bed. Generally, clitoral orgasms tend to come faster as it stems from external stimulation. However, the G-spot orgasms are known to be even more mind-bending since it’s a feeling that starts from within and spreads throughout your whole body.

The two of these things happening at the same time result in an amazing feeling. It’s hard to describe as it’s really something you should try out yourself. But whatever you’re imagining when you think of having two orgasms at the same time is likely how a blended orgasm will feel for you, and that is why you might want to try figuring out how to have one yourself.


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Types of blended orgasms

As mentioned earlier, women have a lot of different orgasms. The thing about the female orgasm is that it hasn’t been studied that extensively and there’s a lot we don’t know about it. However, we know that women can orgasm from various sensations, and each of these orgasms has a distinct feeling.

Any combination of any type of orgasm will count as a blended orgasm. And to better understand the types of blended orgasms, let’s look at the types of orgasms women can experience in the first place.


This is the most common orgasm for a lot of women. This orgasm stems from clitoral stimulation. The clitoris is the pleasure centre of the vulva, so it’s very sensitive. This is why getting cunnilingus from your partner or rubbing your clitoris can feel really good.

The clitoral orgasm is one of the easier ones to achieve. This is usually the first type of orgasm women experience as it requires no penetration. When you rub or stimulate the clitoris the right way, it can result in a great orgasm that you can feel throughout your whole body.


This is the type of orgasm that can come from penetrative sex. The G-spot orgasm happens when a woman’s G-spot is stimulated. The G-spot is an area inside a woman’s vagina that’s about one inch inside the vaginal opening, which you can find on the upper vaginal wall, close to the belly button.

During intercourse, this area swells up and is very sensitive. This spot feels slightly raised and bumpy and can rub up on something going inside the vagina, whether that’s a penis, fingers, or a sex toy.

Hitting the G-spot can also result in an orgasm. Many women report that these orgasms feel very different from a clitoral orgasm as the feeling starts inside instead of outside. This is something that all women generally have, but it’s an area that is pretty tough to explore on your own, which is why many women aren’t that familiar with a G-spot orgasm.


Another type of orgasm that women can feel is anal orgasm. Women report that this feels very similar to a G-spot orgasm, instead, the sensation is more focused around the anal area. As you might be able to tell, this is something that can happen during anal sex.

Women can orgasm from anal sex because this area contains a lot of nerve endings, and stimulating it can be very pleasurable. Additionally, many women feel that their G-spot gets hit during anal sex due to the angle, which is another reason for the orgasm.


A few women can also orgasm when their urethral area is very gently stimulated. This isn’t that common, but it can still happen for some women. That said, some women claim that the U-spot orgasm is one of the best and most intense orgasms they have ever experienced.

There are many ways to stimulate the urethra gently. You can do it with your fingers, mouth, and sex toys. There are also certain positions during penetrative sex that you can try out that can stimulate the urethra and potentially lead to a U-spot orgasm.

We only mentioned some of the more common ways women can orgasm and the types of orgasms they can feel. Any combination of the above orgasms will count as a blended orgasm. However, the most common type of blended orgasm is a clitoral and G-spot orgasm since U-spot orgasms aren’t as common.

How to have a blended orgasm on your own

Before trying to achieve a blended orgasm with your partner, it might be best to try it on your own. That way, you can really figure out what kind of stimulation works best for you and what you can ask your partner to do to help you achieve a blended orgasm.

First, relax

To start, you might want to lie down on your back and relax. It’s very important to be calm and relaxed when trying to orgasm. If you’re tense or nervous, it might be harder or even impossible for you to have an orgasm.

From there, you can start lightly rubbing your clitoris until you start to feel aroused. Keep going until you feel like you’re about to orgasm, then stop. Then remove your fingers from your clit and slowly insert them inside yourself, around two inches inside, until you feel a spongy area inside your vagina, which is the G-spot.

Then start exploring

Trust us; you’ll know when you found your G-spot, as it will feel really warm and arousing when you start touching it. Remember, the G-spot is near the bladder, so you might have the urge to pee, but rest assured that this subsides after a couple of seconds.

When you start feeling aroused while massaging the G-spot, you can use your other hand to rub your clit again, or better yet, use a vibrator if you have one. Then, you have to trust your instincts and do as your body tells you.

Then, start touching yourself as much as you want and feel it right until you reach a mind-bending blended orgasm with your clit and your G-spot at the same time. It may take a couple of tries, especially if you don’t massage your G-spot often, but you won’t be able to miss it once you find the right spot.


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How to have a blended orgasm with your partner

Once you understand how to achieve a blended orgasm yourself, you can try it with your partner. Start by laying on your back with a pillow or two to raise your pelvis to make it easier for your partner to hit the G-spot. From there, have him slowly penetrate you and get going.

Once you feel like you’re about to orgasm, tell your partner to stop. Then, start rubbing your clitoris slowly until you feel aroused, and then stop before you orgasm and tell your partner to start going again.

You can switch between rubbing your clit and telling him to stop until you feel that it’s right to have him go while you’re rubbing yourself. Then, like when you experimented with yourself, keep going until you reach your climax, which will be a blended orgasm that blows your mind.

Best sex positions for a blended orgasm

The best sex position for a blended orgasm is one that allows your partner to hit your G-spot while also allowing you to rub your clitoris. Ideally, you want to be laying on your back on top of a couple of pillows to allow for the best G-spot stimulation and so that you can comfortably rub your clitoris.

However, you can also try out doggy style as this allows for deep penetration, and you can rub your clit. Or, you can get on top of your partner and start grinding on him while he is inside you, as this can stimulate both your clitoris and G-spot at the same time.

Best sex toys for a blended orgasm

The best sex toys for a blended orgasm are the ones you enjoy and feel comfortable with. However, here are some of the toys you may use to achieve a blended orgasm alone or with a partner:

  • Vibrators
  • Dildos
  • Butt plugs (vibrating ones for extra stimulation)

Just give it a go

If you want to experience a new level of sex, then a blended orgasm should be something you experience.

That said, this can be pretty tough and can take some trial and error. But once you understand what gets you on and what triggers your blended orgasm, you might be in for some of the best sex of your life.

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