When a client brings up a secret fantasy, it’s usually their way of hinting that they want to try it out. Indulging in client fantasies has many benefits for both of you. But do you know what the most common fantasies are? You might not guess some of these sexy scenarios…
- What are fantasies?
- Why indulge in fantasies?
- Top 10 fantasies you can explore with clients
- Client fantasies and boundaries: Staying grounded in reality
- The takeaway
Keep reading to find out the top 10 fantasies so you’re ready to meet your clients’ desires. Let’s go!
What are fantasies?
A fantasy is defined as a pleasant situation that you think about a lot and want to happen. This is usually applied to very unlikely events, but it’s not limited to these instances.
For sexual fantasies, this is usually something that seriously turns you on that you haven’t had the chance to explore. Taboo play and kink usually come to mind, and these are valid fantasies. But not all fantasies are dark or dirty! They can also be vanilla. The key component is a deep desire for the situation.
Why indulge in fantasies?
Whether or not we admit it, we all have fantasies. Some people seek to experience them, while others lock them away in a private box. There’s no right or wrong way to navigate fantasies. But they have some benefits for both clients and escorts. Here’s what you need to know:
Benefits for clients
- The chance to explore desire in a safe place
- Higher sexual fulfilment
- Better understanding of own sexual desires
- The chance to mix up their sex life
- Stronger orgasms
- Discovering more about their sexuality
Benefits for escorts
- Happier clients
- New experiences
- Chance to explore your own fantasies
- Higher chance of repeat business
- Ability to bond with the client
- Stable income (from repeat bookings)
- Good reviews
So, there are plenty of benefits for you and your clients. However, remember that you don’t have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable. While acting out a client’s fantasy centres their enjoyment, you must also ensure you’re safe and secure.
But more on boundaries and safety later. Let’s take a peep at the top 10 client fantasies they might want to try.
Top 10 fantasies you can explore with clients
Get ready to explore. Use this list to discover your own fantasies or to find information about your clients’.
1. BDSM
One of the most common client fantasies is trying out BDSM. Of course, BDSM is an umbrella term for lots of different scenarios, so you’ll need to gather more information to set up a scene for your client. However, they’ll likely want to be a dominant or a submissive. You should set up the session around their answer.
You should also find out if there are any other kinks they want to include. Common pairings include spanking, wax play, breath play, and shibari rope bondage. Don’t forget the aftercare!
Unsure how to get started? You might want to brush up on your kink escort services. Learn more about BDSM in our complete dominance guide.
2. Age play
Age play isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. However, it is a common fantasy that some clients may request. This might involve you (or them) acting older or younger than you are. A common example of this is the DDLG kink.
Only accept these requests if you’re comfortable exploring these taboo kinks without judgment. You should also ensure everything is consensual and legal. You can act younger without pretending to be underage.
3. Porn star experience
The porn star experience is such a popular fantasy that many escorts make it their main service.
This fantasy is all about acting out your client’s favourite porn scenes or just engaging in louder, sexier, and unrestricted sex. Standard sex isn’t always like it is in porn. So, indulging in this fantasy is all about mimicking adult films.
For those who enjoy kink, the porn star experience might also include dominance, submission, or other kinks.
4. Girlfriend experience
In contrast to the porn star experience, many clients may secretly wish for the girlfriend experience.
Rather than being only about sex, the girlfriend experience includes companionship, emotional connections, and intimate sex. Sometimes, this blurs the lines between a relationship and paid service – like being in a sugar relationship.
5. Cuckold
Another common fantasy that isn’t often talked about is cuckolding. This is a scenario when someone (the cuckold) watches their partner sleep with someone else. This can be applied to men and women but is more typical for men in a straight relationship.
If you’re not interested in cuckolding, it might sound strange. But the key to the arousal is the feeling of humiliation or simply seeing their partner from another viewpoint.
6. Threesome
Threesomes are one of the most common fantasies for men and women. You’ll likely be asked to join one in your career if you haven’t already.
A couple might ask you to be the “third” in their relationship for a night. Alternatively, a client may ask you and another sex worker to fulfil their fantasy. Whatever the scenario, make sure everyone sets boundaries and consents beforehand.
7. Erotic massage
Compared to other client fantasies on this list, an erotic massage might not seem so taboo. But the beauty of this fantasy is its simplicity. It’s all about engaging the erogenous zones and taking touch to the next level.
You can take this to the next level by learning tantric massage or tantric sex. Once you have these skills, you’re always ready to rock your client’s world.
8. Same-sex experiences
Another fantasy your client might want to enjoy is a same-sex experience. Exploring your sexuality can be a nerve-inducing feat. So, working through these steps with an open-minded escort can be helpful, and it can tick a sexy fantasy off their list.
9. Using sex toys
If sex toys aren’t anything new to you, they may seem like a mundane fantasy. However, for some clients, sex toys are forbidden fruit, and using them might be the ultimate taboo turn-on.
Alternatively, their fantasy might include you using the toys on them. Pegging is a popular example, but it’s only the tip of the iceberg. Unleash your collection and see which toys excite them most.
10. Anal sex
Finally, anal sex is another one of the ultimate client fantasies. Not all escorts will offer this, and you shouldn’t add it to your services unless you want to. However, when done safely, this can be a super sexy way to explore new sensations with your clients.
Don’t skip our beginners’ guide to anal sex if this fantasy is new to you!
Client fantasies and boundaries: Staying grounded in reality
Sexual fantasies are a great way to improve orgasms and heighten sexual desire. However, setting boundaries and getting consent beforehand is critical. If neither party consents, you shouldn’t move on with the fantasy play.
You should also regularly check in with your client during the play to ensure they’re still enjoying it. Using a safeword is a great way to guarantee you can stop anytime during the experience.
The takeaway
Diving into fantasyland is a great way to learn new things and experience more pleasure. We hope this article has helped you learn more about common client fantasies and how you can explore them with your clients.
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