Cumming is an essential part of sex. And while others would rather keep cum away from them, many people enjoy the feeling of cum on them. Some people enjoy swallowing it, playing with it in their mouth, or having it on different parts of their bodies.
This is called a cum kink, but some people also call it cum play. It is a very popular kink in many communities. But the thing is not everyone understands what it is, its appeal, and the different ways you can try it out.
And today, we’re here to end the misunderstandings around the kink.
- What is cum play?
- Where does cum play come from?
- What’s the appeal of cum?
- Different types of cum play
- The takeaway
In this article, we’ll explain what cum play is in full detail, where it comes from, whether it’s safe, and the different ways you can try it out yourself.
Read on to learn more.
What is cum play?
Cum play is a kink that’s similar to many other kinks. A kink is a consensual and non-traditional sexual preference that turns people on and gets them aroused. So, a cum kink refers to people getting turned on by cum.
One of the most common forms of cum play is the cumshot. This is when a male sexual partner ejaculates onto a person’s body. This can be on the person’s face, torso, butt, feet, and anywhere else. You can experiment any way you want and play around with cum in and on different areas of your body.
And just like any other kink, it’s a spectrum. So, some people enjoy cum way more than others.
For example, one of the extreme forms of cum play is eating frozen sperm. Many people enjoy collecting their partner’s semen after sex and putting it in the freezer until it solidifies. Then, later on, they will eat these cum ice cubes to satisfy their kink.
Some people even go through the effort of making dildos out of frozen cum and using it to give them intense orgasms.
So, there’s no one way for you to enjoy it.
If you aren’t keen on the extreme ways of practising it, you can try out simple cumshots, creampies, or having your partner cum in your mouth. But if you’re a bit more on the experimental side, you can do many different things with cum.
The only limit is your imagination.
Where does cum play come from?
Individuals and different cultures have experimented with cum play for all of human history. But probably the oldest example we can find is the act of bukkake.
If you’ve been on the internet before, you’ve probably already heard what bukkake is. Still, for the uninitiated, bukkake is the act of having several men ejaculate and cum on your body.
The act originated in Japan in the 1980s, but it didn’t take long for it to grow in popularity. This is probably because many people find cum and the act of cumming on another person hot. On top of that, the act of bukkake involves an element of humiliation, which is a huge turn on for many people.
That said, it wouldn’t be fair to say that cum play only comes from Japan.
It isn’t far off to assume that many people have a genuine interest and attraction to cum. This is an inherently erotic fluid, so it should be no surprise that the thought, sight, feel, taste, and smell can turn many people on.
The human interest in cum is complicated, but it’s also natural for many people. Some people are just turned on by cum. This could be more straightforward, like when your partner cums on your face or body. Or, it could be more extreme, like bukkake, cum eating, and more.
While we don’t know or can’t trace the first instance of cum play in human history, we do know that it’s very natural for many people. So, if you believe you have a cum kink, don’t be afraid to explore it, as there are many ways to do so.
What’s the appeal of cum?
If you’ve never heard about it, you might be wondering why people would enjoy playing with cum in the first place. This is completely understandable, so allow us to show you how and why cum play can be such a turn-on for people.
Keep in mind that there are many different kinds of cum play. So, while some people may fantasise about having multiple men cum on top of them, others prefer simple facials or creampies.
That said, one of the biggest appeals behind it is the sensation of having cum on you.
Cum is a fluid with a very distinct texture. You won’t mistake it for anything else, and many people get turned on by the sensation of having cum on them. The warm, slimy fluid sometimes feels nice on the skin, which is why so many people are into cum play.
On top of that, there’s also a humiliation aspect to playing with cum. For many people, cumming on someone is the perfect way to show dominance. And in consensual BDSM scenarios, this can be very hot.
Is cum play safe?
If you’re interested in trying it out, it’s important to address the potential risks of experimenting with cum. The thing is, just about any sexual act comes with an element of risk, and people need to understand the risks and take measures to reduce them. That way, they can explore their sexual desires in the safest way possible.
The first and biggest concern when experimenting with cum play is the risk of STIs. STIs and other infections can be passed to another person through bodily fluids, which include semen. So, before engaging in cum play with your partner, it’s very important that you both get tested beforehand and are familiar with each other’s status.
That way, you can try out different types of cum play without putting you or your partner at unnecessary risk.
On top of that, there are ways to enjoy cum play without using actual semen. If you or your partner wants to experiment with cum play but neither of you produces semen, there are many artificial fluids on the market. These lubricants imitate the consistency, colour, and even smell of cum to make for a very realistic experience.
And while the risk of contracting and passing an STI is present when practising cum play, it isn’t as big as you might think.
Semen isn’t dangerous for the body. So, you don’t have to worry about any adverse reactions after someone cums on you.
Additionally, it is neither unsafe nor beneficial to ingest cum. This is why you can swallow a person’s cum without worrying about getting sick afterwards.
There is no doubt that there are some risks to cum play, just like with any other sex act. However, many people fail to realise that the risks aren’t as big as they might seem on the surface level. So, as long as you trust your partner and are comfortable getting their cum on you, you can rest assured that playing with cum is generally safe.
But again, it doesn’t hurt to take extra precautions to ensure you don’t expose yourself or your partner to unnecessary risks.
Different types of cum play
As we just mentioned, there are quite a few ways for you to explore cum play. But before asking your partner to cum on you or cumming on your partner, it’s very important to have a conversation about it. That way, you understand each other’s boundaries, and both know what to expect.
And once you and your partner agree that you’ll try out cum play in the bedroom, there are many ways to try it out. Here are some examples of the types of cum play you can try out in the bedroom:
- Cum eating
- Cumming on clothes
- Sloppy seconds
- Self clean-up
For many people, seeing someone cum, feeling cum on their bodies, or having people cum inside them is a huge turn-on. But before you go ahead and try it out with your partner, we highly suggest talking to your partner about it first and establishing the boundaries.
You can enjoy cum play with your partner in many ways, so don’t be afraid to get creative when trying to satisfy your sexual desires.